Is it sad to have men and women left, and who is more sad to have men and women?

Hello! This problem is related to the mentality of leftover men and women, and the sense of resistance to frustration, it doesn't matter whether it is sad or not, the key is to look at your own mentality! Maintain an optimistic and peaceful attitude, believing that you will definitely find the person who is not the best but the most suitable for you in the near future, or believe that even if you are alone, you will live a wonderful, fulfilling, and happy life, so you will not feel sad, and others will not think that he or she is pathetic; If you pessimistically think that you are inadequate, that it is difficult to attract the attention of the opposite sex, that you have been lonely all your life, or that you are particularly good, and that no person of the opposite sex is suitable for tying the knot with you, then he or she will be pathetic, and others will think that he or she is pathetic.

I think that the social phenomenon of leftover men and women is sad! (The increasing divorce rate is also a direct cause of this phenomenon).

The object of marriage is not to find the best, but to find the most suitable for yourself. Although it has a certain relationship with appearance, education, and family background, it is by no means the main thing, the key is to see their connotation and extension, whether the world view, outlook on life, values, and family outlook are on the same level. I don't quite agree with the prevailing view of marriage (which is a social pathology).

Imagine a person with a normal mind, in terms of pure feelings, who wants to find someone who is very different in age from him? Unless he or she has other plans! Nowadays, there are many young girls (money worshippers) who want to marry economic men (men with appearances) who are ten or more years different from their age, and they don't even care about divorce, widowhood, and having children.

I'm going to ask rhetorically, do you really not care? Or is there something else going on? Moreover, statistics in recent years show that the average life expectancy of men is four years shorter than that of women.

Such people are pathetic! Because she (he) equates money (young and beautiful) with happiness, and will eventually reap the consequences, and also let society bear the ultimate consequences of their cause, that is, the previous tragedy is reversed!

To sum up, it is not sad to have men and women left, and it is sad to marry the wrong one!

There's nothing sad about it, some people don't want to get married that early. For the time being, live alone by yourself, whether it is 1 person or 2 people, as long as life is optimistic and positive, there is nothing to be sad about, and what should be done is done as usual!

Doesn't seem to be anything sad. Some of them are just fate that has not yet arrived.

There's nothing sad about it, it's just that I didn't find the right one, but it's better to put your mind right, and don't always feel that the good is behind, otherwise you may miss it...

Let love no longer be "left"??

I'm sure it's going to be left ...

Nothing sad though.

What's so sad about this, the real problems of society exist now. It's just a simple social phenomenon, nothing sad!!

The main thing is that living happily is the last word!!

Actually, to be honest, I don't like the words leftover men and leftover women at all.

I don't know about the leftover men, but I'll talk about the leftover women. With the improvement of the national education level, many girls are highly educated and good-looking, people have their own income, and like those white-collar workers or something, the income is generally very high, and they can afford to support themselves, why should they rely on a man's life, but also have to take care of each other's parents, meet the good ones, meet the bad, every day the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has made you have no energy to work or anything.

I saw a report on the Internet, saying that a woman must let her parents be present when she gives birth, because you don't know what is waiting for you, someone commented that when she was giving birth, dystocia and hemorrhage, the doctor asked her husband at the time to keep the big or the small, his husband said to keep the big, but her mother-in-law refused, she had to let the child, her husband couldn't, her father-in-law beat her husband, her husband later compromised, and when he was about to sign, the woman's parents came, and they had to be a daughter, and then the doctor kept the big one.

Just imagine, there should be a lot of such examples, what will the girl think after seeing it, and dare to marry? In order to give birth to a boy, some families let their wives risk their advanced age to give birth, what if something bad happens? Ever thought about it?

People also want what they want, why should they take their lives for you.

So let's just say, leftover women sometimes don't mean that they can't get married or whatever, it's just a way of life for other people, why cater to your ideas for this society, for the sake of secular eyes, the current society will invisibly give people a lot of bad things.

If you don't get married, the neighbors will say, you have a problem, or others don't want it, don't you think it's boring?

My classmate's sister is in her thirties and is not married, and now she has bought a house by herself, and when she is free, she travels abroad or goes shopping with her girlfriends.

So don't easily give others the label of leftover women and leftover men, not to be picked by others leftover, thank you!