If you have bad intentions for others, you will only be angry with yourself, and you will not go bac

Don't care, it's your body that hurts when you're angry, and it's the so-called anger that hurts your body, and they don't know when you're angry. Even if they knew, they didn't care. If the other person is someone you don't care about or won't come into contact with later in life, you don't have to care.

If it's someone you care about, you can talk to him and talk calmly.

1 Choose to ignore, there must be a reason why he is not kind to you, just if he is jealous of you or something is not as good as you do, think that he is psychologically uncomfortable with yourself.

If anyone does not offend me, I will not offend anyone, but if anyone offends me, I will repay him. It's not that you have to report, but that forbearance and will not only make the other party gain an inch. The first step to change is to learn to say no, reasonably and pleasantly refuse requests that make you not want to help, and let the other person understand your boundaries and bottom line.

Again, learn to vent and release, don't sulk yourself, and proper exercise can also adjust temporary unhappiness.

It depends on the reason why you don't just go back.

If you are embarrassed to tear your face, in fact, you just need to understand that you don't need to be good friends with everyone, life is in the world, don't always wronged yourself to take care of the overall situation, other people's ill intentions are directly unconcealed in front of you, and what is quiet, you have to be generous and generous.

If you are stupid and can't play it at the moment, it means that you may often be in a passive state when getting along with others in your daily life. In your daily communication with others, you can express whatever you want, so that your brain can come up with words for you when you need words.

There's really no way around this, it shows that my personality is more introverted. Explain that you will not say anything angry with others.

It is impossible to change your personality all at once, and when you see such a person, it is better to ignore him.

In the end, it's a matter of mind. Relax your mind, it's not a problem. Sometimes you need to go back, and sometimes you don't really have to. So. It's a matter of the mind, and it's easy to do a lot of things if you relax your mind.

I think if you really don't know how to go back, you don't speak, it may be the biggest counterattack for the other party.

I think the best way to encounter such a thing is to be silent, or to smile kindly, there is no need to be serious, and in life you can pay attention to cultivating your reaction speed.

If you can't speak, you can read more books to exercise your brain. If you don't have enough reflexes, you can learn to do handstands, and handstands can enhance your reflexes. It can also strengthen physical fitness.

Communicate more with others, and slowly you will change yourself, and at the same time, try to change yourself little by little.

I think that if someone deliberately targets you, I don't think you need to be angry about it if it's just words.

I feel the same problem as you. I feel like I'm slow to react. I often can't answer other people's words.

You can read more books, learn more about other people's way of speaking, and improve your language skills.

When encountering problems, you should be calm and sophisticated, magnanimous, and empathize with what others say and do. What others say, you have to treat it correctly, analyze it correctly, understand it correctly, you can get comfort in your heart, don't worry too much, so as not to hurt someone's good heart, so if you do this, you won't hurt others, and you won't regret it.

You should be careful when you speak. Think about it.

I think everyone has their own little temper, and when something doesn't go well, it's better to empathize and think more!

You should change yourself, either or it is.

Scoff, don't get angry, ignore them.

Either that, you also say nasty things and let them bear it. It's called a tooth for a tooth.

Why do you get angry, and say it to those who say bad things to you, and you ask them what qualifications they have to say about you, and why do they say about you?

You can try it, first of all, find a person who hates and bullies you the most, or find a doll, or practice what you have to be brave!! You can't always be ridden on the head by others.

Don't be too good to anyone, if you are so good that you have no reservations, the other party will dare to be bad and unscrupulous. Kindness, if you don't have a bit of edge, you are an incompetent wreck in the eyes of others. Others will not think that you let him go, but tolerate him.

Others will only think that you are currying favor with him and asking for him. Kindness and good hearts are often regarded as lack of heart. Others are enjoying your good while laughing at your lack of heart.

Kindness must have a bottom line, otherwise your kindness will indulge the evil of others. If you don't meet the other person's satisfaction, you will deny it completely, and take everything for granted. It is true that people cannot be too nice to people.

Kind people often do things that suffer losses. suffered a loss, but the other party did not come to see you with a little gratitude. Kindness can be given to people with a conscience, otherwise your kindness will be ignored by others.

People must have a little temper in order to live out their ambitions.

I don't bully others, I don't take advantage of others. When someone provokes you, you must come out. Taking a step back sometimes leads to a cliff behind you, and only by taking a step further can you open up the sea and the sky.

You're really punishing yourself for someone else's mistakes. When we encounter others saying ugly things about ourselves, we generally have two ways, first, when we get angry, we will go back. Two, when he's farting, I don't care.

But what about you, if you don't go back, why are you still angry? I think it's better to self-regulate the way that suits you, so that you can fight each other with others, and I guess you can't do it. So when we face other people's verbal attacks, you don't follow his language to imagine yourself, you have to block his language, just like when our parents nagged us when we were children, in fact, we didn't listen to it at all.

