How do you think about the post 90s collective middle aged?

I think the fundamental reason for this phenomenon is that the society is developing very fast now, and the pressure of competition is also very large, which will lead to excessive pressure on the post-90s generation and enter middle age.

The post-90s generation has collectively entered middle age, which is something that cannot be helped, which is caused by the passage of time. Now that you are entering middle age, you must think about how you should live your future.

I think it is very unscientific for the post-90s generation to collectively enter middle age, because some young people are too lazy.

I think this matter has something to do with everyone's mentality, in fact, they are either collectively entering middle age or becoming more mature and stable.

Most of the post-90s collective middle-aged events are still related to mentality. Young people should be calm and calm about age.

I think this statement is a bit exaggerated, what's wrong with the post-90s, you guys say that about us.

This is a very normal thing, and time will not stop because of anyone, but the event of the post-90s collective middle-aged came too quickly, because the adolescence of the post-90s generation is still vivid, as if it happened yesterday.

The post-90s generation has a very irregular life and rest, always working late, so it is easy to age.

I think the post-90s generation is entering middle age. The young and ignorant post-90s generation has matured.

Time flies, time is unforgiving, and the once youthful generation has gradually entered middle age, which is full of emotion.

On the surface, they talk about a "mid-life crisis", but in fact, they are more afraid of "marginalization". You said that staying up all night and dying suddenly, I am not afraid; But if you say you'll be bald, I'll go to bed right away. A thermos cup filled with hot boiled water and topped with goji berries.

When you find that the current stars are younger than you, or you turn 20 pages on the new song list, not only do you not know the name of the song, but you haven't even heard the name of the singer, and others chase stars and start to buy advertisements for their idols to "raise" him, and there are still posters of favorite stars on the wall of your home, if you find these gaps, maybe you are really old.

When the first advance troops of the post-00s were about to arrive in the adult camp, I consciously called myself Uncle Oil (greasy middle-aged uncle). I'm getting old and want to find a stable job and have a peaceful life.

Not true. As a boy in '91, I was at a loss when I first came to Beijing, always thinking that I could realize my value in this city full of dreams. But being slapped in the face again and again by reality made me gradually understand that the gap between myself and my goal cannot be narrowed by one or two years, let alone by anxiety and panic.

I don't think it's true, most of the post-90s generation still don't bear too much family burden, most of their parents are still working, the so-called pension pressure of the post-90s is still too early, and to a certain extent, their parents bear part of the burden of family expenses, and parents help take care of their grandchildren.

Indeed, now that the post-90s generation is almost middle-aged, and the nineties are almost in their thirties, there should be a sense of crisis.

I was 93 years old, and I had just finished my studies, and before I could catch my breath, I had to be forced by my family, relatives, and even the social environment. Not to mention the cordial "interrogation" of the seven aunts and eight aunts when they go home every festive season: how much is the salary?

Got an object? When are you going to buy a house? obviously felt that he was still a baby, but he was suddenly pushed into the "mid-life crisis".

I think it's mainly because young people are still psychologically immature now, but the pressure of real life is also quite high, which also makes the young post-90s enter a midlife crisis.

It is undeniable that the post-90s generation gradually walked out of campus and into society, and the anxiety from the workplace and family brought them a "sense of crisis" that only middle-aged people could feel before.

I'm not the kind of anxiety about a midlife crisis. Although the reality makes me understand that my current self is mediocre, I am willing to accept this mediocrity; The reality made me realize that I was very poor now, and I gradually accepted the poor numbers in my bank card.

We are born in the 90s and are in the ** era of life, and we should not become greasy middle-aged uncles. We need to recognize the world, and while we need to see the pressures clearly, we also need to see the opportunities that this new era gives us.

There will indeed be some problems, especially some people still have too high expectations of themselves in their hearts, which may be due to practical reasons.

I think that the young people of the post-90s generation will be in a particularly idle and leisurely state when they are old. They will know how to enjoy their lives. May go to a nursing home to play cards.

You might also go to the square for a square dance. The young people of the post-90s generation must have something to do when they are old, and they are a good hand in the square. Because the post-90s generation knows how to enjoy life.

