Friend, tell me if it hurts to see a breakup?

It won't be painful, isn't it because of pain that you broke up? So when you break up, you should sing that song "Happy Breakup".

It will be painful, even after half a year of breakup, when I saw the love letter he wrote to me at that time, I still have a feeling of powerlessness and wrongness.

It doesn't hurt to break up, but those words she said hurt me!!

Don't be afraid, this is a process that everyone who takes a relationship seriously but is suddenly broken up goes through, especially in dependent personalities. It represents the flesh and blood ripped from the memories of that person in the past as the memories left on you fade away.

Falling out of love can be a real pain. Psychological research has shown that for people who are emotionally abandoned or rejected, the areas of the brain that control the sensation of pain in the limbs become very active at the same time as they are rejected. In other words, when you fall out of love, your body is also feeling real pain.

Human beings are emotional animals, especially during the period of love and marriage between men and women, whether deep or shallow, long or short, they will invest in a certain sense of truth. The more you invest, the more true your affection, and the deeper your feelings. When there is a crisis in the relationship, once you break up, the greater the emotional blow you will suffer, and the more serious the mental damage will be.

Of course, in real life, there are several situations in which couples break up. The first is a peaceful breakup, the second is an active breakup, and the third is a passive breakup. No matter what kind of breakup, there will always be pain.

And the degree of pain is related to the degree of love in the past and the degree of the individual's ability to resist frustration.

My girlfriend and I started to fall in love in the first year of high school, and we were found by the teacher to invite our parents, rushed home, came back to continue, and divided and combined countless times in the middle, and there were times when we were tired, but I still miss it, 8 years later, I married her, and now I am living a good life.

Break up"The word in the Chinese dictionary is explained as: parting, separating. In life, classmates, comrades-in-arms, colleagues, friends, lovers, and family members all have times when they break up.

But here, I want to "break up.""The target should be couples. It goes without saying that breakups between couples are usually and certainly painful.

The pain must be because you were the one who was dumped! In the thunderbolt of a sudden breakup, you will inevitably go through and repeat the following mental processes: disbelief, pain, anger, remorse, joy of freedom, and panic about the future.

An important aspect of breakup pain is that it brings a sense of loss, and it is a multi-layered, complex loss. People will feel it on many levels. In addition to the loss of their lover, people will also feel:

lost the rhythm of the current life, lost each other's companionship and support, and the living habits formed by the existence of each other were forced to change. Life can be thrown into chaos for a while. In addition, you may lose some of your mutual friends and social circles as a result of separation.

Some people even say that this sense of disorder caused by a broken love is similar to the addict losing the substance on which he depends.

Why is it sad after a breakup, repentance proves that you have her in your heart, because you have loved and paid, so you still have nostalgia and attachment to the relationship you once had. I can't put it in my heart. I can't bear him, I must be sad in my heart, I think back to the good times you had together, and I want to come out of that memory, I have to go through a long time, waiting to find my love again to get better.

It's sad for a friend to break up, which shows that you care about this friend and his place in your heart is very important.

In fact, the heart-rending pain in our hearts is not caused by the departure of the other party, but the pain in our hearts has always existed.

We need to understand that this is not the first time we have faced separation, and that separation is what we really fear in our hearts.

So in a relationship, we will constantly confirm whether the other person loves me or not, and whether the other person will leave me. This kind of behavior makes us look insecure.

And the fear of separation is what really causes us to feel insecure, and it is also the most painful **.

When we are entering into an intimate relationship.

time, the other person's love for us.

Make us feel like we can be satisfied, make us feel good. This sense of satisfaction covers our fear of separation, the pain we already have inside.

But things are unpredictable.

Once the other person leaves, or the other person no longer satisfies our inner needs, in fact, the real feeling in our hearts is not the loss of this person, our real feeling is that the scar in my heart is lifted again, revealing the fear and pain inside. This can make us feel like a part of our heart is empty, just as a part of our heart is dead.

If the other party comes back at this time, or continues to defeat our inner needs, our scars will be covered again. So do you know why you hope so much that the other person can come back and continue to meet our needs? It's not that we love him so much, it's that we need a part of our hearts to cover up the pain in our hearts, so that we can seem less fearful, less painful.

Now that you can understand each other, why don't you love us? In fact, it's not that the other party doesn't love, but our broken heart.

I can't feel each other at all. Because we can only feel that our hearts are satisfied, and the pain in our hearts is covered. Of course, even if the other party really comes back, it really continues to meet the needs of the stalker, do you believe it? The pain in our hearts is still there.

And we have always misunderstood that the other person is our lifeline. No, the other party is here to love you, not to save you. And it is precisely because of the existence of our pain that in the relationship, we will always suffer from gains and losses, and we need to constantly prove through evidence that the other party loves you, which seems to be to gain more security, but in fact, we need more satisfaction to cover our inner pain and fear.

So if you want to be happy in your relationship for a long time, you don't have to do your homework on how the other person loves us. So do you understand why those methods and routines are useless to us at all?

It's because the pain in our hearts is still there, and the place where we have to do our homework is in our hearts.

Knowing where our hurts come from and how to heal them is the only way for us and our relationships to grow and be happy.

