A friend called me out to name his shortcomings and strengths how

Your friend treats you as a trustworthy friend, you can talk about his strengths, and you need to be subtle about his weaknesses.

The friends around you, after getting along for a long time, will always find all kinds of strange shortcomings in them. The innocuous little shortcomings are generally those that only affect him and have little to do with the people around him; And there are some that make you want to break off with him once you meet him, which affects the feelings or mood of the people around you as a friend, which is unbearable, but you don't want to really break off with him because of this, or the kind of friend who you have to meet every day and can't make friends, so what should you do? I chose, pointed it out, explained, of course, pay attention to my tone, don't hurt each other, after all, we will have to play together in the future.

Friends usually accept it with an open mind, but whether they can change it or not is another matter.

It's just that when I talk to him about the shortcomings that I can't accept, I think: I asked him to change these shortcomings out of good intentions. Because these shortcomings are actually some bad habits that will cause others to be disgusted, not for a certain person, and when getting along with others, there will be such a situation, then it will be annoying to people without him realizing it, and thus may lose a lot of friends and opportunities.

Yes, my original intention was kindness.

Friend, while humbly accepting, told his other friend's evaluation of him: their classmates have been classmates for seven years and often go out together, but his friend has a bad habit of not looking at people when he speaks, and his classmates often remind him, expressing his dissatisfaction with his actions, and then his friends always accept it humbly and say that they must correct it. But what can be easily broken, how can it be called a habit?

So, my friend hasn't broken this bad habit for seven years. This cycle of criticism, acceptance, and re-criticism has always been there, and they have always been very good friends. At this time, I was thinking not about habit, but about "what is a friend?"

Perhaps, it is the person who sees through all the good and bad of you, who can bear it, who is still with you all the time and regards you as a friend, is a friend. In this way, you can become a long-term friend.

Before this question, note that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, which are an important part of what makes them personally unique. Therefore, the following are just some general recommendations and may not be fully applicable in all cases.

For the pros:1You can name some of his personal traits, such as his honesty, kindness, intelligence, creativity, love of learning, or good leader.

2.It is possible to share some of the things he has done that show his strengths, such as the fact that he has helped others, has given a lot to friends or family, or has excelled at work or school.

3.Name some of his skills or talents, such as his talent, good communication skills, excellent cooking, or some other unique skill.

For the cons:1Avoid naming shortcomings that may hurt his feelings or make him feel uncomfortable, such as his appearance, height, weight, etc.

2.You can choose some shortcomings that can be improved or are improving, such as sometimes being too impulsive, a little procrastinating, or sometimes being too sensitive.

3.You can name some shortcomings that don't have much impact on him or his life, such as that he sometimes forgets things or that he is a little sloppy.

Regardless of the strengths and weaknesses, it is based on respect and understanding to help him understand himself better, but also to let him know that you are there for him to support him and hope that he will be better.

It can be ingenious from the following aspects:

First, you can talk about a flaw that you think others like, for example: My flaw is that I am too perfect or I am stubborn, and I must do a good job no matter what others say.

Second, don't deny your flaws, because no one believes that people are perfect, so admitting your flaws will make you think you're being honest.

Third, show how you have overcome your shortcomings, which are a thing of the past.

Fourth, grasp a degree, don't talk too much about your own shortcomings, and magnify your own advantages as much as possible.

If you are born with some aspects of the deficiency, ignore them, if it is a character, you should take what a friend said to think about it yourself, and don't listen to it all, after all, you don't live for him.

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and no one is perfect.

Summary. When a friend confides in you that he has no merits, the first thing must be that he has encountered a setback and has an inferiority complex.

When a friend confides in you that he has no merits, the first thing must be that he has encountered a setback and has an inferiority complex.

Secondly, you can make a proper enlightenment, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and then you list a few of his advantages, and then ask if you have any trouble with the envy to express your concern for playing Pina.

When he tells you what is on his mind, you can tell him that whether he is good or not, whether he has shortcomings or not, it will not affect the two of you to make friends, and Wu Tong will tell you when he has something on his mind in the future.

This will bring you closer and he will trust you more.

First, the advantages

1. Highlight your own characteristics.

Each person has their own characteristics, which can be personality, ability, experience, etc. When it comes to strengths, highlight your own characteristics and make others impress you.

2. Give examples.

Don't just say you have a good point, give examples. For example, if you say you have leadership skills, you can cite a time when you led a team to complete an important project.

3. Work-related.

When it comes to strengths, try to be relevant to the job. If you're applying for a sales role, you can say you're good at communicating, persuasive, etc.

Second, the shortcomings

1. Honesty. Don't lie, or you'll cast doubt on your integrity. You can say that you have some shortcomings, but you are working hard to improve the spring erection.

2. Choose the right shortcomings.

Don't talk about some serious shortcomings like laziness, irresponsibility, etc. There are some relatively minor shortcomings that can be chosen, such as sometimes being too perfectionist, sometimes being too nervous, etc.

3. Explain the improvement method.

When talking about your shortcomings, you should explain what you are taking to improve. For example, if you say that you sometimes strive for perfection too much, you can say that you are learning to relax and accept imperfect results.

Summary. Hello! Pros and cons: Best, good is good. For example, boasting about someone. He is in his 50s and has a round face with a black Chinese character. People who are usually silent and don't talk much, but have a strong sense of action.

Hello! Pros and cons: Best, good is good. For example, boasting about someone. He is in his 50s, with a black and round face. Others are usually silent and don't talk much, but they have a strong sense of action.

Hello! Pros and cons: Best, good is good.

For example, boasting about someone. He is in his 50s and has a round face with a black Chinese character. Others behave, usually silent, not clever words, but actions to the clan power shed simple key people are very strong.

Arrange him to do the work (things), and he promises to be responsible for doing a good job.

He is very good to his family, he takes care of his family, he treats his friends, he is sincere. At home, he works hard and cooks, especially diligent and alone.

Let's talk about his shortcomings. He lacks the old point, sometimes he is unhappy, and he will nag when he is unhappy. He always told him to be thrifty, to be diligent and thrifty, and now it is not easy to make money. But he was also happy to buy him clothes and shoes for Jingzhen.

There are no other drawbacks. The person I'm talking about is my husband. 

There are no other drawbacks. The person I'm talking about is my husband. 

Summary. Kiss, are you saying that the other person wants you to talk about your own strengths?

Place asked me about the merits.

Kiss, are you saying that the other person wants you to talk about your own strengths?

Kissing, sincerity, enthusiasm, single-mindedness, carefulness, sunshine, clear right and wrong, filial piety, kindness are all advantages Oh ......In addition, there are some of Wang Ling's boys' exclusive advantages, such as: brave, responsible, courageous, courageous, masculine, humorous, warm man, and many other ......You can describe your ...... to the other person according to your situation<

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