Would you refuse to marry because of the bride price?

No, I don't think marriage has anything to do with the bride price, and two people who love each other will not be together because of money, so marriage is not a buying and selling marriage, what does it have to do with the bride price.

I will not refuse to get married because of the bride price, because marriage is a matter of two people, there is love, I like each other, I don't care about the bride price.

If my partner had to ask for a bride price and I didn't have that much money, I would definitely refuse this marriage and end our relationship.

I don't have to pay a bride price, I'm wrong.

I'm married naked, I don't have anything, I don't feel necessary, anyway, give it to me, and I'll give it back to my husband.

I may refuse to marry because of the bride price, I am a more realistic person, and as a woman, I think the bride price is very important to me, if it does not meet my satisfactory requirements, then it means that the other party does not love me.

I will indeed look like this, and if the other party is particularly excessive, I will definitely oppose it without hesitation.

I would refuse to marry because of the bride price, and I don't want to break the whole family because of one marriage.

In real life, bride price has become one of the important obstacles that hinder two people from entering marriage. If I had been in a situation where I had a high bride price in my life, I think I would have refused to marry because of this.

I know that marriage needs a material foundation, but I shouldn't open my mouth wide. A friend has just ended his three-year relationship, and the two have reached the stage of talking about marriage, but they broke up unhappily because of the bride price issue. The account of the girl's parents is 300,000, which is really an unacceptable number for an ordinary family.

After many compromises and discussions, the boy has raised his financial resources from 80,000 to 180,000, but the girl's parents still don't let go, and the boy decides to give up this marriage after careful consideration.

I think the reason why this relationship didn't come to the end is that the lion's big mouth on the bride price is definitely the main reason. I have never denied that a marriage requires a material foundation for happiness, but it is also necessary to determine the amount of the bride price according to the conditions of the respective family, and I can't say how much it is, and there is no room for negotiation.

I would refuse to marry because of the bride price, and I don't want to put the whole family in debt because of the bride price. I grew up in a rural family, and my parents' income was not very high, and when I grew up, they helped me a lot with buying a house, and I already felt guilty.

If before I get to the threshold of marriage, the person I like opens his mouth to hundreds of thousands, then I will definitely not tell my parents. Because I know they can't help me, and I can't afford it.

Since there is no ending no matter what, it is better to choose to give up from the beginning. I don't want my parents to be in debt because of my marriage, and I don't want to put the whole family in trouble because of my own life.

Perhaps for many parents, the marriage of their children is the most important thing, but I never felt that my marriage should be above the whole family.

There should be a bride price, and the amount of the bride price can be determined according to the actual situation, which I think is the right attitude to enter the marriage.

I don't think it can be a simple "yes" or "no" to this question, as an individual's values and life experiences may affect them differently.

First of all, for some people, the bride price and the fact that it is not necessary to be a finch boy. They may value the degree of matching of feelings and personality more than the exchange of material things. Therefore, in this case, the bride price does not directly affect whether they choose to marry or not.

Second, for some people, the bride price is a traditional custom, and they believe that the absence of the bride price will affect the dignity and sense of honor of the family. In this case, even if they don't particularly value the bride price, they don't want to go against tradition and their own family values.

Finally, there are some people who may be influenced by financial and economic factors. If their family is in poor condition and cannot afford to pay the high bride price, then they may choose not to pay the bride price or reduce the bride price appropriately in order to truly fulfill their marriage wishes.

In short, the impact of bride price on marriage choice is complex, involving many aspects such as personal cognition, traditional culture, and economic conditions. For each person, choosing whether to marry or not requires a bride price needs to be weighed and decided according to their own values and circumstances.

I have seen a lot of breakups because the bride price was not negotiated.

It's good to get used to referring to the servants, and marriage is only a disadvantage.

Even if you have a falling out with this person because of the bride price, you will meet the right person later, and he is willing to give you the right bride price.

If there is no bride price, I will choose to get married. Dressed up.

Here's why I chose to get married without a bride price:

1.The bride price is part of the traditional finch royal in Chinese weddings, but in modern society, more and more people have begun to oppose the vain bride price, believing that it is not directly related to the happiness of the marriage, so the absence of the bride price will not affect the legitimacy of the marriage.

2.In China, marriage is based on law rather than money, and as long as both parties are willing and officially registered through legal procedures, it is a legal husband and wife relationship.

