Parents want the best for their children, and do we really think about them while giving?

Most of them have really thought about their children, and a small number have not thought about their children, after all, not all parents can know how to think about their children's future.

I think a lot of parents don't really think about their children. They think about what I want my child to do.

In fact, while parents give, they may really think about their children, because the path they choose is generally better.

Parents also come from their children, and they will be just as flustered and sad as we are. When I was a child, I hated the compulsion of my parents, but as I grew up, I found that my parents also knew and experienced our struggles as children, and they would consider our feelings, but they still tried to let us take fewer detours.

The premise of giving should be respect, not imposed.

Children who are accompanied by their parents mature earlier and grow more well-rounded. Some people say that the children of poor families are in charge of the family early, that is the past, and that growth is the basic survival skill. A child who is accompanied by an educational parent grows up more well-rounded.

Children who are accompanied by their parents are more well-behaved, and in school, most of the children who are introverted or extremely extroverted, and who are difficult to discipline are left-behind children whose parents are not at home all year round.

Most of them live with their grandparents, who are old and don't have so much energy to follow. After going to school, I can't give a lot of help in my studies, and it is generally difficult to study. The few who have particularly good grades can clearly feel that they are left behind in the crowd, which is the norm.

Companionship is not the same as agency, not everything. Companionship is emotional snuggling, being close to you and making you feel safe. Companionship is not always educational, but just timely tell you some standards of beauty and ugliness, give appropriate answers when you encounter confusion, and occasionally lend a hand to help when you encounter difficulties.

In addition to teaching children the truth of being a human being, the basic survival ability of life. Children also need to be taught some safety awareness and the basics of protecting themselves. The truth of being a human being should run through the whole process of education.

In addition to the basic survival ability of life, there are some problems that need to be paid attention to when going out. Safety awareness education is a must, children must always be independent, and adults must let go of children to grow up. But before letting go, you must let your child know some safety knowledge and the ability to protect himself.

To be a mentor of children's life, they must be serious when they should be serious, let them indulge when they should be indulgent, don't be too strict, let children have a sense of fear of their parents, let children really feel the love of their parents, meet the children with material strength in food, clothing, housing and transportation, and support them spiritually, criticize mistakes, and praise good deeds. As adults, we can't impose our goals and aspirations on our children, we can't let them fulfill our wishes, we must carefully observe his highlights and shortcomings, and we must reasonably cultivate and follow the path to guide children to distinguish between right and wrong. What is being advocated now is home-school co-education.

I hope that the children's education can be scientific, that the children can receive the best education, that they can create a good quality education, that they have a good learning environment, that they want a good teacher, and that they also have a good class. As a parent, I will not force my children, I will respect their children's choices, and I will not put pressure on my children.

I hope to give the child a more correct education, and also hope that the child can have a good three views and morality, and hope that the child can grow into a very good person.

As for parents, of course, they want to give their children the best education and hope that they will win at the starting line.

The relationship between parents and children is not an option, it is destined from the moment of birth, and children must respect their parents at all times, be filial to their parents, and be grateful for their parenting grace; The attitude of parents towards their children is still that of respect, care, love, companionship, education and devotion in love, and parents all over the world always think that I want to take good care of my children.

Parents are the enlightenment teachers of their children, from birth to being able to walk, eat by themselves, etc., and the education of parents is irreplaceable and indispensable. When I was a child, my parents were my child's biggest dependence and the source of my child's happiness.

Parents do not give their children children, and children support their parents in old age. This model seems blunt, and even some children will think that the elderly are unkind, but the model recognized by the law is also what it should be.

Parents are legally not obliged to take care of their children, but they have the right to demand that their children support themselves. For children, it is an obligation to support the elderly, and there are no strings attached. The law does not support parents who do not bring their children to their children, and the children can not support the old age.

In this kind of relationship of equality and mentorship, parents and children are like acquaintances, parents and children have spiritual exchanges, parents love their children, think about their children everywhere, and also know that children are unsatisfactory and troubled, and can give children some ideas and opinions.

Children also understand that it is not easy for their parents, and they also know their parents very well, and they can also respect some of their parents' suggestions and pay more attention to some of their parents' ideas. In this way, parents can understand their children's behavior, and children can also understand their parents' meaning, which is of great help to children's growth or future development.

If a person bears his father on his right shoulder and his mother on his left shoulder, he is convenient in the size of the above, and he is extremely rare in food and clothing, he still can't repay the grace of the moment. Parents raise their children to grow up and become talents, and those who are children are responsible for their fathers and mothers on one shoulder, so that their parents can urinate on themselves, and even use the world's most precious treasures, food and clothing to provide for them.

There is still no way to repay the kindness of their parents for raising them. Parents have raised us, there are no perfect parents in the world, children should not complain, but should learn how to be respectful and filial.

I think the best way is for children to honor their parents and provide for their parents, which is the best reward.

Children should be filial and not let their parents worry about it. "Children travel thousands of miles and mothers are worried", to ensure personal health, is the greatest filial piety.

I think children can only make their grades better, and you can repay them in this way, so that your parents will be more proud of you.

