What should parents do if a teacher physically punishes a child if he makes a mistake?

Elementary school students are young, and most of them are afraid of teachers. They are afraid to tell their parents after being physically punished at school. Some parents are afraid of causing trouble to their children in the future after discovering that their children have been physically punished at school.

Such indulgence will worsen the state of education in China, so it is important to take appropriate measures to deal with the situation. On the one hand, it is necessary to communicate with the child frequently to keep abreast of the child's situation at school, and on the other hand, it is also necessary to carefully observe the changes in the child's body and behavior to find problems in time. If you learn that your child has been physically punished by a teacher at school, you can do the following:

The first step is to gather some favorable evidence of the child's corporal punishment, such as injuries** or oral recordings of students who witnessed the child's corporal punishment. These are all needed to prevent future contingencies and are best resolved in a peaceful manner.

The second is to ask the reason for the child's corporal punishment, which is generally not used by the teacher when the child has not made a mistake. After finding the cause, help your child correct his or her problem in time.

The third is to communicate with the teacher who punishes the child. Although the teacher physically punished his child, the parents should treat the teacher respectfully in order to resolve the matter peacefully. You can ask the teacher out privately and give a small gift.

I would like to thank the teacher for teaching the students, and I apologize for the trouble caused to the teacher by my child. At this time, the teacher may feel deeply guilty, and then it is a bit unreasonable to suggest to the teacher that his previous punishment method is not reasonable, and I hope that the teacher can change the punishment strategy in the future. In this case, the teacher should be receptive to the parent's suggestion.

Usually at this point, the problem is almost solved. Of course, some teachers with poor quality may not be able to do this, so we have to use what we prepared in the first step. The early evidence recording is because the students who are worried about witnessing will not be coerced and induced by the teacher to stop telling the truth.

Take the previous evidence to the principal and ask the school to come forward to solve it. If the school cannot provide a reasonable solution, go to the local education bureau. You can also use ** to deal with this matter.

In short, teachers should not indulge in corporal punishment of students. Multiple parents can participate together. Blindly swallowing one's anger is irresponsible to the child, and if the teacher exposes too much corporal punishment, the consequences will be unimaginable.

In accordance with the relevant legal provisions of the "Teachers Law of the People's Republic of China" and the "Education Law of the People's Republic of China", in order to ensure that students enjoy the right to a fair and just education and to protect their physical and mental health, the following provisions are hereby made on the prohibition of teachers corporal punishment or covert corporal punishment of students: Teachers shall care for and love every student. Students who have difficulties with students and have poor ideological and moral character must respect their personalities, pay special attention to them in ordinary times, set strict requirements, strictly educate, and strictly manage, and persist in understanding and reasoning and moving with emotion.

Every teacher should educate and influence students by his or her own exemplary behavior. In the course of educating students, it is strictly forbidden for teachers to use simple and crude methods of beating and scolding students, or to use disguised punishments such as punishments for standing, running, copying books, labor, expelling from classrooms, not allowing classes, and other acts that insult personal dignity.

Corporal punishment is a very sensitive topic in our society, and in education, corporal punishment is an important issue. In some countries, corporal punishment has been strictly banned, but this does not mean that there are still some places where teachers still rely on this form of education to correct students' misconduct. Of course, for some parents and children, they do not understand why someone would treat students in a way that is based on corporal punishment, because it can harm the child and seriously damage the child's physical and mental health.

So, what do we do when our children are physically punished?

1.Assess whether your child is really making mistakes.

The first step is to start by gaining an in-depth understanding of your child's behavior. When a child is physically punished, the first thing to do is to understand the whole incident that took place. This means communicating with the teacher to get to the bottom of the matter.

If your child makes a mistake, then you need to make a binding border for your child. If a child does something wrong, then as a parent you need to tell your child that the wrong behavior will not be tolerated. To make your child aware of the effects of misbehavior and the social rules that affect behavior, you can have a conversation with your child about your expectations and constraints.

2.Complain to the school or ask for a teacher to be replaced.

If the child has been proven innocent, then you should file a complaint with the school to protect the child's rights. With a complaint, the person in charge is better able to assess this particular incident to ensure that similar issues do not happen again. If the school imposes mandatory restraints that fail to protect students, you may ask the teacher to train or simply ask the school to remove the teacher.

3.Ask for help or advice.

In some cases, you may need to seek advice or help from others on how to write a complaint letter or complete a further complaint form. You can talk to a child rights advocate, child psychologist or homeschooling specialist for advice.

4.Give the child the guidance and attention that is being rude.

When a child is physically punished by a teacher, he or she will feel a sense of guilt and emotional damage, which requires your attention and guidance as a parent. Be in close contact and communicate with your child, understand their emotions and performance, let your child know that their parents will always support them, respect their emotions and reactions, be honest with them about what happened, and express emotions that are shared with your child. At the same time, it is also necessary to give children specific measures to master behaviors and skills that are worth learning, so that children can continue to grow.

5.There is a strong call for the prohibition of such acts.

Finally, we need to make more people aware that corporal punishment should not be a form of education, but must be banned, or that other forms of education should be adopted to develop good habits and morals in students. It is only when we resolutely call for, oppose and resist corporal punishment that we can provide a more conducive environment for education.

All in all, when our children are physically punished by teachers, we need to stay calm and rational, understand the key points of the whole incident, and take appropriate measures to protect the rights and interests of our children and help them grow. We believe that through hard work and collaboration, we can work with schools and teachers to allow children to learn and grow in a completely safe environment.

