I have been married to my husband on a blind date for two years, and I have no feelings for him, is

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    You were introduced by others, and it seems that you didn't get married much in love, so you don't have a deep emotional foundation, and your relationship hasn't increased much in the past two years, in fact, you don't have real love, so it's normal to feel like you don't have feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I didn't have feelings for my husband, so I got married for the sake of marriage at that time, and it wasn't a psychological problem, but the two people were in phase and didn't get along.

    Why is it that for some people, when you look at it, you like it more, and you have an eye, but for some people you don't? This is the result of the incompatibility between the two popular occasions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Blind date is your own idea. As long as you watched it at the time. Like.

    Don't feel like it's because you're on a blind date. In fact, it doesn't matter if it's a blind date. Or free love, two people come together because of mutual attraction.

    just came together. As long as you. Don't think it's a blind date.

    It's not that you're in free love. Be honest with each other. Then your relationship will be okay too.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If there is no emotion, there is no basis for the existence of marriage, of course, it is also unhappy, for the sake of your happiness, it is better to make a decision as soon as possible, it is too late to make a decision.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There are many ways to get married, or there are many ways for two people to meet, through campus confession, work, social encounters, networks, blind dates, etc., but through blind dates and meet through relatively large external factors, but all subsequent development and results are determined by the color factors of the two people themselves, there are happy and unhappy after marriage, not entirely because two people meet when they are suitable or inappropriate, people will also change, it depends on whether you are willing to be for him She becomes the person he wants, and love is more important than married life, so that the two of you can run it together, so that your relationship is harmonious and friendly, and it remains sustainable.

    Couples need to learn to seek common ground while reserving differences, and for those things that are innocent, they can be inclusive. However, if there is a problem between husband and wife, it is necessary to actively communicate and seek a solution, rather than avoiding or ignoring it. May we all gain the ability to love and be loved.

    Married life is also a process of growing up under one roof, although you will experience pain, but the companionship and influence of each other is the process of learning to love and giving love. There are some people who are struggling in marriage, and some people must regret it, and there is also a department that is happy in marriage, of course, they don't regret it, you said that you will be happy when you get married on a blind date, I think this is also a little bit of luck and the person you met.

    But I also see most of the people around me, the happiness of people after marriage is higher than that of their friends, and the happiness index after marriage is still higher, maybe when we are young, we are all with the pursuit of emotional resonance, I like, most of the girls are desperate, but also ignore a lot of external foundations, growth environment, etc., after marriage, the contradiction will come out, that relative to the blind date, may not be much emotional fluctuation at the beginning, more understanding, the general introducer will work with your personal situation growth environment, Introduce you to a relatively matching object, maybe the material conditions will be better, after marriage, some of the two parties have good character in all aspects, and they will slowly cultivate a relationship and be more harmonious.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you get married because you're married, it's usually hard to be happy. Because if you don't have feelings, you won't love him, and even if you have a child, it may be a responsibility, and life will be boring. I will not give my heart, and I will not be truly happy. It's going to be very boring.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Marrying a blind date with no feelings will not be happy to a large extent, because two people do not have any emotional foundation, and it is very likely that they will break up or even divorce because of a little conflict.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not that there is no possibility of happiness, because feelings can be cultivated, although it is said that two people have no feelings at the beginning, but with a period of time together, maybe slowly feelings will be cultivated.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If a man just wants to start a family and have children, he may not be unhappy, but it is difficult to be happy, because he has no feelings for that person and is not the object of his liking.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If a man marries a blind date who has no feelings, he will generally not be happy after marriage, because marriage is maintained on the basis of feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Generally speaking, such a marriage will definitely not be happy after marriage, but through mutual understanding, help each other in marriage, and go to each other. Love each other, slowly, this feeling will definitely fade, and love will become family. Also, it will be very happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings are cultivated, and if a man has no feelings for his blind date now, it does not mean that they will never have feelings in the future.

