There are some things that you know don t belong to, why can t you let go of them?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

    Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Damn, there's nothing you can't let go, brother, I'll top you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It's not that you can't let go, but you can't forget it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Often not getting the best is the best.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    We've all had this problem before, but it's easy to solve. You must be happy when you are with him, you will also have feelings, and you will faintly miss him in how you separate; You can listen to some sad songs, revel yourself in them, understand the meaning of the songs here, and you will cry too. You will feel so relaxed, and then you will not think about him, you may understand your situation, and then you may be tired and you will not think about it'

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, there are some things that can't be put down, but despite this, life still has to go on, Momo put it in the bottom of my heart, collected it, and used it as a motivation to continue to work hard and live well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it is a relationship, there are many emotional entanglements between men and women that cannot be distinguished, and this is life. This is also the difference between people and animals, but some people can face it freely, and some people can't figure it out, thousands of sails on the side of the sinking boat, ten thousand trees in front of the sick tree, the eldest brother of Benshan said, life in the world is only a finger, a total of 36,000 days, even if there are tens of millions of houses, sleep only three feet wide. Therefore, people should be kind to themselves in life, learn to let go, and persevere, how to be relaxed and moderate, this is the highest state of life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In terms of things, there are some things that will always give you physical and mental motivation, and there are things that make you uncertain and make your own choices, so that you should forget or hide in the bottom of your heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I was run over by someone, leaving this scar, and I wanted to wipe it, but the more I touched it, the more painful it became.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe, people are not emotionless machines, don't say that he is just bad, even if he is not good at all, it is impossible to say that he will let go if he has been together!

    I think it's better to be rational about this kind of thing, if his bad is acceptable to you, or her bad can be changed within a reasonable time. Then you can consider breaking the mirror and reuniting, after all, it is not easy for people to find someone to accompany them in this life.

    But if this kind of bad is unacceptable to you, or he won't change it, then it is still recommended that you cut it quickly, and the long pain is better than the short pain. Can't let it go and then get back together, find that you still can't stand his badness, and then separate? Why bother!

    I think you're a girl, and from my perspective as a girl, I think the most important thing for a boy is a sense of responsibility and self-motivation. If a guy has a sense of responsibility and wants to protect you, I think he will think from your point of view and change what you think or everyone thinks is bad about him. If a boy is self-motivated, then he will change his own badness, because this affects his development.

    That's the way it is, but it's up to you how you do it. However, I think it is the most uncomfortable to keep interrupting, just keep moving forward happily, and talk about things without dividing and come up with a solution strategy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The depth of love, the more painful the wounds hidden in the heart;

    The love of love, a voice in the bottom of the heart is in the memory;

    Perhaps, you still can't forget the past, maybe, you will still miss his good and bad, it is not easy to really love someone, and the relationship includes love, friendship, and family affection.

    Every emotion comes from the heart, and time can dilute that scar.

    But this scar will never go away, he is hidden deep inside, if you can't let go, don't be stubborn, put down your potential face, and go back to him.

    Perhaps, he still loves you deeply, if not, please don't let go of your dignity.

    Forget it! He becomes your past, dare to love and hate, and you are still happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't forget that you are a person with feelings! Normal people's thinking and memory are strong, it can remember all good things, but also sadness and hatred! This is a normal situation, since you break up, just stride forward, don't look back at the beauty that has passed, even in the beauty is the once gorgeous fireworks, only in which moment to bloom!

    Our generation after 80 and 90 needs to experience too many life passers-by in order to truly find their own life partner, and the relationship is no longer the purity of our parents and the fingertips of our grandparents, but the reality of RV money!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you know that he is not good or can't let go, then don't try to throw away all his related things. You have to remember that it's not him who hurts you, it's yourself, because you can't let go, and you make yourself miserable. Please believe that you will be happier and happier without him...

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Life goes on one way or another. So let go of what should be put down and move on.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone has two sides, just like a coin, the good and the bad, the good and the bad, the good and the bad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm more helpless than you I don't even have the courage to leave.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not showing up, not bothering, is how I love you in the end.

    After the breakup, I told myself that I don't miss you anymore, but the memories are still in my heart.

    Waiting, perhaps, is not easy; Hurt, but easily. We love each other in a hurtful way until we are separated.

    Love is hurt, love is pain, love is a lifetime of desolation, and a city is a person's heart ache all his life.

    Sometimes, it is for love that I quietly dodge, what I avoid is the figure, but what I can't avoid is the silent feelings.

    The trail of tears is the heart in the guide. fell out of love once, and it seems that I just understood the meaning of all love songs.

    When the tears flowed, I realized that separation was another kind of understanding.

    You're crazy where you don't have me, and I'm strong without you.

    There is a man who has taught you how to love, but he doesn't love you anymore.

    Die in the sun, die in the most splendid surrounding, and the heart blooms but blooms.

    It's hurt, but it's a kind of helplessness. Life is nothing more than a passing process.

    How many people are working hard to get married, and how many people can come out of the shadows immediately after a breakup?

    If I give up, it's not because I lost, but because I understood.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Knowing that there is no result of the relationship, it is necessary to end it early and suffer less harm.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, love is like this. Don't think too badly about the ending. Think more about what you once had.

    Give each other one more chance. You're getting the answers you want. Maybe you don't really want to let go.

    It's about giving yourself a chance to escape. Think about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, don't forget what you once had, cherish what you can't get, don't give up what belongs to you, keep what you have lost as a memory, life is like a one-way ticket with no return, every one is a live broadcast, grasp every performance, is the best cherish, the past of life, reminiscent, tears when sad, drunk when happy, will be valuable because of the pursuit, sunset is not the past of the years, the wind is not the fault of the woods, as long as you have loved and waited, the laughter in heaven is not a legend, No matter how beautiful the day is, if no one cares, it is also a pity.

    In the long years, we are all passers-by in a hurry, all the memories of the past may be a little melancholy, maybe some pain and sadness, whether the dream of life is a dream come true, or a yellow beam, we have to face, to stay unintentional.

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, a hurried life, lingering years, ebb and flow、、、 will always miss a lot of people and things, and will always leave a lot of reluctant memories in the bottom of my heart. There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

    There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

    Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

    A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

    In fact, I thought I could forget, but the tears I shed did not deceive myself, there is a feeling that I can only store with my heart, and some people and things can never be forgotten.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is unlikely that you will let go of some things in a short period of time, because in order to know how to let go, you must first understand the truth of attachment! Only when you know what to let go, what to fight for, and the truth of life, can you learn how to let go of those things!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, why can't I put down some things all the time?

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