Is it stupid to pay for a person who doesn t love you?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-05
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I don't think it's stupid.

    Love is a kind of life experience, no matter what the result is, the process can not be ignored.

    Try your best to love someone you really love, give it, and then you will find that you have grown a lot.

    The ultimate goal of love is to discover oneself. Instead of just finding someone to spend your life with.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It's stupid, those love and all that have nothing to do. When you wake up after n years, you will know, don't listen to any stupid love is a kind of happiness, it's really unrealistic.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's not that as long as you think it's worth it, you're not stupid.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Silly, really silly! Why?

    First of all, you want him (her) to know that you still care about him (her) in order to give!

    But because he or she doesn't love you anymore.

    Everything you do is worthless!

    If you have this heart and are so committed to him (her), why not be in those who care about you and love you?

    That way what you do will be more valuable!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, if you really love him, you won't care if it's worth it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Silly love for someone is also a kind of happiness. It's not, as long as you think it's worth it, you're not stupid, I think it should be called infatuation, hehe, how good, and there are people like me, hehe, fate, another infatuation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There's a little bit I mean, if that person doesn't understand love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You think you're stupid.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm also loving someone who doesn't love me, and I know I can't come together, but I can't stop my heart. All I could do was try to care for him. Don't know where you're going?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Silly love for someone is also a kind of happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, I don't think it's worth it, love needs two people to run together, and the strength of one person alone is far from enough.

    If you don't get a response for your efforts, it's clear that she doesn't love you anymore. In love, there is always a person who is desperate to love and care for each other. That's right, it's a sign that you love her.

    But there are always people who don't know how to cherish, the more you love her, the more she has a sense of superiority, and in its eyes, your love is simply taken for granted. Your love is already an unequal relationship.

    So this kind of person who doesn't know how to cherish it, you might as well give up. Where is there no grass at the end of the world?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's definitely not worth it, I remember an expert on relationships who said that if you show a girl a love for her, or a tendency to behave, she doesn't respond to this situation. Then you don't have to waste a second of time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love is a thing that is constantly cut and messed up. If you are sure that two people will never be able to come together, then the result can only be let go, no matter how reluctant you are. However, it is easier said than done, and feelings are not just said to be let go.

    For your situation, I personally give you some advice, I hope it can be of some help to you. 1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

    2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss. 3.

    Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possible, and maybe you have your true destiny inside. 4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

    5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. 6.

    Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "another day is another day.""I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person". Why do we need to love the result? Beg.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's right. Are you sure you really love her?

    Is she worth your dedication and love? Please follow your heart, and the number of these traces is the most correct. If not.

    So be decisive.

    Put an end to all the unnecessary. If that's for sure.

    Everything is worth it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello friend: Love is a pain, then, I choose to give up.

    I gave up on you because I liked you. Because I like you, I don't want to see you unhappy; Because I like you, I don't want to watch you endure your inner struggle; Because I like you, I don't want to see your reluctant smile in the world; Because I like you, I'm willing to let you go. When love is a thing of the past, why bother to pursue it?

    Forcibly seeking can only widen the rift between you and me, and can only exacerbate the pain of you and me. Now I finally understand that if I like you, I shouldn't bind you.

    When is the spring flower and autumn moon, and how much do you know about the past? "The past is like the wind, it is better to let love go with the wind.

    Because I love you, I lose myself; Because I love you, I lose myself, because I love you, I see scars;

    Because of everything about you, I care.

    If you want to leave me, I won't blame you, I can only blame myself, blame myself for liking you too much.

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