What are the common problems that women encounter in marriage?

The most common problem in a marriage is the sudden appearance of a third party, because this person is really likely to ruin his marriage and cause a lot of pain to himself.

In addition to considering some basic conditions of the other party before getting married, girls must consider the following four points before making a decision.

1. Do you really accept the other person in your heart?

When many girls choose a marriage partner, they often meet a person who seems to have good conditions in a hurry because of the pressure of age, and they don't like it, they don't hate it, and then they get married.

Because many married people have told them that marriage is to find someone to make do with, and it is the same to marry anyone! And then is that really the case?

But once the marriage partner starts to make do, then it is not as simple as choosing clothes again.

Whether a man is poor or rich, as long as you identify him in your heart, your heart is comfortable with him, once you don't recognize each other from the beginning, and make do with each other, it is harmful. If he can't make you happy, even if he can give you a mountain of gold, what's the use of a mountain of silver?

2. Is the other party a trustworthy person?

When a woman marries a man, she must give herself a certain sense of security, so that she can trust him and rely on him from the heart, and she can feel very comfortable and down-to-earth in her heart.

If a man gives himself the feeling that he is doubtful, he can't be trusted, and even he can't figure out his thoughts, and can't tell which of his words is true and which one is false, such a man must not marry, even if he marries, he will not have a good life.

3. Is the other party a self-motivated person?

When a woman decides to get married, the most important thing is not to see whether the man in front of her is rich, but to stand in the long term to see if the man has potential and whether he is self-motivated, if he meets these two points, then he has the ability to create more material conditions in the future.

If he just had a little economic foundation at that time, but he was an unmotivated person, then basically his life in the future would only get worse, and there was no possibility of getting better.

4. Is the other party loyal to the relationship?

No matter how good a man is in other aspects, but he doesn't take his feelings seriously, then he is not a good man.

Seeing whether a man takes his feelings seriously is an important proof to test whether he has a sense of responsibility. No matter how beautiful love changes over time, the feelings will fade with it, which is an inevitable result of any relationship. At this time, continuing to maintain the relationship is to see the sense of responsibility, a responsible man is bound not to do anything sorry for his wife, if he is unfaithful to the relationship, it is the greatest cruelty and harm to his wife!

If a man can't do this, no matter how rich, humorous, and personable he is, he will never be able to marry.

When it comes to marrying someone, some people don't have any hesitation, and they will rush to each other directly. And more people, compared to being 100% firm, will always be very entangled in their hearts, not knowing whether their choice is correct.

After all, marriage is a lifelong thing, choose different people, and the years to come will often be very different, therefore, in the matter of marriage, women think a little more and behave more cautiously, then there is nothing to say, which is very necessary.

1.Be sure to withdraw money just like settling between brothers, don't be embarrassed about the wedding expenses for house decoration and bride price before getting married, and think on the bright side. After making it clear, there will be no heartfelt thoughts that will become the cause of quarrels in the future.

The other party is too illusory to be nice to you, because he may be bad to you at any time, and the psychological sunk cost is not unreasonable (the more you invest, the more unwilling you are to let go).

2.Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is fine with each other and have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially, sometimes he does things for you that will move you, and when he is hot-headed, he will be his ideal partner.

Affection requires that each other's personalities be suitable. If the personality is not compatible, he may tolerate you at first, but over time, his true attitude will be revealed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of love.

Without common interests and topics, getting married is not a simple matter. You have to think about your future. Life is long!

Women should consider two questions, the first question is that men are really good to you, and the other is whether there is a material basis for two people to be together? Neither do I.

I think that women must be calm and rational when dealing with the right issues in marriage, only in this way will they have problems in their marriage. When there is a problem, you should discuss it with your husband and talk about it well. Kiriwa.

We must treat it calmly, and Hu Xiang must be too anxious if he does not do it vertically, and he must be calm. Be specific, don't let yourself be grumpy, and women should maintain graceful limbs at all times.

Women must improve their charm, and they also need to have their own principles and bottom line when arguing with the chain, so that they can become better, and they must communicate in a timely manner when they encounter problems, and don't call Lu to make trouble unreasonably.

Legal analysis: The most common problems in marriage are mainly the following 6 types: 1. Indifference to the relationship; 2. Communication with the previous generation; 3. Economic burden; Fourth, the child's education; 5. Lack of sex; 6. Extramarital affairs, etc.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the People's Court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (letter focusing on 1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, and the parties have been separated for one year, and one party files a divorce lawsuit again, the divorce shall be granted.

Introspection and accommodation, first of all, you should reflect on yourself in your husband and wife life, and when you do something, you should reflect on whether your actions or words have caused harm and estrangement to the people around you, including your husband and wife. In fact, this is a big misunderstanding, because people need to be respected, even if parents and children are the same, respect for your spouse, you can make him or her feel the care of the other party, don't quarrel because it seems to be a small contradiction, once it accumulates it is a big contradiction, and it will be infinitely amplified with the increase of contradictions. Extremely bad for family harmony! As a husband and wife, don't divide you or me, especially women reflect very prominently on an issue, to give an example:

Some women like to complain to their husbands or family members when they are wronged: How about I marry into your family! This is actually a taboo in family life, because the tone of this sentence obviously excludes you from the ranks of family members!

Imagine what the other party will think when they hear it? The effect of this sentence is to put herself and the family she is currently in opposition to each other! So smart women don't say such things, and men also have similar problems, always saying that their mother-in-law's house is your home!

It's the same as saying that your wife is an outsider! Family problemsIf there is no problem when two people are in love, then the changes after marriage are often caused by living together for a long time, understanding each other's living habits better, and not repairing the small damage caused to each other by informality. Hope my words are useful to you!!