3.Many people believe that opposing the high bride price can not only reduce the financial burden, but also be a moral and social responsibility, which will help promote the concept of healthy and equal marriage.

For a marriage without a bride price, I would consider it from the following perspectives:

Financial capacity alone does not directly determine the happiness of a marriage. If both parties have stable jobs and some financial means, a marriage without a bride price is completely feasible.

2.Family philosophy: If both families are more independent and open-minded, and there are not too many traditional ideas, a marriage without a bride price will not be opposed or face too much pressure. The important thing is that both parties are in harmony with each other's feelings and life philosophy.

3.Social impact: At present, social development and young people's concepts of marriage and love are constantly changing, and marriages without bride price are no longer as prejudiced as before. What matters is whether both parties truly love each other and whether they can work together to get through the trials and tribulations of life in the future.

4.Personal will: If both parties have an open and modern attitude towards marriage, the amount of bride price will not have a decisive impact on the intention to marry. Affection is the most critical factor in determining marriage.

Therefore, if the other party is a truly loving partner, the family and social environment are more open-minded, and my personal view of marriage is more acceptable, the lack of a bride price will not be the main reason hindering my choice of marriage. What matters is whether they share the same values in life and whether they can work together to face the changes that have not yet been envied. These are the keys to my decision to get married.

Now marriage seems to be different from the previous marriage, marriage was very simple before, the older generation seems to have a few new clothes is enough, and now the cost of marriage is getting higher and higher, the man in addition to buying a car and a house, it seems that there is another bride price, for the bride price, it seems that no one has ever said that when you get married, you will not marry without a bride price, and now the problem is not to give a bride price, whether the woman is willing to marry or not? Let's ask the girls on the street about this question and listen to them.

First of all, the first young lady is unwilling. She thinks that if the other party does not give her a bride price when she gets married, it will make others feel that she is not valued, and there seems to be no guarantee if you marry into your family without spending a penny, so no matter how much the bride price is, you must give a little, if you marry only the other party does not give the bride price, she will never marry, even if her parents agree that she will not agree.

The second young lady's will not either. She thinks that in fact, you can think about this problem empathically, if you have a daughter yourself, raised for more than 20 years, and suddenly one day a boy wants to marry your daughter, and he is not willing to give you a penny of dowry, can you accept it? Will you let him marry him?

The third young lady is that if I like it, I will marry. She thinks that there is no need to ask for a bride price when she gets married now, the key is to see the feelings of the two people, if the relationship between the two people is good, if the other party's family economy is really not very good, the bride price can be omitted, but she can accept it, it does not necessarily mean that her parents can accept it, maybe the parents still want to ask for the bride price.

The fourth young lady will not marry. Because he is an only child, if he marries like this without a dime of the bride price, he will feel that the other party is very insincere, and he will also feel that he is not very happy to marry, so he can't accept it.

The fifth young lady is: Look at the relationship between two people. She Bo Yu felt that if the relationship was good, even if there was no bride price, it would not be recommended, and she could struggle with him in life, and she must not destroy the relationship between the two people because of the bride price, so it was really not worth it, if she liked him and loved him, she would definitely not care about these, because she hoped that she could marry love.

Unacceptable. In my opinion, the bride price is the primary guarantee for maintaining a happy marriage, and it is also the first hurdle to start a marriage. It is difficult to guarantee a marriage without a bride price, let alone whether the marriage can be happy.

Secondly, men who do not give a bride price can also be divided into two kinds of people. Those who cannot afford to pay the bride price and those who can afford to pay the bride price but are unwilling to do so.

From the perspective of the former, "love and bread" are equally important in a marriage relationship, and "drinking water and being full of love" is just a fantasy in marriage.

Back to reality, life after marriage, raising children, and supporting parents don't need to spend money? If you can't even pay the bride price, how can you ensure the quality of life in the future, getting married is not a trivial matter, and it can't be a child's play.

Although some boys are "potential stocks", but girls' youth is only once, so do you have to try your luck with your youth? Can a hard-earned marriage really make you not regret it?

In the case of the latter, getting married means that I want to live with this man for the rest of my life. We have just stood at the first threshold of marriage, and he feels that the bride price is more important than me, how can I believe in the importance of fighting in this person's heart for the rest of my life?

How can I spend the rest of my life with him without any barriers in my heart, our marriage has only just begun, and there are already invisible cracks.

Therefore, no matter which of the above considerations, I do not accept "marriage without bride price".