Study hard, then go to a famous university, then find a job that earns more money, and then honor your parents and spend more time with them.

It's normal for mom and dad to give their children the best for everything, but this idea is not particularly correct. Most parents love their children very much, so it is normal to want the best for their children, but if parents want the best for their children, then parents will be under a lot of pressure. Therefore, as a family leader, don't always think about giving the best to your child, because there are many things that parents can't give their children the best.

The best thing that parents can give their children is the love of parents, and if parents can love their children as always, this is the best support for children. In addition to these, in fact, for other things, it is enough to choose the most suitable for the child, and there is no need to choose the so-called best for your child. For example, when it comes to education, there are many parents who buy a house in the school district, hoping that their children can enter a better school.

In fact, this phenomenon is very unnecessary, if all parents do this, then the school district will only become more and more expensive, and even if the child enters this kind of school, it may not be able to get a better education. Therefore, parents should also consider their children when providing education, and whether they should also consider whether it is worth it. If these problems always arise when the father and mother are educating their children, then it is very likely that the birth of children will also be affected accordingly.

Therefore, when parents educate their children, they should pay attention not to give their children the best everything, but to bring the right ones to their children, and in the process of educating their children, they should also pay attention not to think about everything around the children, because this kind of thinking also has a big problem. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they should choose the right way to guide their children, and in this process, the children will become better and better.

This view is incorrect. As a parent, when the bury hall wants to give everything he has to the child, to create a stable and happy environment for the child to grow up, but parents also need to let the child suffer appropriately, so that the child understands that life is not easy.

I don't agree with this point of view, I think we should give the best to our children in terms of education, but we can't do this in terms of material things, otherwise we will make children's values distorted. Positive remainder.

Parents are not right to do this, spoiling their children too much will affect their children's development, and parents need to bear a lot of pressure.

Introduction: The living conditions are very different from before, so there are many times when you find that in the process of educating your children, parents will always choose the best for their children. I hope that whether it is from the material or emotional treatment, I feel that I will give my children more things, so that I can reflect the full love of my parents.

So when parents have such attitudes and education methods, is it a good thing or a bad thing for their children?

First of all, parents are willing to give their children the best aspect, one aspect is affected by material conditions, after all, the living conditions are now better. On the other hand, parents have the ability to give their children the best, which also reflects the parents' love for their children, so they cannot directly blame. However, if parents only improve their children in terms of material conditions, such as buying the best toys for their children and wearing the best clothes for their children, parents' consumption habits and behavioral attitudes will naturally affect their children's concepts.

At this time, it is easy for the child to like the best clothes when he grows up, so he has formed a habit of high consumption, which is not good for the growth of children. If parents are willing to give their children the best education, they are willing to give their children the best care, and at the same time can maintain appropriate methods in the process of education. This is actually a good thing for children, after all, if a child can harvest more resources on the road to growth, the development path is better than that of other children.

Therefore, parents have such a practice, in fact, it depends on their own way.

But it is inevitable that there will be setbacks on the road in life, if children have been in a greenhouse environment all the time, it is easy to be knocked down by small setbacks when they grow up, and they don't know how to deal with them. It is normal for parents to be willing to give their children the best, but they should also pay attention to giving their children a certain amount of frustration education, so that children can grow up healthier.

No, it is because this will lead to problems with the child's personality, and the child will rely too much on his parents when doing things.

I don't think it's good for children, because you want to give your child the best, but Naisun is a child Changchun chain is needed, so parents still need to communicate with their children about this aspect.

Hello! If applied properly, it is certainly good; If it is not applied properly, it will only cause the child's selfishness and lack of gratitude.

This is not good for children, because the best is not necessarily the most suitable, it is just the wishful thinking of parents.

There are many parents who sacrifice everything for their children and give everything to their children, and I feel that this method is very wrong.

If we do this often, it will cause the child to become very selfish, and it will also cause the child to stop respecting his parents.

We need to pay attention to the fact that first of all, it is a single individual, envy and then the child's parents If we don't know how to think about ourselves at this time, then the child is likely to become very selfish, so I also hope that everyone will pay attention to this situation.

1. Why is it not recommended?

There are some parents who give their children all their things, and when they find out that their children have done something wrong, or that the children are not satisfied with themselves, they will say that the parents have given you everything.

You've let your parents down like that. At this time, we invisibly put a lot of pressure on the child, which will cause the child to be very uncomfortable, and if the parent gives everything to the child, then the parent's life will be very difficult.

Although this is a selfless act of parents, it will also invisibly make children very selfish.

2. How to educate children correctly?

We want our children to know that these things belong to their parents, and their parents give them to you, because they like you, and we want our children to know that everything is hard-won.

And let the child know to cherish their parents and love them. Usually, if the child wants to get something, we can also choose to let the child do some housework, or let the child get a better score.

3. Summarize and shout righteousness.

We want children to know that everything is hard-won, and parents can't blindly give, which will also lead to children no longer cherishing their parents' love for themselves, and children will become worse and worse.

We want children to know that everything is hard-won, and parents can't blindly give, which will also lead to children no longer cherishing their parents' love for themselves, and children will become worse and worse.