How can we maintain the longevity and warmth of friendship?

It's a good thing to want to maintain a friendship for a long time, but I don't think it's necessary to deliberately maintain the so-called friendship heat, because everyone has their own life.

I don't know if you've noticed this phenomenon, when a person starts his own family, a person and his friends will become more and more distant. This distance does not mean the distance in the heart, but the distance distance. Because at this time, we will focus on the family, and the opportunities to be with good friends around us will become less and less.

That said, it doesn't mean that our friendship has faded, we have just entered a new phase of life.

1. The longevity of friendship needs to be treated sincerely.

It's very simple, if we want to maintain a long-lasting friendship, the most important thing we need to do is to be genuine. Friendship can be very simple or very powerful, and if we have goals and utilitarian things in the process of getting along with our friends, it will be difficult for the friendship to last long. In a way, friendship is a very pure relationship.

Second, there is no need to deliberately maintain the heat of friendship.

In my personal opinion, only small children will find a way to maintain the heat of friendship. Life itself is a ship that leads us forward, we encounter many things in our daily lives, we start our own families, we will have new members of the family, these things will distract us from our attention and energy. If we want to deliberately maintain the heat of friendship, it will be very hard.

For a true friendship, there's really no need to deliberately maintain the heat. <>

3. A good friendship lies in mutual understanding.

I believe that even if the two sides rarely contact each other, they will not even see each other several times a year. As long as two people have the original intention, the relationship between the two people will not deteriorate. On the contrary, as we get older, we will find that the old feelings will become deeper and deeper.

To some extent, friendship is not about getting along day and night, but about being able to keep this relationship in the bottom of each other's hearts. <>

After you are not busy at work, be sure to ask friends out for a get-together, you can have a meal together or go out on a trip together.

First of all, you should keep in touch with your friends often, and when there is a conflict with your friends, you must take the initiative to explain and solve it, so that you can maintain the longevity and heat of your friendship.

If you want to maintain it, you should communicate more with each other, stay together as long as you have time, and you should also participate in more activities to maintain it for a long time.

When I was in school, I became friends with some of my classmates, and this friendship has remained to this day. After work, I became friends with some of my colleagues, and this friendship is still maintained to this day. Therefore, I have a friendship for more than 7 years.

The reason why I have been able to have a long-term friendship for more than 7 years is that my friends and I have respected each other, used sincerity and kindness as the basis for our interactions, and we are like-minded and harmonious but different.

1. My friends and I have been able to maintain friendship for more than 7 years, and the premise is mutual respect.

The most important thing in the interaction between friends is mutual respect. This is the premise of friendship. ......If two people respect each other, they can continue to deepen their communication and become friends.

And if there is a lack of respect between two people, it is impossible to have a long-term relationship, let alone become friends. ......My friends and I have been able to maintain our friendship for so long because of the respect we have made for each other.

2. Using sincerity and goodwill as the basis for mutual interaction is the key point for me to maintain a long-term friendship with my friends.

The reason why my friends and I have been able to interact harmoniously and deepen our friendship for a long time is because we have been able to treat each other with sincerity and kindness in the process of interacting with each other. ......Specifically, our dealings are frank and unreserved, and we are sincere and honest with each other. ......It is because of this that I have been able to maintain a long-term harmonious relationship with my friends and maintain the friendship to this day.

3. Being like-minded and harmonious yet different is the core of my friendship with my friends for a long time.

Friendships are like-minded, but they retain their independence and do not disturb each other. This is at the heart of being able to build friendships between people. ......My friends and I have a common language in areas of common interest and preference, and can communicate and interact happily, but in areas where we have nothing in common, we each retain our own independent ideas and practices and do not disturb each other.

Because of this, our relationship can be harmonious and stable for a long time, and we can have a long-term friendship for more than 7 years.

We all wish we could have lifelong friends, but we miss out on a lot of friendships in the process. ......In my own experience, I have been deeply impressed by the following regretful friendships: breaking a friendship because of separation, giving up a friendship because of misunderstandings, and losing a friendship because of missing out.

1. A friendship was broken because of separation.

It was very nice to have a playmate as a child. But at that time, I was still young and didn't know what friendship was. If the two of us can be together, we will definitely make a beautiful friendship when we grow up.

But because we were separated from each other and no longer in touch, our friendship was broken, which left me with a lot of regrets.

2. Gave up a friendship because of a misunderstanding.

I had a good relationship with a good friend. However, because of a misunderstanding, a conflict arose between us. ......Neither of us handled it properly, so we parted, and a friendship that should have been made was abandoned.

In retrospect, I felt very sorry. If we had tried to keep it a little longer, we would have been able to continue to be good friends......

3. Lost a friendship because of a miss.

When I was in school, I admired a classmate in my neighboring class and wanted to make friends with him, and we had established a certain relationship.

If we continue like this, we should be able to build friendships. ......However, due to graduation and further education, we missed each other and never kept in touch again, and our friendship was lost because of this.

The above lost friendships have left me with very deep regrets. From this, I also deeply realized that it is difficult to find a confidant and cherish it when I meet a confidant.