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Here's how I understand it. The bad guys did a good thing. People will change some of their preconceived notions about him.
A good guy did a bad thing. People will also change some of their preconceived notions of him. But these are two different directions.
You know, bad people do good. And the good man behaves from evil. The same is change.
The direction is not the same. And everyone's eyes are not only to see the present, but also to the future.
It has always been said that "from good is like ascending, from evil is like collapsing". This is about how we do things, and learning to do well is like climbing a mountain, with every step difficult. It takes a long and hard effort. And learning badly, like a mountain collapsing, the situation is immediately irreparable.
So, it's hard for bad people to do a good thing. Because it's a qualitative change. Probably his conscience found. Or rather, the hearts of the people are not lost. A flash. Everyone's affirmation of his incident is his hope for the future.
Opposite. A good guy did a bad thing. The first thing that comes to mind is how could he do this?
The next thing I think is, is this good guy's previous performance a disguise? Because this fact is surprising. This time it was a shock to everyone.
I am even more afraid that this good person will become bad from now on.
So it's not really a question of forgiving or not forgiving. What is past is what is in the past. What's in front of you is the most important. Doing good deeds should be recognized. And doing bad things must be condemned and punished. This is the right way.
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This is not necessarily, and it is not easy for a bad person to be forgiven for doing good deeds.
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It's like the inherent impression of a person, once he does something more abnormal, it will make others change his inherent impression.
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In fact, this world is not fair.
A lot of things can't be justified.
That's the kind of thing you say.
Actually, it's also true.
It is indeed a lot of good people who have done good deeds in their lifetimes.
But never remembered.
But did a bad thing.
It will make others unforgivable.
That's how good people don't remember you.
But you did a bad thing.
Others remember you for a lifetime.
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Buddhism has a saying that human nature is inherently evil, and through the influence of the human world, doing good deeds washes away filth. The three-character scripture says: At the beginning of man, his nature is good. It's just that the acquired habits and experiences lead to the good side being covered up.
In any case, whether it is good or evil, in short, people's character is not eternal, but in a process of dynamic change; People are more receptive to "bad people doing good things" than "good people doing bad things". Although not absolute, for the former, people always spit on more than understand.
There is an interesting phenomenon in human memory: people are always fond of beginning impressions and recent impressions. Just like a piece of writing, the beginning and end are always impressive; That's why people always emphasize the importance of first impressions.
And the biggest difference between "bad people doing good things" and "good people doing bad things" is the recent impression. "Good person" is the beginning of the impression, "doing bad things" is the recent impression, and those who know it well may sigh and sympathize with his experience. Those who are not in the know only take recent impressions, so it is understandable not to understand or even abuse.
Therefore, it is not possible to simply take things at face value. Referring only to the fact that "good people do bad things", maybe this "good person" is not a good person in the real sense, but he is better disguised? Maybe this "bad thing" may become a "good thing" in the future.
For different people at different times, the value of the same thing is also changing, how can it be generalized!
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Right or wrong, right or wrong....
In fact, everyone understands it in their hearts.
Throw away some selfish choices.
True or wrong....Glance.
Since it's done badly.
You have to pay the price.
It hurts too much....It is unforgivable!
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Forgiveness is not the way, it is necessary to educate him and let him know that things are very important.
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