Gain is not necessarily good, loss is not necessarily bad?

Ordinary people only know that advantages are advantages and disadvantages are disadvantages, and only people with great wisdom can understand this truth: blessings and misfortunes can be transformed into advantages, and advantages can be transformed into disadvantages. Therefore, gaining is not necessarily a good thing, and losing is not necessarily a bad thing; Success is not necessarily a good thing, and failure is not necessarily a bad thing; Good things can turn into bad things, and bad things can turn into good things.

The ancient people lost a horse, not lost, not discouraged, they felt that after the disaster is a blessing, as long as they know how to let go, it is impossible to keep the disaster trapped. Modern people lose a bag of money, worry all day long, sad face, go home alone and cry like tears, and even for these things for a long time unhappy, unable to let go, let their body and mind in a kind of torment and unhappiness.

Due to different ways of living and minds, the former turns bad things into good, and the latter makes bad things worse after being processed by their own imagination and emotions.

The above is just our superficial understanding of blessings and misfortunes, honor and disgrace, if according to Lao Tzu's realm and vision, we are not into the stream, not into the eyes of his old man, we understand or even distort his thoughts in this way is equivalent to putting a knowledgeable college student into a primary school student to listen to the class, this college student will definitely be full of disdain and incomprehension. It's easy to understand disdain, but why is it incomprehensible?

Because ants don't understand eagles (ants only value their own nests), lambs don't understand lions (lambs are only interested in the grass in front of them), and because Nietzsche said that when you are farther and farther away from the mediocrity, you will become more and more small in the eyes of the mediocrity, which actually means that you will be less and less understood, and loneliness is the fate of the strong.

After going through many things, you will see things better. In other words, loss is not necessarily loss, gain may not be gain, you lose something, you will be sad and sad, but you can't think of what you get after you lose such a thing, of course, after you get something, you will be happy and happy, but you will not think of the loss it brings you.

A man wins the lottery and wins the million-dollar jackpot, but when he takes it back and shares it with his wife, something happens. The reason is that his wife saw that he had so much money and wanted him to give her half of it, and the man loved his wife very much, so he gave the money to his wife, and when his wife deposited the money in her bank card, he filed for divorce from the man, because before the man won the lottery, their family was very poor, and his wife had long been tired of this life, so a loving couple separated like this. The man used the money to start his new life after this incident and eventually became the chairman of a company.

He got the money but lost the love, but after he lost it, he worked hard to achieve success that he could never have imagined before. So you can't think of what you're going to lose when you get it, and you can't think about what you're going to get when you're lost.

<> "Gaining is not necessarily a blessing, losing is not necessarily a curse?

Life has its own ferry, each has its own boat, and your team's regret may actually have escaped a catastrophe.

Fiddle with the firewood, rice, oil and salt in your hands to protect the poetry and distance in your heart.

Mediocrity, grip like me, boring like me, lonely like me, and there is only one me, and all living beings will pass by.

There is a fate, you can't avoid it, you can't touch it, you can't touch it, you can't get away with

We are often satisfied with what we have gained and regret because we have lost.

Be proud of your success, and be negative because of your failure.

In fact, people's lives are a process, what to be proud of, what to be angry about.

Getting it is not necessarily a blessing;

Loss is not necessarily a curse.

Each person has its own noisy advantages, each has its own position, each has its own fate, and each has its own value.

Sometimes it's because of an accident, sometimes it's lost, it's to eliminate disasters.

Some get, not necessarily long-lasting;

Some are lost, not necessarily not again.

There is no way to be blessed, the world is unpredictable, and if you lose your horse, you don't know if it's a blessing.

People can't fight for the sky, and they can't count their lives, some of them always exist, and what they don't have can't grab.

Look down on life, live freely, look at yourself, and live with peace of mind.

Don't care about what you gain and what you lose, don't care about what you have and what you miss, everything has its own cause and effect, and accept the arrangement with optimism.

Be a man, don't be harsh on others, don't blindly demand yourself, and don't be jealous of others.

Keep a kind heart, be an upright person, be tolerant of others, be strict with yourself, and even if you lose something, you will be made up for it in another way.

Life is smiling, and you don't compare yourself with others.

You have your happiness, I have my happiness, you have what you have, I have what I get, no matter who it is, there is a loss.

Every step of life comes at a price.

Everyone gets something they want, and they lose something they don't want to lose.

Getting is not necessarily enjoyment.

It is a blessing to get the ascension you need;

He who desires too much is tired.

All kinds of life, no matter the joys and sorrows, face them calmly.

I saw it, losing it was an experience, I figured it out, and it was just an accident that I got it.

I am fortunate to have gained, I have lost my life, accept the arrangement, and calm my mind.

What is gained may not be gained, and what is lost may not be lost.

Hello dear, very happy to answer for you: what you get may not be gained, what you lose may not be lost This sentence means that what you get may not be really gained, what you lose may not be the real loss, metaphor Some things are lost just an illusion, you are likely to get it back from which aspect. After experiencing many things, the perspective of things will be improved.

In other words, losing is not necessarily a loss, gaining may not be gaining, you lose something, you will be sad and sad, but you can't think of what you get after you lose such a thing, when the key is closed, you get a thing, you will be happy, but you will not think of the loss it brings you. I hope it helps you and I wish you a happy life.

<> "Getting the heart is a blessing and losing the heart is a curse."

Life has its own ferry, each has its own boat, and the regret you think may actually be that you have escaped a catastrophe.

Fiddle with the firewood, rice, oil, salt, and Zen in your hand to protect the poetry and distance in He Quehao's heart.

Fiddle with the firewood, rice, oil and salt in your hands to protect the poetry and distance in your heart.

There is a fate that can't be avoided, no fate can not touch, the origin of the fate gathers the fate, the fate is late, the fate is scattered, and the fate comes, and the annoyance goes away.