The woman was stunned by her parents opposition in love, and she has been opposed many times before

There is a saying in <> that parents want their children well. I believe that most parents are indeed like this, they want their children to be happy, and it is best to be carefree and happy in the second half of their lives.

For their children's love, parents will think more, they stand in their own perspective, look at the other half of the child, and when they feel that it is not suitable, they will strongly oppose the child's marriage. Can we accept such parents, in fact, this has to be discussed from a different perspective。We can think about why they oppose it from the perspective of the girl's parents, which should be more meaningful for the girl's choice.

1.thinks that the man is unreliable. If in the eyes of the girl's parents, the boyfriend she is talking about has no responsibility, the parents will definitely not feel at ease to hand over their baby daughter to such a man, after all, this is a major event in a lifetime, and it is not as simple as a child's house.

If the child is bound to such a person in the future, and suffers and sheds tears, only the parents will feel sorry for the girl, but by that time, it will be too late, and it is better not to let the daughter suffer these things. 2.Think two people are not suitable.

The daughter is the treasure of the parents, and the parents will naturally keep it firmly in check, if the personality, family background, education, etc. of the two people do not match, the parents will naturally be worried, and they are very likely to oppose it. There is a saying that without the blessing of parents, marriage, in fact, many will not go to the end, after all, your parents have eaten more than you for decades, experienced a lot of things, and have much more experience than children in their early 20sIf it is the above situation, I can certainly accept such parents

However, not all parents want their children to do well, after all, being a parent does not need to take exams. If the girl has carefully thought about it, and has listened carefully to the advice of the people around her, and thinks that her relationship is very suitable, and her parents are a little vexatious, she will insist on her own choice, and at the same time quickly become financially independent, escape from this "home", escape from the control of this kind of parents, and build her own small family. But if your parents really have a point, you should listen to them, after all, they won't hurt you

I can accept such parents, but I will try my best to communicate with them, after all, love is my own, and my future path is also my own.

It's acceptable, in fact, most people are bystanders when they are in love. Parents have blocked many times, perhaps because the other party is not reliable.

I think the behavior of parents against must be unacceptable to me, after all, love belongs to themselves, so parents had better not interfere too much with their children's love, which may make their children lose their true love, in Zhengzhou, Henan, 30-year-old Qingqing because her parents were not satisfied with her boyfriend's conditions, so in the process of quarreling with her parents, she was directly fainted due to emotion, according to the woman, in fact, she had been in love several times before, but the object was denied by her parents.

I thought I found a boyfriend with good conditions this time, the most important thing is that it hurts very much, I didn't expect my parents to oppose it, and I think my child will find a better object, and the opposition of my parents also makes the woman feel very disappointed, after all, I finally found a favorite object, and my parents should send long-lost blessings, instead of opposing and pointing fingers at their children's choices, which leads to the woman being very depressed and angry.

I think that women must adjust their mentality, life belongs to themselves, after all, the object they are looking for is to live with themselves for a lifetime, not with their parents for a lifetime, once they make a firm choice, don't worry about the opposition of their parents, I think such parents are also too high requirements for their children, after all, the woman is not looking for a partner to blindly value the other party's wealth and appearance, should pay more attention to the other party's morality. If a person's character is not good, even if he has money, he must stay away.

Parents should not interfere too much with their children's choice, if there is no big problem with the object of the child, although the family conditions are not good, but do not object, parents love their children out of themselves, but do not interfere too much with the freedom of their children, many times in the matter of finding the object, parents are in the name of the good of the child, want to find a good object for the child in all aspects, but ignore the real feelings of the child, as long as their children like as parents should give blessings.

The parents of the daughter in love strongly objected, try the following methods:

1. Figure out the reasons for her parents' opposition and the real demands of her parents' heartsUsually, the reasons for parents' opposition will not be so straightforward and you need to read it yourself.

2. The elderly see the problem more comprehensively, and it is understandable that some small details may not make them very satisfied with the boy's dissatisfaction, because they hope to entrust their daughter's happiness to a responsible, careful, and comprehensive boy who handles the problem comprehensively, so that they can rest assured.

2. Communicate carefully. Parents want their children to be happy in the future. Maybe it is because at some point the parents are not at ease, and at this time, we must work hard to improve ourselves and let the parents know that they are capable of living well.

Hello, in this case, it is best to communicate well with your parents, if you really can't do it, just listen to them, don't let them worry too much, after all, they are also for your good, if your daughter really loves him, you should support her.

Because the parents think that the man's condition is poor, his appearance is not good, and he is not worthy of his daughter.

The 30-year-old woman's love was fiercely opposed by her parents, and the main reason for the opposition was that the man's conditions were relatively poor, and the woman's conditions did not match, and the parents thought that the girl would not be happy if she married such a man, and the economic pressure after marriage would be greater. At the same time, the parents also think that there is a big gap in the thinking of the children raised in two different environments, and they think that the boy will have irreconcilable conflicts with his daughter when he is together, and he is afraid that they will divorce after they get married.

The reason why her parents vehemently opposed a woman's love was also that she found a boyfriend who was not good-looking, not tall, and not beautiful in appearance. And this girl is an extremely beautiful girl in the eyes of her parents, and they all think that their daughter should be able to find a more beautiful boyfriend, rather than such a person who is not good-looking and mediocre, and thinks that such a man is not worthy of his woman at all, so his parents will fiercely oppose it.

