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1. Don't deliberately please anyone, don't try to guess what others think, listen to your inner voice more, care more about your own feelings, love yourself, and you will be loved.
2. Don't deliberately please someone, be with whoever you are comfortable with. If there is a glass cup in front of everyone, there will be a glass ballast, hold the cup, don't pick up the ballast, prick your hands!
3. Don't deliberately please someone, give the best to others, and forget yourself. In the end, I found that I didn't get anything, and I was left with regret.
4. Don't deliberately please someone, or alienate a person, those who like you will always like you, and those who hate you will always hate you to death.
5. Don't deliberately try to please a person, because then you will always be able to revolve around him, and you can kick far when you don't need it.
6. Don't deliberately try to please someone, you should improve your ability, and it is more powerful to please others than to enrich yourself!
7. Don't deliberately please anyone, there's nothing wrong with liking someone, it's wrong that the person you like doesn't like you, and you're still so serious. It is the face that falls in love at first sight, and what is in love over time is the future.
8. People always have their own bottom line, don't always try to please others, put themselves too humble, have their own bottom line, and if you are left out, don't deliberately please, what is yours is yours, not yours, what you do will not return to your hands.
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1. Don't exhaust your life, it's possible to change his sentence.
2. Don't just like it, forget that it must be a two-way street.
3. The twisted melon is not sweet, and the love that comes to please is not fresh.
4. What you pay is full of enthusiasm, and what he sees is ashes and sighs.
6. Touching is never heartbeat, don't take his soft-heartedness as accommodation.
7. The moon never whispers to the stars, because it is not all the way at all.
8. Never take loving someone as everything, there is no big deal except life and death.
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Love that is low to the dust often can't be exchanged for a happy ending. Some sentences that don't humble to please a person are shared with you, nine points like one point of dignity, what is the next sentence? Don't forget dignity in love.
1. Don't be humble enough to ask for a good person's sentence
1. Don't exhaust your life, it's possible to change his sentence.
2. Don't just like it, forget that it must be a two-way street.
3. The twisted melon is not sweet, and the love that comes to please is not fresh.
4. What you pay is full of enthusiasm, and what he sees is ashes and sighs.
6. Touching is never heartbeat, don't take his soft-heartedness as accommodation.
7. The moon never whispers to the stars, because it is not all the way at all.
8. Never take loving someone as everything, there is no big deal except life and death.
9. There are some things, even if you work hard to get them, you will find out in the end that they are nothing more than that.
10. True love, if you don't do anything, just stand there, you will love you very much.
Second, nine points like a point of dignity in the next sentence2. I don't know what to do, and I go deep. Hate nowhere to be found, smile and smile.
3. I can walk 10,000 steps to see you, and I am willing to take 10,000 steps back to leave you.
4. Ferry with you, reach the shore and return to each other, afraid of no return, afraid of empty joy, afraid that the person who comes is not you.
5. Multiple people intrude into your life just to teach you a lesson, and then turn away.
6. Later, you finally became someone else's story, and I was no longer the storyteller.
7. I don't have a so-called safe haven, even if the wind and rain are crazy, I have to go alone.
8. Never explain, people who understand you don't need to; People who don't understand you don't deserve it.
9. When you come, you bring wind and rain, and I have nowhere to avoid. When you left, the four seasons were chaotic, and I was sick for a long time.
10. For a lifetime, you have to believe in this one: you don't need to work hard to keep it, and you don't need to work hard to keep it.
Conclusion: The humble party in love is often the most vulnerable party, so even if you have nine points of like, don't forget that point of dignity.
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Everyone has their own youth, and they have met one or two people who are really excited, and even humbled for the so-called love, pleased, but they are deeply trapped in it, unable to extricate themselves, often just hurting themselves, if a person has no feelings for you at all, then no matter how hard you try, you can't warm his heart.
The friends around her persuaded Xiaoya to give up, there are many good men, why bother to fall in love with someone who doesn't love you? Xiaoya didn't think so, she said that it was not easy to meet the right person, I just liked him, as long as I paid enough, one day he would look back at me.
In the days to come, Xiaoya still insists on her love, and will send messages to each other every day, even if the other party only replies with an expression or one or two words, until later, it is no longer possible to return love, although Xiaoya is disappointed, but she has never given up, the boy is in trouble, she will always be the first to arrive, and she will do everything to help him, as long as the other party says thank you, Xiaoya feels very satisfied.
It is good to love someone and take the initiative, but if you are too humble, your feelings will become cheap, after all, the easier it is to get, the less it will be cherished.
