I don t like to be controlled by my parents! 5

Parents say this about you, it is indeed a little inappropriate, but they just want to encourage you, can not be proud, can not get carried away, not sincerely, you have to understand them, when you reach your twenties you will understand them, if you do not have the spirit of their own or do not have the spirit of hardship, that is to study hard, in order to live a good life, it is true, child, parents from the birth of you, they do not think about you for a day, it is really hard, you have to understand.

Learning should be active, the comparison of parents just wants you to know how important you are in their hearts, you have to take the initiative to learn, let parents see the results of your efforts, and not let yourself learn passively.

At your age, you are in a rebellious period, and it is normal for you to not understand your parents. Your parents' approach is really wrong, your grades are actually very good, there is no problem with getting into a good high school (I was only the 20th out of 100 people in the class at the time), you can communicate with them more, understand them more, try not to get angry, not to get angry, not to talk back to them.

Try to have a communication with your parents, first of all, you must not lose your temper first, so that you lose your position.

I was also in my first year of junior high school, and I was soon in the midterm exam, and my mother wanted me to get a better score.

I like the car when I look at the initial D, I like it, and if you want to enter the society, you just want to send you eight words, with a clear conscience, and handy.

Ask a few friends who can drive and have a car, and then bring your girlfriend for a short trip and let your girlfriend drive. You'll be interested!

I don't think your interest is just about playing games! Think about what dreams you have or other hobbies, try to do something practical, and maybe you will become a very successful person, because people who love big games are very smart.

You don't have to learn to drive, it doesn't matter if you're not interested in learning, you can just take a car if you find a girlfriend who can drive, driving is not a good thing, and there are many road killers now.

Hehe, learning to drive is for your own good.

Do you have something you love to do? Sports, badminton, running, swimming? Or read a book, write down reading notes, and post them online to communicate with people?

Or a musical instrument, a guzheng, a piano? Or get a job, earn money, and learn about the state of the world. Or go to a nursing home and listen to the elderly chatting.

In short, there are still many things in the world that we have not shown us, so let's do what we used to love and don't hate now. Just find something that you find interesting and meaningful to do.

You should learn to self-regulate, and self-regulation is a dynamic mechanism for an individual's cognitive development from an unbalanced to a balanced state.

Health Psychology.

Self-regulation is broad and narrow. Self-regulation, in a broad sense, refers to the process by which people set standards for their own behavior and strengthen, maintain, or change their behavior with rewards or punishments that they can control. Self-regulation in the narrow sense actually refers to self-reinforcement, that is, the process of reinforcing and maintaining one's behavior with rewards that one can control when one reaches the standards set by oneself.

You can die, and this one is more suitable for you to do now.

At the very least, man must solve the problem of survival.

Study: Your family just wants you to study hard, and they support you so that you can go to college and get a good job, so you have to study hard, and that's what your parents expect from you.

Control yourself! The biggest difference between humans and animals is that they can control themselves!

Nobody likes to learn. People are inert and love to play. Everyone forces themselves to study, which is the so-called study habit.

It's good to exercise a little restraint, and it's time to look at your phone, so just put your phone away. If you are addicted to playing the game, uninstall the game. Sometimes we just can't control ourselves, we can't help it.

You need to uninstall the game and turn off the phone in this way to cut off the back road. Forcing yourself to be unable to be distracted. Just take your time.

Study hard and think about your future.

In fact, this is not a psychological problem, everyone will have inertia and love to play. Maybe you don't think learning can interest you. Interest is the key to learning, if you think that learning is boring, you control yourself to do nothing for a day, just reading books, or not efficient, and you see very little.

The reasons for poor learning are analyzed for you, and all of them are nothing more than three reasons: 1 intelligence factor (you can rest assured, you are by no means this reason, you can go to school normally is no problem) 2 hard work. I think you're probably leaning towards that.

