Why do you say that you should not get pregnant before marriage and get married?

Doing so will only make yourself cheaper, even if you marry your son, the man will marry you in a hurry for this reason, and it is easy to anger you and betray you for a little thing in the future, this kind of union is difficult to get to the end of the day! Therefore, girls should learn to love themselves and not expect to get pregnant before marriage to achieve the purpose of marriage, which is a stupid behavior. Be sure to be reserved, let your boyfriend love you from the heart, and you will definitely get true happiness after marriage!

And such love does not fade with the passage of time!

Many couples will push the relationship between the two to a further step because of the strong love during the relationship, resulting in the woman's pregnancy, but if the relationship between the two does not reach the time to establish a family, forced to become husband and wife out of desperation, future life conflicts will appear, which is unfair to both parties, and should be carefully considered whether the two are suitable for life.

In fact, the long-term happiness of marriage is related to the marriage partner and the family of the marriage partner, and there is no absolute relationship with whether or not the child is married. The reason why we feel that there are more couples around us who get married with their children end up getting divorced, in fact, because they were pregnant at the time, and marriage was immediately put on the agenda, which shortened the time of love, and there was no better way to think about some things, because love alone in marriage is indeed not enough. Therefore, once you enter marriage, especially after the birth of a child, there are more trivial things, and it is easy to have conflicts and problems when you have deep feelings, not to mention that you have no stable emotional foundation at the beginning and get married in a hurry.

Therefore, in the end, it is easy to get divorced.

The first willingness is because the young individuals are not psychologically mature. The parties to the marriage do not have the consent of the mother and father. The third is.

The husband and wife have not thought about their married life after careful consideration, and the latter one is that they have different concepts of age and age, and the husband and wife are married in the process of their marriage. In the process of raising children, there is no experience. The last one is the current economic pressure, which has made a very terrible pressure on each of us.

Although the marriage of Fengzi has fulfilled the legal marriage procedures and become a marriage accelerator, its hidden dangers are also obvious, a survey shows that the investigation report on the reasons for divorce in a district shows that the contradiction caused by "Fengzi marriage" is one of the main reasons for the divorce after the 80s, in addition, from the perspective of psychological adaptation, the maladaptation in the face of the sudden role of husband and wife and the role of parents leads to this kind of marriage is very easy to divorce.

More and more people are marrying with their children, as well as because of age or pressure from their parents. Many people around me first found out that they were pregnant with a child before they thought about getting married. Think about it from another angle, is it possible to drag on as long as you don't conceive?

Why not? Because the two parties do not feel that the relationship is so deep that they recognize each other as a lifelong dependence, they are willing to use the form of marriage to maintain and prove this relationship. Many couples' relationships have become family affection in the later stage, and there is a kind of life in which he can, but it seems that he can change another one.

I'm one of the few good ones who have ever conceived before marriage.

Because the woman's body is liberated. Without moral constraints, where can a happy marriage come from. All the dirty behavior that happens is taken for granted at the moment.

As a result, there is no sense of family honor and disgrace, only a sense of living in the "moment". A woman who doesn't know that she has a great responsibility to live - to raise offspring, this is the sorrow of the times, and even the sorrow of mankind!

The difference is: if you get married with a child, you want to get married, and if you get pregnant before you get married, you have a child without getting married, but you don't know if you will get married in the end. Unmarried childbearing and Feng Zicheng shouting marriage are what Zheng Rangchun has in common, what they have in common is that they both have children, but the obvious difference is that Feng Zicheng gets married, and he will eventually get married, that is, even if he has children, he will get married immediately, and this kind of will definitely get married.

On the other hand, having children before marriage is after giving birth to a child, but you don't know if you will get married, and you may or may not get married. Nowadays, there are many cases of marriage in society, and of course, there are some unmarried pregnancies, in short, these situations can be said to be relatively common.

The difference between getting pregnant out of wedlock and getting married with a child is that if you get married with a child, you will definitely get married after that. Pregnancy before marriage is when you have children when you are not married, but you are not sure whether you will get married. The common point is that they all have children, but the difference is that they must get married when they get married, and they don't necessarily get married if they get pregnant before they get married.

Whether it is unmarried pregnancy or marriage with a child, both are helpless and suspicious, which may be unfair to the woman, because the child limits the choice of spontaneous combustion.

When falling in love, the woman should know how to protect herself, keep her eyes open to see the character and quality of the object, and if it is not suitable for herself, she should stop the loss in time and cut the mess quickly, so as not to fall into the abyss and be unable to extricate herself.

When you still have room for development and still need to develop, you should choose carefully, try not to get pregnant before marriage or marry a child, life and marriage are your own, and you need to make your own commitments and trade-offs.

My cousin was pregnant out of wedlock, she directly told her parents that she wanted to marry the child's father. At first, her parents disagreed, and then she went on a hunger strike for a week, and her mother felt sorry for her daughter to compromise first, and then persuaded her father to agree to the marriageSo my cousin got married

I think my cousin is a bit direct and not easy for my parents to accept. You can talk to the more enlightened elders in the family first, and then let the elders and your parents talk about itLay a foundation for youThen you go and explain the whole thing to your parentsI think it's easier for your parents to accept a turn like this.