No matter how much Xiaoya pays, the boy never appreciates it, he knows Xiaoya's intentions, but if he doesn't feel it, he doesn't feel it, if he wants to be together because of a momentary touch, it is unfair to himself and Xiaoya, if he doesn't feel it, he can't force himself to treat Xiaoya sincerely, the boy knows this very well, so he never accepted Xiaoya's confession, on the contrary, for Xiaoya who frequently appeared in front of him, the boy also began to feel bored.
Until that time, Xiaoya saw the boy on the road, a group of people should have just finished the meeting and were about to go back, Xiaoya was so happy that she took the initiative to say hello, but she didn't expect the boy's face to be unhappy, and he said: Are you annoying, do you want to follow me when I have a meal?
The person next to him also quipped: Is this the cheap girl you are talking about? I've been sticking to you and not letting go of that, and today I finally saw it.
After finishing speaking, several people began to laugh again, Xiao Ya only felt that there was no face at that time, all the efforts were like a joke, and even used as a talking point, at that moment, Xiao Ya seemed to be a lot more sober, for a person she didn't love, how blind she became, and in the end she got nothing but scars.
In the world of feelings, if a person does not have a good impression of you, it is best to stop the loss in time, all the troubles are actually self-inflicted, humble love will only make people sympathetic, but not in exchange for any respect, love a person should not be pleased, but need to be in an equal state, if the other party does not have you in their hearts, then proudly turn away, why bother to lower their value, wronged themselves to humble please, if you do not know how to advance and retreat in the relationship, in the end will only make yourself physically and mentally exhausted, nothing.
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No. Loving someone is not to be humble and pleased. Love is mutual, it's a matter of two people. If you become humble in order to please the other person, you can only make yourself very passive, and it will also make the other person feel very constrained.
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No, blindly humbling and pleasing the other party will only make the other party more and more disgusted or take it for granted, and gradually the relationship between the two parties will be unequal, so it is not a normal love relationship.
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No. True love should go both ways. You must learn to love yourself before you love others. Because no one likes you to fall into the dust. Only when you become better yourself, will others like you.
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This is because most of the love is to get rewarded for the purpose of effort, so if we humble to please a person who has not loved you, it is likely that there is no return, that is to say, two people have no result in the end, so it proves that your current efforts are in vainTherefore, instead of humbly pleasing others, it is better to treat yourself well, or start a new relationship, Buddhism has also said not to be attached to let go, so we think about it calmly, and we will understand the truth. Of course, it is difficult for many people to give up a relationship that requires a lot of effort, and if this is the case, I suggest you try the following methods:
1. Calm down for a while
I know it's very difficult for someone who is eagerly pursuing someone to calm him down for a while, but I would say that this method is often one of the most effective methods, because from a psychological point of view, if you can't calm down and think about the problem, then you will be in a situation where you will be more and more unable to let go, and this will make you pay more and more unreasonably.
2. Start a new relationship
Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. I know that many people do understand the truth of this sentence, but it is extremely difficult to do it themselves, but the truth is that if we really do it according to this sentence, then we will find a new world, in fact, sometimes we have to admit that it is really our own vision is too narrow, limiting ourselves to an absolute realm, when we give up this attachment, and start a new relationship, we will find that there are still many beautiful things in the world.
3. Only pay to people who are good to you
I remember that there was a book about a person, the sign of true maturity is to recognize who is good to you, who is not good to you, and to do only for the person who is good to you is the real maturity, so I advise everyone to really clear their minds, seriously think about who you should pay, who is not worth your pay.
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Because you are easily hurt in this way, the more humble you try to please him, the more he will have to make inches, constantly breaking your bottom line, making you lose yourself, and he will not love you.
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Since this person does not love you, then this person does not have any pity and importance for you. No matter how humble you try to please him, he won't look at you in his eyes. So don't be humble enough to please someone who doesn't love you.
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Because of such a humble way to please a person you don't love, even if you get it in the end, it won't last long, it will only make the humble person who pays more and more tired!
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Because no matter how much you please the person who doesn't love you, it will not lead to results, and in the end, you will be hurt in the end. There are many things that you will see hope if you work hard, but love is not, and no matter how much you don't feel it, you will be moved.
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Because you humbly try to please someone who doesn't love you. He will only hate you even more, feel that you have no dignity, and will choose to stay away from you.
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We call this kind of person a spare tire or a licking dog, these people are undoubtedly despised by many people in the world, people have to live with dignity, and even lose their own dignity, is that person still called a person.
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