Ask all parents of middle and high school, and ask all parents of middle and high school to face the

I'm a freshman, so I know the students

Middle and high school students, in general, pursue that feeling, in fact, they don't know what to love or not, although they say so, but in fact they are still following the feeling.

If you fight, if the child has a strong personality, it is likely to cause rebellion, and it will get worse and worse. If the child has a more easy-going personality, he may restrain himself, but he will not stop his puppy love behavior.

I think it's better to say, but it can't be like an interrogation, watching TV, eating, when, leading the topic over, like talking about the heart. In general, the child will definitely be embarrassed. Hear what he thinks. This may require you to be ...... with good eloquence

On the other hand, it lies in himself. Students who are conscious and know how to make progress can also clearly know that the task is to study, and they will not be deeply obsessed, and some can study together (extremely rare) ......

Students are very interested in these ......I also wanted to talk about ...... when I was in schoolIf he was to stop immediately, it was unlikely......

What needs to be said has been said. That's it.

It is best to establish a relationship with your child as a friend, and do not put the parent's sign on your lips at all times. Today's children are not easy to educate, and it is easy to arouse children's rebellious psychology if they are heavy, and it will not have any effect if they are light. For middle and high school children, the rebellious mentality is also heavier, so you still choose the right method for your child.

At the same time, early love is also a very natural physiological and psychological phenomenon, and it has great benefits for the growth of children when handled well. Of course, you don't have to regard early love as a talented wolf and a tiger.

Go with the flow. Plus a bootstrap.

Beat. It's counterproductive

Myself? Consider! bar.

Children will have a rebellious mentality The more you don't let him do it, the more he has to do it to show that he has grown up It's useless for you to ask parents this question You have to ask students I'm a sophomore It's useless for you to scold this thing, and it's even more useless to beat Who hasn't had a precocious love? If your child is a girl, you have to teach her how not to suffer If it's a boy, you have to let him know what to do and what not to do Don't beat or scold It's better to talk to your child as a friend You can even ask him to introduce you to his friends Now there are some things you can't understand I'm only 21 years old I feel like I'm barely catching up with the times It's changing too fast Finding a way to steer them in the right direction is the best policy·· Don't say anything to them, don't fall in love, delay learning, make sure they don't listen, say something else useful, treat yourself as a child, think about their feelings, empathize, long live understanding... Children will be happy to have an open-minded and understanding mom and dad...

The tendency to fall in love is a very normal phenomenon, and I personally think that scolding is absolutely useless. If you are not very strict with your child's discipline, you may want to allow your child and friends to come to the house to study together, after all, it is easy to control when you are around, and don't make a fuss and overreact. If it is a girl, the first thing to teach the child is to protect herself, to tell her about the serious consequences that may occur.

Then you can tell the child in an appropriate way that normal and appropriate interaction is allowed if it does not interfere with learning!

This problem is now common, and children are now precocious. There will be a period of rebellion. Try to communicate well with your child and understand your child's inner thoughts, sometimes you can't solve the problem by saying big things. Fighting is not the solution.

There is nothing wrong with early love, and I think the key is to guide him to deal with these problems correctly.

Sit down and have a good talk, and you can also talk to the child's object together, but you must not use force. After clarifying the thinking, look at the progress of their relationship, and then guide them slowly so as not to affect their studies.

Objectively speaking, high school is suitable for falling in love, in fact, I also talked about (first love) in high school, if I really broke up with you, it proves that you are not so important in his heart, in fact, you can change the way, just like my ex-girlfriend motivated each other in high school, and gave a little encouragement to each other if she did well in the exam, motivate each other, don't get tired of being together, and as a result, I was admitted, she changed objects, and I was immersed in loss in college. FYI.

This is a sad one for a young person of your age, but I am also a high school parent and understand the situation of parents very well. Child, you have to think that she (he) is still in this world, it doesn't matter, if you are destined in this life, you will definitely be together. Marriage is predestined, and no one can break it up.

Now it is mainly a matter of your future, there is no ability to make money, will you take your next generation to drink the northwest wind in the future? Therefore, it is important to distinguish between the primary and secondary problems to be solved at present. Come on and get admitted to your ideal university!

If that guy really loves you, he won't break up with you because of his parents, and relationships in high school don't last long.

If he proposes it, then divide it.

In high school, you should concentrate on your studies, otherwise no one will save you.

I think parents have the highest evaluation of English teachers, because now China is in line with international standards, so English is very important, and English, driving and computers are essential in the 21st century, otherwise they are the new illiterates in the 21st century. The evaluation of other science teachers should be relatively high, and Chinese is the most general.

I hope it will help you, and you must not have any thoughts of giving up on him now.

I'm talking about it from the perspective of a person who has just graduated from high school, and I hope that's how my parents communicate with me.

They don't talk about exams and studies in front of me all the time. I actually have a good temper, but in high school, especially in the third year of high school, I am facing the pressure of adolescence and studying, and a few words from my parents may make me feel very uncomfortable. I understood my parents' hard work, but I really didn't want to hear it at that time.

Alas. What I hate is that when I talk about something lighter and they suddenly mention something about my studies or something I hate, then my mood will suddenly turn bad.

Usually when we get home and eat at the dinner table, we can talk about trivial topics that I like. When I speak, they will appear to be listening attentively, rather than perfunctory or even interrupting randomly.

When I do something wrong, I want Mom and Dad to bring it up in an objective, gentle manner. Don't say "You're stupid!" at every turn. That's all wrong!

Something like that. I hope they mean that"Well, you see, it's better to do it this way.

You were so bad because ... I hope that every time they criticize me, they will have a reason and tell me how to do better, so that I will be convinced.

If my grades drop and they are worried, they will find a time to bring it up and say, "Oh, my grades have dropped recently, what's going on?" Is there any difficulty? Make your child feel warm, but also remind him to remember to learn.

This parent, in fact, to put it bluntly, today's high school students are very sensitive, even if they are very filial to their parents in their hearts, they will be particularly frizzy during this period. Poor parents should be patient, usually try to be as gentle as possible to the child, especially for his mistakes to be objectively and calmly pointed out, do not scold casually, and do not talk all day long. But you can't say that you are too doting, you can't follow him in everything, if you do this, he will get worse in the future.

The above is just my personal opinion, if your child is a girl, it may be more applicable. Hopefully, you and your child will be able to remove the obstacles.

First of all, put yourself in the shoes of a high school child.

Don't be immobile on the confidence that strikes the child.

Don't criticize your child casually, either.

Don't just talk about what you learn in school.

Every generation thinks differently.

Try to understand what your child likes, what they like, what they like.

It should be said that this kind of fact cannot be hidden. If you say it, it will seem that your quality is higher than guessing and sucking, leaving people with the impression of being a good one. But if you don't say it, it's not good to wait until both sides know. It's better to take the initiative in everything.