How can I make myself mature and steady, not playful

First of all, change your playfulness. And then all do what a mature man should do.

It's a matter of control over each of your own.

Give yourself some goals.

A little more pursuit.

A little less boring life.

Naturally, it will become mature.

Stable. Once people have pursuits.

You won't be playful anymore.

And silently told himself in his heart.

I'm already an adult.

Be in control of your actions.

Not at will.

Play when you want.

A person's physical maturity is a natural formation as they age. But a person's psychological maturity must be related to experience and his ability to understand things, i.e., understanding. A person can understand from what he has experienced, whether it is good or bad, whether he is happy or sad, why he is happy, why he is sad, and why he has done it well.

Why did this go bad? When he understands, he will find out his experience, he will be more calm in his work, he will be able to deal with problems easily, and he will feel very sophisticated. But sophistication is not maturity, and sophistication and maturity have similarities but differences.

A person's maturity must have a good cultivation, and being sophisticated without cultivation is not maturity.

For a mature person :

When he is lonely, he can find something interesting to do and let the loneliness dispel.

When he is lonely, he enjoys the silence of silence alone. He was glad that he was inspired by the silence and Mo of that moment in his heart.

When awkward: He uses humor to defuse it.

Tricky: He handles it calmly.

When he's happy, he smiles.

When he is in pain, he heals himself.

When he succeeds, he feels that it is inevitable.

When he fails, he sees it as paving the way for success.

He is always sincere when facing friends, and he is always smiling when he meets opponents.

Bumpy is his only way, and happiness is the criterion for him to grasp.

The charm of a person is his maturity, he can say what he should say, and he will do what he can do. Not pompous, not ostentatious, not dull. Reliable, honest, optimistic, positive ......

That's all I have for my understanding of maturity, and I hope it will enlighten you.

May my friend understand and mature when he matures.

1.Be cautious and down-to-earth. Be able to think carefully, not be impetuous and rash, and be more reliable.

This is mainly about the steadiness of men; 2.A person uses the ability to know, understand, think and make decisions when encountering things, and only by thinking more can he embody his wit; 3.Maturity generally refers to natural development without relying on acquired experience.

Obedient, I look at you, you're already very mature, I'm 22 years old, and my classmate's mother said that you are 16 years old, and you are better than me.