In addition, I feel that the female digging hall destroys the child or is judged to learn to protect herself, because whether it is a baby or a miscarriage, it directly hurts the girl's body, and no matter how anxious her boyfriend or husband is, she can only watch from the side, and she can't share any danger and pain for herselfAs a girl, you must take care of your body.

Many, especially in rural areas, births out of wedlock are actually common. Because the countryside is not more developed than the city, the economic conditions of Zheng Kongyingduo's family are not rich, and then coupled with the scarcity of educational resources, many children go out to work after graduating from junior high school, and some even stop studying after graduating from primary school.

Therefore, children go out of society early to work hard, and then meet some people of the opposite sex, start to fall in love, play friends, go out alone and be young and vigorous, sometimes it will be difficult to control themselves, and then it will naturally happen to some, and there will be children.

Although they are not old enough to get a license, their bodies have matured, so there are cases of children born out of wedlock. My brother's classmate was almost shouting that Cong also had a wife at the age of 18 and then gave birth to two children. Even if you haven't gotten a marriage certificate yet, but the children have already been born, you can be considered settled, and it is understandable to wait for the age to be enough to make up for the marriage certificate.

Even, in the eyes of some rural elders, they still encourage these young people to get married and have children early, one is to continue the future generations as soon as possible, and the other is to help their children take care of their children when they have nothing to do, and enjoy the joy of family.

In short, although the phenomenon of having children out of wedlock is discouraged, there are many examples of it. It may be a little bad in reputation, but as long as the young couple is loving and the relationship is stable, then it will have no impact on the two families, and children born out of wedlock can have a happy life.

Legal analysis: If you are unmarried and pregnant, you can get a marriage certificate and birth permit in time before the child is born, which is generally not a violation of the family planning policy, please consult the local health commission and family planning office.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050 After the marriage is registered, according to the agreement between the man and the woman, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family with a rough rent.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

I myself can't accept unmarried pregnancy, and many people in the entertainment industry are pregnant unmarried because if they don't announce their marriage, maybe the other half of the big belly will not be able to hide it, and everyone may be guessing who the child is, and if the man doesn't stand up and admit it at this time, it may also damage his personal imageTherefore, in the matter of getting pregnant before getting married, they generally take the initiative to admit it, and they can talk about it casually when they fall in love, but if the woman is unwilling to do it when she is pregnant, the man can only take the initiative to admit it.

But in reality, I think there may be very few girls who can accept their unmarried pregnancy, although there are many such things now, but many unmarried pregnancies, and then most of them regret it after marriage, I have a few friends around me who are like this, a total of four friends are unmarried and pregnant, and now there are two people who are divorcing, and they are also dead and alive in love, but now they are hating old and dead.

The man's parents naturally hope to be able to marry a daughter-in-law and bring a grandchild without spending a penny, but the girl's parents really don't want their daughter to get pregnant before marriage, why, because many times once a girl is pregnant, many things will no longer go according to your ideas, the wedding you want, the house and car you want, the bride price you want, many times will shrink because of pregnancy.

This is too many such things in reality, if you can be a girl, you can fall in love, or you can say that you live together before marriage, after all, many people feel that not living together may not be able to better understand this boy, but you really have to protect yourself, sometimes you are forced to make a choice when you are pregnant, or marry each other, but many times you may not be very satisfied, but if you don't get married, your body may be hurt, so it's better to protect yourself.

I am unmarried and pregnant, and I am now 6 and a half months pregnant, and my daughter (born to my ex-husband) takes care of me at home during the day, and my husband is out to earn money to support the family.

First of all, we need to know that marriage refers to the situation where both men and women have to marry for various reasons after having children first. For me personally, I don't accept being pregnant out of wedlock, and the erosive life of a star in the entertainment industry is unacceptable to me.

It is unacceptable, unmarried pregnancy is equivalent to not having any post-marital benefits and guarantees, which always gives people a feeling of insecurity, and unmarried pregnancy is not responsible for herself and her husband, and she must get married.

The most important thing is that both parties have decided whether to marry without a clear intention to get married, or whether there is a negotiation between the parents of both parties, after all, unmarried pregnancy may not have any guarantee for the future, so I can't accept unmarried pregnancy.

I think most people in this era should be able to accept unmarried pregnancy, after all, it is free love, and many young couples will live together before marriage.

I can't accept this kind of behavior, I think this is a manifestation of moral corruption, and this kind of woman is also very unreliable.

Of course, I can't accept being pregnant out of wedlock, I think this kind of woman looks really frivolous, not a woman who can marry home.

I can accept being pregnant out of wedlock, this is a normal physiological need, as long as the people who love each other are willing to be responsible for each other, I can accept it.

I will not accept being pregnant before marriage, I will not live with the other party before marriage, girls have to learn to protect themselves, it is very irrational to let yourself be hurt.