Friends can't be together forever, and friends have to be separated after all. It's natural for friends to separate, but after all, they've been together for a long time, and their feelings are in**. So it's normal to feel sad when friends are separated.

Friends are together every day and often chat and talk. There is a question that there is also dependence and dependence on each other, and one day they suddenly separated, and they suddenly did not adapt. But being separated doesn't mean that you don't communicate anymore, you don't have friends anymore.

If you are separated, you can continue to be a friend of Keina, because now both transportation and communication are very developed, so when you get used to it, you will slowly adapt to friends who are not together.

It's normal for friends to feel heartache when they're separated, because after all, they're all friends, and they've definitely had good memories between them, and a sudden separation will definitely make people feel nostalgic and reluctant to be stupid, if it can be redeemed, it's still not like to be separated between friends.

Why do others feel heartache when they share themselves, because the others in this must be the person you care about, such as your best friend, your good friend, or the demeanor of the person you like in your heart. You really want them to be happy and happy, but things don't go according to your wishes, but there are results that you can't imagine, so you will be sad about their breakup.

Friends separated from the ode manuscript, because everyone is together with feelings, suddenly separated will be more sad, indicating that the relationship between you is very good, there is no banquet in the world, friends will be separated sooner or later, but as long as you bless each other in your heart, I believe you are still good friends with each other.

Friends are just passers-by of pure wisdom, don't be too reluctant, friends also have friends who have their own way to go, the earth can't be the same for you alone! So cherish when your friends are there, and when you're gone, just make a circle with your thoughts, don't give.

It's normal for friends to share happiness and sadness, because you have deep feelings for each other and can't bear each other.

It is very important and normal for friends to feel distressed, because the feelings between friends go beyond love, and there is no way to stay with each other.

If it is a real friend, you will feel heartbeat after separation, because you have been together for a long time and are very emotional, so you will be sad when you are separated.

Because there is a deep relationship between friends and friends, and friends will often meet each other when they are in a city, so when a friend leaves, you will feel heartache because you haven't seen each other for a long time.

This car is normal spike or celery, because people like this kind of feeling of being afraid of loneliness, which means that when your friend leaves you, you will definitely feel a short period of loneliness. At this time, it is easy to have this feeling of heartache.

If you are separated from your best friend, you can't be happy together, play, make trouble, etc. as before You can't share some things together Joy, anger and sorrow, after all, you've known each other for so long, and whoever you change will be heartbroken, after all, the number of times you meet will be very rare, in short, the separation of best friends is sad

Of course, there will be heartache when boyfriend and girlfriend are separated, because they both give their feelings in the process of dating.

This is very normal, Xingxun because you have been together for a long time, suddenly separated like this, and then there will be some sad feelings of closing the lease Huijue, it doesn't matter, there is no one in the world who will not be separated.

You know what? Family, friendship, love, these three emotions - love and friendship can be chosen! One time he was even better!

And friendship has a better purity than family affection!!

The person you choose seriously when you know that it can't be family affection and love will certainly be more cherished!

Then it is naturally more sad when they are separated.

Actually, it doesn't matter, there is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed. Besides, it's not like it's going to disperse! Even if it's true, you'll never do it.

It's okay, understand more! You must be best friends!

You must remember: separation does not mean forgetting!!

Make this clear to him and see him at the end (just recently!). It's only a year anyway! Make a pact with him: see you in a year

I believe that in a year, you will definitely become better friends!! Wild!

Separated from your best friend, you can't be happy together, play, make trouble, etc. as before You can't bend blindly to share some things together Joy, anger and sorrow, after all, I've known each other for so long, and whoever is it will be heartbroken, after all, the number of times I meet will be very rare, in short, the separation of best friends is sad Maybe I didn't have this feeling before, but after the separation, I felt that I didn't see each other for a day It's best to keep in touch with God often, and I want to tell you about the taste of friends. It's painful.

You should have good friends, you really want Liang Zhenjian to be happy and happy, but the love of things has not developed according to your wishes, but there have been results that you can't imagine, so the trip is ruined, and you will be sad for their breakup.

The separation of friends, why do I feel sad and sad? I think Li Duan has to show that you are kind-hearted and have a good reputation, and your heart is very soft-hearted, and you will be sad when you see others uncomfortable.

It may be that you are sad that your friend has left, and you are afraid that you will not see each other in the future, which means that you value your friendship very much.

Because you feel sorry for them, you think they will have a good result, but it does not achieve the result you expected.

Because you are an emotional person, you will always feel particularly sad about the parting scene, which mobilizes your emotions all at once.

I think the relationship between you and your friends should be quite deep, so it's okay, friends are separated, and it will always be uncomfortable to be defeated in a clear heart. Mom, it's good after a long time.

Because you've been by your side all the time, you're used to writing about this feeling, and it's normal that you're not used to it when he leaves suddenly.

We're still friends after shaking hands and laughing! That's what only a few of you say, in addition to showing your general's demeanor, but also hoping to be able to get together with new and old loves. When a couple of people who originally loved each other want to break up, most of them have no reason.

In terms of what kind of relationship, as long as people have been together for a long time, they will have feelings, and it is normal for people to have feelings over time.

Because you are a good person who values love and righteousness, not the kind of person who can forget about your friends in the blink of an eye.

Very good friends will be like that.