I also love life.

The post-90s generation is a particularly incomprehensible generation. Often when something happens, they say that the post-90s generation can't stand it. But the country's leaders have given a positive attitude, and the post-90s generation is the backbone of this society now.

It is not to be underestimated. Moreover, the post-90s generation has made great contributions in all fields of society. Because the attitude of the post-90s generation is particularly firm.

They have a spirit of inquiry. Nor are they afraid of hardship. But he is not afraid of power.

That's the kind of generation. It can lead China's social development to get better and better.

They work hard at work when they are young. And they are also very concerned about paying insurance. So that after they retire, they will have a pension every month.

The post-90s generation often thinks that they must travel around the world when they are old. You must go with your old wife to see the places you didn't see when you were younger. However, it is also possible that they are at home to help their children with the baby.

But their lives must have been particularly happy. It is also particularly idle.

I am a post-90s generation. My idea is to make more money when you're young. In this way, you won't have to worry about money when you get old.

You can also help your own children more. If your child doesn't need your own help, go on a trip with your partner. Save up to buy an RV when you're younger.

Take your beloved with you in old age. Take a trip that you didn't dare to go when you were young.

I think the post-90s generation is also a group of very free people after they get old, because the post-90s generation is in the process of a society slowly becoming more open, they have become accustomed to this kind of life, and they can also live freely and comfortably when they are old.

Everyone has a young time, every generation has a young state, and now the post-90s generation is full of vitality, I believe that after years of experience and aging, they can also be more calm and become grandparents respected by children.

Young people of this age are very good at enjoying themselves when they are old, and their living conditions are very superior, so they are also very good at living when they are old.

It will be a completely different state from the current elderly, such as being more open-minded, not opposing children chasing stars, and then very healthy, but paradoxically loving extreme sports.

I think that when the post-90s generation is old, they must be much more open-minded than our parents, and I believe that they should be able to follow the current trend, because most of the post-90s have already studied.

I think that the young people of the post-90s generation will enjoy life with peace of mind when they are old, they have really experienced too much when they are young, and these things are enough for them to think about what they should do in this life.

After the young people of the post-90s generation get old, both men and women basically dance square dances in the square to maintain a good mood and physical condition.

In response to this problem, my personal opinion is that the post-90s generation is the latest group of young people in the new era, and the difference between them and their predecessors is that they have more things to play, more knowledge, and they can adapt to the life of young people in the future, so I think the post-90s generation is still very happy when they are old, and they will enjoy life.

Like most seniors, get fit, square dancing or taking your grandchildren for a walk.

The current post-90s generation has a kind of mid-life crisis topic, which has begun to cause heated discussions in many places, so does the post-90s mid-life crisis exist? I think it does exist, because the post-90s generation is an era of drastic economic changes, and it is also a critical period of China's reform and opening up.

Therefore, many post-90s people have encountered much more profound changes than people of any era, which is the misfortune of the post-90s, but also the luck of the post-90s, the unfortunate reason is that the post-90s need to live under pressure and live the life of middle-aged people; Fortunately, the post-90s generation enjoyed much more material and spiritual culture than people of other eras.

It is actually normal for the post-90s to have a mid-life crisis, because after the post-90s enter the society, they are facing the pressure of employment, which is beyond the post-80s and post-70s, because in the era of the post-80s and post-70s, there is no such fierce competition for employment, after all, there are more jobs at that time, and the competitive pressure will be relatively smaller.

The post-80s is a period when the real estate market is just starting, as long as the elderly in the family have jobs, then there will generally be welfare housing to buy, so the post-80s housing crisis is not a full-scale outbreak, but a local outbreak! However, the post-90s generation is completely exposed to the weight of the real estate market, and the current post-90s generation has entered middle-aged consumption.

With the acceleration of China's aging population, many post-90s feel the pressure brought by the elderly, and they are very different from the post-80s, because some of them have brothers and sisters, so that they can share the family pressure well and not make people feel that they have a mid-life crisis. But the post-90s generation is almost all alone, and they have to take care of many elderly people.