3. Learning methods, if you don't study hard, it is estimated that you will not delve into any good learning methods. At the same time, your study habits are not very good, and you often cram. Learning this kind of thing, if you really don't like it, don't force yourself, it's painful.

If you do what you like, for example, if you like to paint, if you like sports, then do your best to put all your experience into it, and maybe in a few years, a new generation of painters or athletes will appear. Of course, talk to your parents beforehand, it's not easy to get their support.

Lock up your computer, hehe.

Be brave enough to be honest with your parents and promise to only play for a while later.

Ask your parents to set a password for the computer, so that they can't turn on the computer and will learn.

It's rare to have a few reincarnations in life. Even if there is an afterlife, there will be no memory of the past life. When your parents gave birth to you, it is your fate.

You're only 17 years old, so you must be on campus. Don't be spoiled by some classmates, I used to be spoiled, I wanted to play everything, but I didn't have much hope in the future.

I am a person from the past, I hope you can control yourself, in fact, attitude can determine your fate, you now have parents to support you, it is already rare, I think no one supported me back then, I can only be forced to give up studying, I can only be bullied by others.

So, if you are a man, you have to control yourself, there is actually a lot of hope for the future, what you need to do is to do well in the present.

Who are the people in your school?

It is a person in the society of the future.

You control them at school now, and when the social gangsters grow up, you will be arrogant for a while, you know.

And the school's weekly cleaning fee is also more than 10,000 yuan.

There are a lot of unpleasant things in people's lives, I think no one can give you advice on your ideas, but I will also tell you, what can you do when you go to society, your parents have a very simple idea, they want you to find an easy job when you leave school, and live a peaceful life.

This is the idea of young people, it's not that it's not bad, it's okay to go out and practice, but it's not okay to mix. Since you are in school, you should focus on learning first. The rest will be discussed after graduation.

You can read some books that interest you at school, not textbooks... BROADEN YOUR HORIZONS ... To know. Even if you are a gang boss, you have to be educated...

Study hard or you'll regret it when it's time to start your own business.

Siege of the city, I don't want to read when I study.

I don't want to read anymore.

What can you do at 16 years old?

At the age of 14, I worked on my own to earn tuition, picked mortar, mixed cement, dug earth, laid coal, got into trucks, built roads, and sold vegetables. 、、

I've done all the dirtiest and most tiring part-time jobs.

I have to work every semester during the holidays.

I'm tired and panting like a dog, and I don't get as much money as others (others get 400 yuan, but I don't even get 200 yuan), do you know why?

The boss said: (It's good for the child to work for you).

My hands are worn out and bleeding, and I still have to work, and I still have to work if my waist can't be pressed up.

That's the cruelty of life.

The ** on the cement bite is rotten.

What are the scars of the vicissitudes of the past left on the body now?

Still have to do it, why, can you understand what it's like?

That's what life feels like to die.

That's called real helplessness, helplessness, you know.

I was in pain that minute.

You still want to die, if you suffer like this, can you bear it、??

I thought, "If only I could read."

You are really born in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings.

You'll know when you live in society.

Hello, let's learn a technology, such as new energy vehicles, intelligent networking.

Just like me 9 years ago, you will regret it after 9 years! I regret it! I regret it!

Hold on! Dude, I sometimes dream about being on campus right now! Dropped?

The school will not give you a penny! Don't expect that money to play games or elope!

Don't be so negative, the above brothers and sisters are all from the past, dropping out of school is not the only way out, insist on persevering, after high school, you have the ability, you can be independent on your own, and it's not too late to think about it, don't think too much, when you become a parent, you will feel that hatred is not made of steel.

You are still young, and you will understand in a few years, in fact, your parents also love you. I also hope that you can grow up to be productive, otherwise you will be asked to go to a semester for thousands of yuan (private school)? You should also cherish it, reading more books will be good for your life.

Even if you drop out, what do you do? ...... go to work by yourself! Okay, you, don't have any radical ideas, students just have to study hard, you should also study hard, be a good student.