First, resolutely do not think in opposition to the teacher.

There are two issues that need to be clarified here, one is that the reason why the teacher physically punishes the child is that the child makes a mistake, and the other is that the teacher's corporal punishment is only a slight corporal punishment, which I think can be understood as not much physical and mental harm.

In this case, parents must not make a big fuss, think about it, in the process of the child's growth, have you not hit the child? Have you not physically punished a child? Although we can no longer have the idea of "being a teacher for one day and a father for life", an outsider who can help you educate your children when they make mistakes should be worthy of your respect.

If parents look at this problem from the opposite side of the teacher, say bad things about the teacher in front of the child, let out cruel words, or even go directly to the teacher to theorize, most of the children who come out of such family education are problematic.

Clause. Second, corporal punishment is corporal punishment, and the effect is the most important.

Since the child has been slightly corporal punished by the teacher, parents can neither make a fuss about it, nor can they let it go, so they should seize this educational opportunity to discuss with the child that the teacher punishes you, right? Have you been wrongly targeted? Why did the teacher punish you?

What lessons should you learn from such a question, because after corporal punishment of students, they may not do so much work, and children may have opinions about teachers, or even hate teachers, at this time, it is necessary for parents to guide children to understand: it is your fault first, and the teacher punishes you for your own good. Since corporal punishment has not done much harm, parents should make a fuss about it.

Of course, we're talking about mild corporal punishment, and I think this mild corporal punishment can be boiled down to punishment, not corporal punishment. However, if the teacher is to vent his personal anger or cause serious physical and mental harm to the child, for example, a teacher from a school in Xinling actually beat the child more than 100 sticks, such corporal punishment has completely exceeded the scope of education, for such behavior, I can not tolerate it, I will firmly stand on the side of the child, let the teacher or the school, give an explanation, change teachers, change schools are completely reasonable, because of this corporal punishment, It has left a very serious physical and psychological shadow on the child.

On the other hand, the teacher's punishment should be "caused, measured, and effective", and you must not vent your negative emotions on the students because of the child's mistakes, such a result will harm others and yourself!

As a parent, we all know that corporal punishment of a child is not the right behavior. However, in some cases, teachers may resort to corporal punishment to punish children for their bad behavior. If this happens, how should we deal with it?

We need to calm down and not make any decisions emotionally. We need to get to the bottom of things, listen to the children and teachers, and understand the school's rules and policies. If we believe that the teacher's corporal punishment is inappropriate, we can complain to the school management and provide evidence to support our position.

We need to communicate with our children to let them know that we are not in favour of corporal punishment and to tell them that we will support them. There are rules and conventions we can work with our children to help them feel more in control of their behavior. At the same time, we also need to encourage our children to express their feelings and thoughts and let them know that we are their supporters and friends.

We need to think about how our children are educated. Corporal punishment is not the best way to solve the problem, it only frightens and upsets the child. Instead, we can guide our children in other ways, such as rewarding good behaviors, giving positive feedback and guidance, and so on.

We need to let our children know that they are loved and cared for, so that they will be more willing to follow our advice and guidance.

When we encounter a situation where a teacher physically punishes a child, we need to deal with it calmly, understand the truth of the matter, communicate with the child, and consider a better way of education. We need to let our children know that we are their supporters and friends, not enemies. Only in this way can we help our children grow into healthy, happy and confident people.

If you are a teacher, it is recommended not to use corporal punishment, parents are too difficult nowadays, and you still have to learn to protect yourself.

The Ministry of Education has now made it clear that teachers are not allowed to use corporal punishment to educate students. And now because many families are only children, many parents are very precious to their children, and they also do not approve of teachers using corporal punishment to educate their children. So is corporal punishment useless in education?

Its educational approach to substantive punishment is still very useful. At least many of them admitted that they had been physically punished by their teachers, but they did not resent the teachers, on the contrary, they were grateful to the teachers of the past. It can be seen that corporal punishment is not always useless.

On the other hand, since teachers are not allowed to physically punish and scold students, teachers have no right to intervene in students' behavior, and teachers can only persuade students. Students also know that teachers can't physically punish themselves, so they don't have a sense of reverence for teachers, so the relationship between teachers and students is full of contradictions.

In fact, in the author's opinion, it is incorrect to ban corporal punishment as a form of education altogether. It is correct to educate students and teachers to guide them patiently, but this is only effective for those students who are obedient, and for those students who violate school discipline and rules at will but continue to prohibit them, the author believes that it is useless to only use persuasion, and corporal punishment is effective. After all, if persuasion alone can make these students realize their mistakes and correct them, then there is no need for police in society.

Therefore, the author believes that when students make mistakes of principle, it is okay for teachers to use appropriate corporal punishment. This corporal punishment is not for anything, but only for children to know that they will be punished if they make a mistake, so that they will not dare to do it again. However, this corporal punishment is not something that can be used arbitrarily.

It can only be used when the student has really made a big mistake, which is also to prevent the teacher from randomly beating and scolding the student to vent because he is in a bad mood.

Of course, the teacher is the authority, and it is very important for the student to be valued by the teacher, as long as the teacher still has expectations for you, it is appropriate to punish you for hitting you.

Square peg. If a student makes a mistake, the teacher can criticize the education by reproaching it, but not corporal punishment.

Solve the problem in a timely manner.