In addition, no matter what others say to you, you just think that he is a puppy and is poigning at you, well, or that kind of cute puppy, you think so in your heart, ah, what a cute dog mouth, I don't know what it is called, look, the dog's mouth is about to squirt out, and I don't know if it is thirsty......In short, ignore his specific language, and don't let those ugly words affect your body and mind.

Some can be endured, and what can't be endured, why should they endure.

Some people like to scare people, no matter what others say, he always wants to find some bad language to scold back, such a person, you don't take it to heart, when you meet such a filial person, you don't talk to him less, and slowly the people around him will stay away from him.

Don't be angry and angry, as long as someone doesn't talk well, leave immediately, don't say a word, don't say a word of nonsense. Someone dares to treat you like this, it means that you are not strong enough, experience yourself, let yourself grow up and have a bad reputation, and when Qing tells you that you can look down on them, they have automatically learned to speak well.

Don't think about dealing with others, since you know that he is a person with good intentions, keep a certain distance and there will be no contradictions, if you deal with others, not only are you very troubled, but there will be a lot of troublesome things, why do you bother with these things, it is best to stay away from such people, it will not harass you, and it will not make you annoyed, more than one thing is better than less, just do yourself.

We live in this society, and there are naturally many ill-intentioned people around us. It's best to stay away from it, or compete with each other, learn to protect yourself, and don't overdo it.

Those who have bad intentions are too poor in quality and have done too much evil and will be punished as they deserve.

To deal with such a person, it is better to either ignore him or stay away from him.

It's best to stay away. This kind of person is the most terrifying, maybe he will hurt you at any time. You can't offend him yet. This kind of person can't have deep friendships, and they can't meet without greeting. It can only be face-to-face friendship.

If you meet someone with bad intentions in your life, I think you should stay away from him, and if he does some harm to you, I think you should call the police and ask the police to clean him up.

Don't be polite to someone like that, or he'll get an inch on you.

How to deal with ill-intentioned people? If this person has bad intentions towards you, you can imitate him with your words and make him less close to you.

In the face of those ill-intentioned people in life, do not be kind to them, you must learn to use the right means to get along with them, and do not startle them.

Be yourself, don't have to deal with each other to retaliate, have good intentions, go your own way, we can never change others.

You're going to have to be vigilant about that. As long as he doesn't cause you harm, you can ignore him and don't pay too much attention to his presence.

Others have a bad attitude towards you, you should first think about whether you have offended him, so they will treat you like this? In fact, you can ignore him, just do your own thing, and don't care too much about what others think of you and how you treat you, because there are all kinds of people in today's society, and you must learn to adapt to the environment and adapt to the current society. Others have a bad attitude towards you, you should first think about whether you have offended him, so they will treat you like this?

In fact, you can ignore him, just do your own thing, and don't care too much about what others think of you and how you treat you, because there are all kinds of people in today's society, and you must learn to adapt to the environment and adapt to the current society. Others have a bad attitude towards you, you should first think about whether you have offended him, so they will treat you like this? In fact, you can ignore him, just do your own thing, and don't care too much about what others think of you and how you treat you, because there are all kinds of people in today's society, and you must learn to adapt to the environment and adapt to the current society.

Others have a bad attitude towards you, you should first think about whether you have offended him, so they will treat you like this? In fact, you can ignore him, just do your own thing, and don't care too much about what others think of you and how you treat you, because there are all kinds of people in today's society, and you must learn to adapt to the environment and adapt to the current society. Go for it!

Because you care about other people's attitude towards you, you will get angry, just treat him as some kind of gas and let it go.

I don't know if you're talking about life or work, first of all, other people's bad attitude towards you must be someone else's fault, right, but also find your own reasons, if you don't know someone who has a bad attitude towards you, then you must be angry with you, just ignore this person, no one will like such a person.

Let's find the reason from ourselves! If you are truly strong, the whole world will be kind to you! Another point is that whether it is a dignitary or an ordinary person in this world, they can't escape the level of anger, only by strengthening themselves, changing their mentality, and adjusting their state can they face a gorgeous and colorful life!

Everyone you meet in the world, good or bad, is to let yourself grow, broaden your thinking, face it positively, be grateful, be kind to others (garbage people stay away, not with the villain), life will be better and better! Bless the wise men of the world.

Is there a reason why others treat you badly? If there is, you reflect on it, if not, make it clear that it is best not to associate in the future.

There are a lot of people like this in real life, although they are very angry, but you can't learn from him, it's a villain, you stay away from him, but don't force yourself with him, otherwise you will suffer. If the other party is the kind that is good for you and has no intention, then you can find the reason for it in yourself.