Why didn t my love go well 40

Love is not something that can be done well by working alone. Love needs to be managed by both parties, and neither party has the idea of enjoying each other's contributions, which cannot keep love fresh for a long time. There are many ways to love, and some people will bully her when they love someone and target her everywhere to attract her attention.

Some people give everything to each other. Love needs space and mastery. The human heart is the most difficult to understand, the most difficult to control, and the most difficult to operate.

And love is precisely to have two people manage a common heart together.

In the world of love, there is not only happiness, but also sorrow and quarrels, and such love is real, just like the prince's Snow White, there are vicious witches; Cinderella's stepmother; Their love path is also full of ups and downs and thorns, but happiness is the final ending, so don't give up, happiness is already beckoning to you!

In fact, no one's love is so smooth, look at it, it's much worse than you.

It's just not going well, there's nothing. It's good to be done.

If it goes well, you may not feel that it is love.

In my personal opinion, people's fate is predestined, and it is useless to think wildly. Fate feelings are even more so, who is destined to be with them, no matter what, they will meet and will not be separated, so we should have a good attitude and cherish fate!

1. Rely on each other.

Since two people are together, if they want to get along for a long time, the most important thing is to trust and rely on each other, if both people can't trust each other and rely on each other, then being together will only make each other very tired. We are looking for someone to be able to face all the storms together, not all the storms are brought by the other party.

2. Understand each other.

It's true that there is no empathy in this world, but we can understand each other. When two people get along, they need to think about each other and don't impose their own will on each other. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can two people get along better.

3. Be tolerant of each other.

When two people are together, you should not only appreciate each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Everyone has their own habits and shortcomings, so don't just blame others. Two people are together to help each other and constantly improve themselves.

No matter what the other person has lacking, we must tolerate and accept, and then we will work together to change.

4. Respect each other.

If you sneak through their phone today, and they also peek at your phone, and they don't respect each other, it will inevitably cause a round of quarrels. Everyone has their own space and privacy, and knowing how to respect and protect each other's privacy is the greatest respect for each other, so that the emotional life can be more harmonious.

5. Praise each other.

Anyone likes to be praised by others, because it is an encouragement and recognition of the other person, and no one does not like to listen to good words, and complimenting each other can promote the relationship between the two very well.

6. Strengthen communication and exchanges with each other.

Many times when we do something, we don't take the initiative to tell each other, and there is no communication between the two, which often leads to misunderstandings in many things, and finally causes an irreparable situation. Only by communicating their thoughts with each other in a timely manner can two people better understand each other, so that the relationship between two people can be happier and longer.

1. The love of the dismantler needs the operation of two people to reap a successful result.

The purpose of love is to pursue love. In the process of falling in love, those who have been in love many times but have never been able to succeed often put forward too high requirements for each other and ignore their own efforts. ......Therefore, after many times of love, you should understand that if you want to succeed in love, you must work together to manage love, and only in this way can you pursue your own happiness.

2. Only if you have the strength to be superior to others, you can win favor.

Love focuses on emotion, but the practical factor should not be ignored either. ......Specifically, if you simply talk about feelings in the process of falling in love, and you lack enough strength, it is impossible to succeed in love. ......After experiencing many loves, you should understand that only with superior strength can you win favor, and strive to improve your ability level, so that you can pursue true love.

3. Love needs to be single-minded and attentive, and must not be half-hearted.

The fundamental reason why some people fall in love many times and still fail is that they lack single-mindedness and are half-hearted in the process of falling in love. ......After experiencing many times of love, you should understand that love requires single-mindedness and concentration, and you must not be half-hearted, so as to fundamentally solve the problem, make yourself successful in love, and live a happy life.

1. Lack of self-confidence.

If even you lack praise for yourself, it will be more difficult for men to find your strengths. Once you learn to love yourself, it will be easier to accept the love that others give you. One of the things that prevents you from finding a boyfriend is actually your own thoughts.

Be confident! Remember that you deserve to be happy.

2. Lack of self-knowledge.

Some people in the process of seeking love, in fact, do not know what they want, once in love they let their feelings be unbridled, irresponsible, and casual. After a long time, I realized that I had been spinning around in the same place, and I couldn't find the right person.

3. Shut the door and don't go out.

How can you meet your soulmate if you've never left the room? You need to get out of Chang blindness, although it sounds scary. Don't hide in the house and don't keep your lips closed. In order to connect with others, you need to communicate.

4. Expectations are too high.

You deserve to be surprised, but don't get too excited. Don't compare the men you meet with celebrities, it's not fair, because you don't want to see men compare you to those supermodels, right? You can have your own set of criteria for choosing a man, but don't be afraid that the other person will not meet your expectations.

5. Rely on fate.

There are some people who are more identified with the power of fate. They feel that love is not under their control, and believe that they will always meet a soul mate who really loves them. In fact, these beliefs tend to make these people very picky and even reject good people.

If you meet the love so that you can not be 100% smooth, you can not think that the current love is not the love you want, after all, you have paid for this love, you have also really loved each other, no love will be smooth sailing, all love along the way will inevitably encounter big or small ups and downs, only the love that has experienced ups and downs will be stronger, and it will last longer, how can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain Everyone will think about giving up when love encounters setbacks, as the saying goes, the next one will be better, the next one will really be better, that's just your own comfort, maybe the next time you meet it will make you more disappointed, and then it's too late to regret it

Find the root of the problem when love is not going well, don't blindly get angry there, those are useless, whether men or women must have self-esteem in front of their lovers, but self-esteem should not be so strong, have the courage to admit mistakes, sometimes they know that they are wrong, but they are embarrassed to bow to each other, so they will be wrong again and again, so please believe that the next paragraph will not necessarily be better, the next person is not more suitable for you than him, think more about the other party's good when it doesn't go well, Then you will feel that he is actually very good, and you will feel that he is what you want, but the way he chooses to love you is a little special Don't let fate come and go like water

It's not as good as being in love, and it's better to be a good friend, and it's mostly because of your idea.