In fact, there are many misfortunes of the post-90s, such as the post-90s encounter the world financial crisis, the current world economic recession and China's economy has entered a period of adjustment, these pressures seem to be invisible, but in fact they are actually pressed on the shoulders of the post-90s, so the post-90s are in a kind of pre-aging scene, and the mid-life crisis has appeared!

Let's take a look at what the midlife crisis is: it generally occurs in men between the ages of 39 and 50, and in men between the ages of 40 and 65, it is also called the "man forty syndrome". Broadly speaking, it refers to the various hurdles and crises that may be experienced at this stage of life, such as career, health, family and marriage.

The post-90s generation is obviously not within the range of the age group mentioned above, and obviously belongs to the later broad sense. But why is this happening after the 90s?

The post-90s generation has tremendous pressure, and now even those born in 1999 are already 18 years old and adults; People born in 1990 are already 27 years old, and they are already old enough to have children. Therefore, the post-90s generation has basically entered the society, and they have to take on a lot of responsibilities that they didn't need to consider before. But in fact, we post-90s feel that we are still young and still a baby.

But in the eyes of people other than parents, this is no longer the case.

**From the Internet).

The post-90s generation will first face the society. All kinds of graduation, work, and all kinds of major choices that we have to face in life force us to pay attention. However, in the current era of "difficult employment" and "graduation equals unemployment", the demand for high-level employees by employers has become higher, and the employment has become more and more selective.

Failure and rejection again and again also made many post-90s generations begin to suffer setbacks and even doubt their lives. We have the heart to go out and break through, but we don't know if we have the capital to break out.

The second is itself. Some post-90s generations are already married, and it is inevitable that they will have some difficulties in the face of this major turning point in their lives. All kinds of car loans, housing loans, and even the money from credit cards are the objects of distress for many young people.

The rewards of your own work may not be enough to meet so many needs or loans, and it is inevitable that you will feel very stressed and feel that life may be a bit difficult.

**From the Internet).

And then there's the family. The urging of our parents to marry or their concern for us in choosing a mate also makes us feel a certain amount of pressure. All kinds of situations of marriage urging and forced marriage occur in young people's homes, which leads to more troubles for young people.

Whether to choose to devote himself to his career first or choose to start a family first has become a distress for many post-90s generations.

**From the Internet).

Therefore, in the face of various pressures from society, oneself and family, it is normal to have a midlife crisis.

Are the post-90s generation old? I said that I don't understand it very much, old age is just the gradual aging of the body, everyone will experience it, this is all for later. But those of us born in the 90s are in the prime of our cardamom years, and we still have a lot of youth, and we still have too many shoulders on our shoulders.

We haven't formed our own family because of love, relied on our own efforts to raise our parents, had a crystallization with the person we love, and went on a hypocritical trip by ourselves. We haven't done anything, we haven't even really become a social being, how can we get old?

Maybe society puts too much pressure on us post-90s, so we are so unhealthy that we have entered middle age, anxiety, and insomnia.

Maybe we also give ourselves too much baggage, and a satisfying job, a good salary, and a lot of performance are all unattainable.

Maybe it's because I'm thinking too much and I'm too ambitious. is unwilling to compromise, so that he loses his fighting spirit and slowly loses himself.

From the post-90s generation, who are already dying, all the way to the mid-life crisis, it has aroused strong resonance. and then released the definition of youth on the official Weibo of the United Nations, dividing those born in 1992 into middle-aged people. Why do the post-90s generation have a midlife crisis?

Loneliness and anxiety, dissatisfaction with the status quo. Many times, loneliness can only be extremely lethal in the face of time. A person's life always feels that time is long, so he feels that time has passed again and again and has achieved nothing.

Compared to other individual successful people, he lives like a beggar, can't do something as he wants, and is even worse than a child. So you have a sense of crisis, you're very anxious, but you don't put in the effort, because you don't feel like it's going to pay off.

Some people are old, but they are young; Some people are young, but they are old. Therefore, the mid-life crisis is aimed at those who do nothing, as long as we are motivated and motivated in the 90s, we will never grow old.