Be a good boy and don't be decadent.

You're still young, why don't you study? Read well, it's good for you, and you have to learn self-control during the rebellious period.

You are still young, and when you enter the society, you will find that what you are facing is not as simple as you think in school.

Make the most of the learning opportunities you have now

The money spent is like water spilled.

You can choose a vocational (you can apply for a college degree in school) to study in a culinary technician school The school not only teaches cooking skills Teaching the production methods of various cuisines, honing the basic skills of chefs, it is usually practical teaching, and it will also teach a lot of hotel management experience After graduation, it will also recommend employment, and you can also take the college certificate in school. You can learn Chinese food, Western food, and pastry majors, and choose these industries with a high employment rate:1

Students who graduate from the culinary major are generally taught in a combination of theory and practice in school, and the practical operation is greater than the theory, and the hands-on practical ability in the school has been improved, which is more suitable for the development of society. 2.With the rapid development of the catering industry, the demand for culinary talents is increasing day by day, and the supply exceeds the demand.

3.People's concepts and awareness have been further improved, and they have paid attention to nutrition in terms of diet. 4.

Everyone needs a cook, they don't go anywhere, they always have to eat, so you don't have to worry about losing your job.

Have a good chat with your parents, your parents are your biggest support, the experience of the people who came over, I was also Alexander in my junior year of high school, and my mother accompanied me through the most difficult moments.

If you have any tricks, you might as well say it and listen to it, or do something unseemly, just face it calmly.

Rely on your own state of mind to adjust, external factors and internal factors will affect you, but more you need to solve it yourself, don't think too much, you need a better attitude to face pressure in the third year of high school, and sometimes these things are also part of your growth.

Changing schools is a quiet one, but mostly on your own.

Then don't think about it so much.

What do you have to make you so afraid?

What should I do if my child doesn't want to go to school?

I agree that reading is not the only way out, and learning in middle and high school is indeed very boring, but I still think that you should finish your junior high school education, and then tell your parents that they should understand, but you have to think clearly about what you want to learn? Generally, technical schools are technical work, at that time it was specialized in learning one thing, I think you have no reason to learn badly, most of the theoretical knowledge in school is books, it is normal not to understand, but technical schools should still focus on practice. Before choosing what you want to learn, you should take a good look at what skills you can learn in the technical school, and then choose one that you think is easier for you to learn.

Judging from the fact that you don't want to mix with those gangsters and problem students, in fact, your essence is still good, if you don't want to associate with them, you just don't associate with them, they look for you, you find an excuse to push it off, I think it's important to see who is the most important person in the end, and it's a waste of energy to entangle for those who are not important.

Since you feel that you are not right, why don't you try to work hard, since your grades are the worst, studying will not be worse, on the contrary, you will improve, and your progress will be more obvious than others. Since you are not afraid of hardship, you can endure the hardships of study, in case you are interested. Or you can also consider technical schools, which are now all skills plus academic qualifications, which can not only learn technology, but also have a diploma, must go through technical learning, and will be used for life, and if you think about it, you will try it, and you will not lose anything.

Now first you need to be clear about what you need to get, life is for you.

First of all, I think it's important that you can think about your parents and prove that you are a person who knows how to be filial.

Nowadays, there are many people who are studying hard, but they are actually in "troubled waters" and do not know what they want.

When I was in junior high school, I had many first places, but our school was relatively backward, and my classmates didn't understand the word "vision".

There were even many people who were much smarter than me, but they didn't finish their studies and started farming in the village.

But I persevered, I got to the city, and I found that even though I was the number one, there were more people, there were more wonderful people, and there were more new things, and after a while, I had to survive, so I had to adapt to this place and learn, and after continuous learning, I gradually adapted, and began to find things that I was interested in.

I think you should also open your "eyes" to yourself, when you find more beautiful things, when you want to work hard, you will take the initiative to learn, and when you succeed, you will truly experience happiness.