The parents are standing in their own perspective to oppose the woman's love, but the relationship between the woman and her boyfriend is very good, when the parents objected, the woman did not agree, so she had a fierce quarrel with her parents, in the process of the quarrel, the woman was stunned all of a sudden, and the parents panicked in the past, and sent him to the hospital for examination**, and found that the woman was metabolic alkalosis, which was related to being too emotional, and the girl and her parents regretted it after the incident.

The doctor said that the girl fainted because of metabolic alkalosis, and because of her emotional excitement and tension, she was hyperventilated, and the pH in her body was out of balance, so she had a short period of syncope. If you can't control your emotions later in life, you will have frequent symptoms that can cause serious damage to your health. The girl and the parents should each take a step back, the parents should not interfere too much in the love life of the girl, and the girl should also respect the opinions of the parents, and there should be no more fierce quarrels between the two.

The parents' move is actually for the good of their daughter, because the man is too unreliable, and the man is too old.

The 30-year-old Qingqing has had several relationships before, all of which ended in the opposition of her parents, all because of her parents' excessive interference. This time, when it comes to falling in love, Qingqing is more satisfied with the object of her love. I feel that this partner is not only good in all aspects, but also very satisfied with the good aspects of myself.

In this defense, I thought that my parents would support me this time. But after telling his parents about the desperate group, he was strongly opposed by his parents, thinking that he should be able to find a better one, which made Qingqing, who didn't want to end the relationship, very angry and orange.

Parents hope that a woman can find someone worthy of them, and they don't want a woman to marry far away, and they hope that a woman can find a more mature one.

It's understandable to avoid the worry that your daughter will go astray emotionally, but as an adult, girls also have the right to choose their own love. If you prevent your daughter from falling in love for no reason, not only will you not be able to maintain a good family relationship, but it may also lead to the breakdown of family relationships. Therefore, in the view, the approach of the Zhengzhou family is unwise, a 30-year-old woman was discouraged from falling in love by her parents, and this also made the girl faint due to respiratory alkalosis, which has a very serious adverse impact on the girl and her family.

In the matter of educating children, parents can give their children a guiding perspective in a timely manner, so that children can look at problems rationally, and then solve problems and troubles smoothly through various methods and ways. Especially in the process of falling in love, because parents have rich experience, they can accurately see whether a person's attitude towards their children is good, and such interference can effectively avoid the occurrence of a wrong relationship for children. But when falling in love, parents can't oppose it all at once, thinking that their children are good anywhere and can find a partner with good conditions in all aspects.

Such an idea is very unrealistic, there are very many people in this world, and there are many excellent people, and it is very difficult to find a better person. In contrast, excellence is endless, and such a comparison will cause a lot of trouble in the process of falling in love, which will lead to a situation like the woman in Zhengzhou. <>

In the process of children's growth, as parents always like to interfere in their children's lives, they will not only suppress their children ideologically, but even everything their children do, parents will be eager to deny their views, which will not only make children rebellious, but also make themselves and parents have opposites, or even more extreme things. In addition, when parents intervene in their children, it will also make it difficult for children's creativity and imagination to be fully developed, so that children will always be in a passive state in doing things, without their own opinions. <>

In short, as an individual, although there will be many setbacks in the process of growing up, this is also a necessary thing on the road of children's growth, and parents must learn to communicate with their children. Although you can't educate your child correctly, don't use some simple and crude methods to impose your own views on your child. Because although parents have seen a lot of things, such ideas are not necessarily correct, and it is easy for children to move towards phrases and have adverse consequences.

Therefore, in the matter of interfering with children, as parents, we must look at the problem dialectically, and make some guiding views at the right time, so that children can step into a brighter future in the process of growth, rather than adding all their ideas to children and affecting children's physical and mental development.

It is not good to interfere with the marriage of their children if there are too many parents. Because now love is free, marriage is free. Parents should reflect on themselves.

It is very likely that the woman does not like her parents very much or runs away from home, which affects the mood of the parents, and the benefit is that the child can make a correct path.

Many people may think that their children are very beautiful and in very good condition, and then feel that their children deserve to be better people, so they will always oppose him and his boyfriend, but I think that as parents, we should not interfere too much in the feelings of our children, if we interfere too much in our children's feelings, it is likely to cause some psychological problems, or other family problems.

This 30-year-old girl had a quarrel with her parents because of emotional problems, and in the process of quarreling, she was emotionally agitated, which led to fainting, I think this girl insists on her own ideas is correct, because we should cherish our feelings, we don't listen too much to our parents' opinions, how our own emotional life is, we know very well in our own hearts, and we also know very well that when parents want to interfere too much in our feelings, We should refuse to defeat and stop this kind of behavior from happening, because the person who will accompany us for the rest of our lives is our other half, and our parents will not be with us permanently, so when it comes to choosing feelings, we must have our own opinions and ideas. <>

Sometimes there is a certain truth in the feelings that parents oppose, but we don't all listen to our parents' opinions, parents help us a little when we make a choice, and we still have to live by ourselves or we live by ourselves in the future, so we have to have our own ideas, after all, we still need to live by ourselves in the future, whether it is spiritual or love, they can only give us some advice but can't always help us make choices, Just like this incident with the woman, it can be seen that the girl's parents made the wrong decision, and in the end, the parents still compromised the child and allowed the child to socialize freely with the object of his desire. <>

I hope you can take our feelings seriously in life, after all, others should not interfere with our private lives, although other people's ideas can be accepted by us, but do not listen to other people's opinions and ideas too much. <>