    In fact, whether there is a relationship or not, as long as you live a good life, you will still be happy, as long as the woman and the man are working, happiness can be had, feelings can be cultivated slowly, and people's thoughts will change.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I now feel that if there is no affection between the two of you, in fact, if you get married, you will not be happy after marriage, because the marriage of two people is not simply to live together, but still need to have some common romantic engineering feelings and joint efforts. In this way, you can remember the little guests better and better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, a man marries a blind date who has no feelings, and he will not be happy after marriage, and he must choose love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is actually not good, because after many boys marry that girl, although they have no feelings in the early stage, they may have feelings after a long time of running-in.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    And no, whether it is a man or a woman, and a marriage partner who has no feelings, after marriage. If they have already managed their own marriages, and then they will slowly get out of their feelings, they will also be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a man marries a person who has no affection, because the relationship can be cultivated slowly, they will also slowly become happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When a man marries a blind date who has no feelings, he will be happy after marriage, because they will slowly cultivate their relationship, and they will not be very stiff, and they will be very harmonious together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If two people get married without feelings, they will definitely not be happy after marriage, because two people will not have a common language when they are together without feelings, and there will be more and more conflicts between the two people in the future, so they will definitely not be happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you get married in a hurry if you don't have an emotional foundation, you won't be happy after marriage, even if you go on a blind date with a blind date who has no feelings, you should cultivate feelings before you can get married.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It may also be happy, even if there is no emotion, it can be cultivated slowly, and love is slowly formed on the basis of mutual understanding.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Any blind date who has no feelings will be happy after marriage, and as long as they take each other seriously, this relationship will definitely be happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, if two people know how to advance and retreat, know how to tolerate, know how to deal with problems, and put themselves in each other's shoes, they will be happy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    will be very happy, after marrying such a person, both parties will have a sense of responsibility, and the two will work together to maintain this relationship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If a man marries a blind date who has no feelings, I don't think he will be happy after marriage.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It will not be happy, because two people have no marriage foundation, and two people don't know each other, such a life will be very depressing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When a man marries a blind date who has no feelings, he will be happy after marriage mainly depends on how the two of you manage the family with your heart.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A man marries a blind date who has no feelings. I don't think a marriage like this will be happy in the future.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Will a man be happy after marrying a blind date who has no affection? What about this separation, some people can contact their feelings after marriage, and their feelings will get better and better, and some people will not have any emotional foundation in the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A man can marry a blind date without feelings, and of course he will not be happy after marriage. Because two people who don't love each other can't be happy together.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think that the relationship in marriage is not necessary, whether it is suitable or not, whether it is happy or not depends on each other's three views and manages it carefully.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No one can answer this answer, and some people want to live a stable life since they have chosen, and they may be able to live with peace of mind.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you say that as long as you don't hate each other, you can slowly cultivate your relationship after getting married.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After getting married, if you have children, you may be better, but if you quarrel often in the future, you will still not be happy.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think you should correct your attitude, no matter what reason you get married and have children, now you are not only a relationship problem, but also a responsibility problem, the key to the cultivation of feelings is that you don't have to worry about it, talk to your husband well, either live well, or divorce and think about it carefully.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you don't have feelings, you still have children and raise offspring, you are too irresponsible, it's really in vain.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why get married if you don't have much affection? I should think that the conditions are okay or something. Let's sleep in the right place to get married.

    has children, even if it is to give children a healthy growth environment, they should also manage their marriage well. At least you all love children. Pay more attention to him.

    Give him some love. Why not make yourself happy.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You may not be in love with each other, but there is a crystal!

    Eventually, the child becomes a backward puppet between you. He will also suffer the hardship of loss. He is the most innocent.

    In fact, whether you can still be together really depends on whether the child can be blessed and happy.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, my advice to this question is to try to accept each other from the heart, the two of you are on a blind date and forced to be together by your parents. There is no affection for each other, and the quality of life after marriage is poor. You can try this kind of thing of getting married first and then falling in love, as long as the other party is not a person, there is a problem.

    How many people in this world have gotten true love, right? Looking far away, everything is sad. Hope it helps.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think marriage is not just a matter of two people, maybe you think that blind dates have no emotional foundation, but in fact, this is not a problem. The key is that you think about whether there is anything like your ideal, and whether there is one around you, many people look at the surface and are okay, but as soon as they live, their original colors will be exposed. If you have a child, you can't just think about yourself, you can live if you can, you can't talk about it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No, divorce, if you think about children, just make do with it, find a friend.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Hello, I personally think that the two of you have no feelings, maybe you are married to your son. That kind of relationship is actually no different from not having it. So think about it yourself, whether you want to divorce or continue to maintain this separation relationship, you decide for yourself.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You shouldn't have married someone who didn't have feelings in the first place, but now that you're married, you should be responsible to the end, if you don't take responsibility, it's too unfair to the child, after all, he is innocent and shouldn't be a victim of your marriage. I hope you think twice.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If it doesn't work, it'll be over, and people won't rush to find you.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You are irresponsible for your marriage, and in married life, you have to fulfill your wife's obligations. Including the obligation of sexual life. In fact, life is really bitter and short. There's no need to dwell on something that doesn't make sense. If you love, you can love well, and if you don't love, you can break up peacefully.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In that case, let's go for a divorce, so that you are both liberated.

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