I don t like to be praised and I hate it

Ask yourself: Do you understand the meaning of hard work? Do you understand the ultimate purpose of the effort? Do you really want to work hard? Or are you just doing it for others to see?

If you can truly understand these issues, then how can you completely give up trying just because of a few words from your mother (or someone else)? If just these few innocuous words can completely "disintegrate" your fighting spirit, then is your "effort" really "effort"?

Think about it! No parent is absolutely perfect, they are just mortals. You can't ask them to be perfect, just as they can't ask you to be the richest man in the world.

Compare your heart to your heart, empathize, life itself is imperfect, and everyone can only find a way to gradually improve and not completely reverse it!

I'm just like you.

But now it's much better.

Don't worry too much about other people's praise.

Just do what you have to do.

Go see a psychiatrist.

1.You can talk to the teacher and say that you are facing such a problem, and hope that the teacher will praise you privately and not in the class.

2.Since you're trying to catch up on your own, don't care what other people think of you, they don't have the mentality that they can't eat grapes.

3.Progress is not ashamed, progress is an affirmation of one's own efforts, through their own efforts to get the results, if everyone thinks they are good, then who will work hard to pursue better? Only if you feel bad can you continue to pursue better, isn't it?

Isn't that a motivation? I hope you think differently that life is your own, and you don't need to deny your own hard work around other people's negation and words, and there will always be people who will see your efforts, such as your teacher, isn't it?

First of all, you have to correct your attitude and remember: believe that you are the best, and praise will not hinder your progress. You have to treat the teacher's praise of you correctly, and turn it into a motivation for your own progress, as for the doubts of your classmates, you don't need to explain, you don't need to think, continue to insist on being yourself.

And you have to believe that people's growth is from bad to good, so that they can rise step by step.

Treat your own shortcomings correctly, but also affirm your own progress. Live happily and study.

Then you insist, in fact, you don't need to care too much, you keep it up, not only will no one look down on you, but also admire you from the bottom of your heart.

You can go and talk to the teacher about how you face such a problem and hope that the teacher will praise you privately.

Don't praise in class.

Since I relied on my own efforts to catch up.

Don't care what other people think of you, they all have the mentality of not being able to eat travel or grapes.

Progress is not ashamed, progress is an affirmation of their own efforts, through their own efforts and the results obtained, if everyone feels that they are very good, then who will work hard to pursue better?

Only feel bad.

There is room to continue to pursue better.

Isn't it? Isn't this a kind of motivation to dismantle the difficulties?

I hope you think differently.

Life is your own, you don't need to deny your hard work around other people's negation and words, there will always be someone who will see your efforts, such as your teacher.

Yours is definitely given by yourself.

Don't care what other people think, we can't sway other people's thoughts, can we?