What do you think about the phenomenon of people being urged to find a partner at home?

I think this phenomenon is very bad, because finding a partner is originally willing, and it requires fate, not in a hurry.

My cousin is 30 years old, but he doesn't have any plans for marriage, and my aunt is very anxious, that is, they urge him to find a partner during the New Year's holidays, but I don't think this kind of thing is necessary, because the relationship is what two people are willing, not urging you to find a marriage partner.

Don't rush, what should come will come.

I think the first thing to understand is the painstaking work of parents, they urge us to find a partner is also for our good, hoping that we can meet a person who can take care of us in the future, but we also have to communicate rationally with parents, so that they know that they don't want to find a partner, but they haven't met the right person.

I don't know what to say about finding a partner, my sister is like this, and she is urged by the family to dare not go home. They wanted him to get married sooner, but I don't think that would be the best because she was still young.

I think it's normal for families to hope that their children are no longer alone, and that they can find a person to rely on as soon as possible, so that working together will not be so hard.

This is a very normal phenomenon, after all, the family is also afraid that they will have no one to rely on in the future, and they don't want you to be lonely for the rest of your life.

It's normal, after all, I'm getting older, and the parents at home are also anxious and want to hold their grandchildren, which is normal, it's not a big deal.

When young people reach the legal age of marriage, they should take the initiative to find a suitable partner for themselves, and should not let the family rush to find a partner. Finding a partner to marry is a major life event, and you can't rush it or turn a blind eye.

This is normal, think about how anxious you should be if you, as a parent, see your children grow up slowly, the conditions are not bad, the appearance is not bad, and you can't get married yet.

There's no rush for this kind of thing. The partners who are looking for very quickly are not run-in, and the two people are not very harmonious.

Summary. Hello, dear. The family is urging them to find a partner because they think that you should have a partner when the time comes, just like they should have a grandson or grandson when the time comes.

People are like this, at a certain time, a certain place should do the corresponding things, to enjoy the corresponding life, in order to complete their mission, you don't get married for a day they have one more mission, one more responsibility, one more worry.

The family is urging to find a partner.

Hello, dear. The family is urging them to find a partner because they think that you should have a partner when the time comes, just like they should have a grandson or grandson when the time comes. People are like this, at a certain time, a certain place should do the corresponding things, to enjoy the corresponding life, in order to complete their mission, you don't get married for a day they have one more mission, one more responsibility, one more worry.

My family often urges me to find a partner, but since I broke up with my first love, I don't care what is going on in every relationship.

Hello, dear. It is because you were frustrated and hurt in the last relationship, so you lost the beautiful yearning for the relationship, and you are not sure whether the new relationship will be long and happy, people often lose the confidence they should have when they are frustrated, and you may slowly fade this emotion over time, and you must also learn to adjust, so that you can better adjust your state, divert your attention, and don't be too nervous and anxious.

So what do I do next?

Hello, dear. Find something for yourself to distract yourself from and keep yourself busy so that you don't have time to think about him. Learn to self-regulate.

As the saying goes, men should get married, and women should get married. When a person grows up, he has to start his own family and start a new life. ......However, some young people happen to be unable to get married for various reasons, and the elders in the family may do some more excessive things to their children when they see it in their eyes and are anxious in their hearts.

Specifically, because the child is single, the elders in the family will often urge the child to marry, pick the nose and eyes on the child's daily behavior, and introduce the child to various relationships.

1. Because the child is single, the elders in the family will often urge the child to marry.

For the elders in the family, the single status of the child will make them very anxious, so they will do a lot of things that seem excessive to outsiders. ......Among these things, the simplest and most direct is to often urge marriage. ......Specifically, the elders of the family will urge the children to marry on various occasions, and in this way influence the children, hoping that they will get married as soon as possible.

For those children who don't want to fall in love and get married, this method is not very effective.

2. The elders in the family will pick their noses and eyes at the daily life of single children.

Some elders in the family will pick their noses and eyes at the daily life of single children in the family to urge them to get married as soon as possible. ......The reason why these elders will make such a move is that on the one hand, it is to give their children enough influence to urge them to get married, and on the other hand, it is also because they are dissatisfied with their single appearance, so they will find fault with them and make the children feel overwhelmed.

3. In order to allow single children to get married as soon as possible, the elders in the family will introduce various relationships to their children.

In order to make the single children in their family fall in love and get married as soon as possible, the elders in the family will try all kinds of ways. ......For example, they will introduce their children to various relationships, hoping that the children can end their single state as soon as possible. However, because the subjects they introduce do not necessarily meet the requirements of the child's penance, the efforts of the elders in the family often do not achieve the desired results.

But in order for their children to get married as soon as possible and start a new life, they are still working hard in their own way.

Love belongs to personal freedom, and it should not be thought that if the family is unanimously urging and you don't have this idea, you can boldly say it.

It's also a blessing to have your family to worry about you.

What do you think of yourself? What about communication with them?

Even if I have been urged to get married, I feel very sad, especially during the Chinese New Year, and I am often urged like this during the holidays. So learn to deal with the relationship correctly.

First of all, we must learn to communicate effectively with our father and mother, so that the two generations can truly understand each other. Secondly, it is necessary to rationally analyze the needs of both parties, the biggest difference between parents and children is actually at the time of marriage, parents want their children to get married at the age of marriage, and the needs of children are to find someone they like to marry; The most important thing is to dispel the anxiety of their parents, be sure to give them confidence and hope, convey their desire to marry to their parents, and give them a reassurance. At the same time, it is necessary to emphasize that if you find a person who you really like and are suitable, your marriage will be happy, and you have been working hard. The last thing parents can accept is that their children refuse to communicate, leaving them with no hope.

Therefore, the basis of marriage should be love, there is no age to get married, only the feelings that should be married, we can't use age and time to define marriage, but to see if we have met the right person. If you just get married for the sake of getting married, and you can't deeply understand each other and be recognized by Li Ju, not only will you not be happy after marriage, but you will feel more lonely. The meaning of marriage should be that two people recognize each other from the bottom of their hearts, and then support each other, grow together, and help each other become better people.

Please be responsible for your own marriage, and your marriage must be in the name of love, not a hasty decision made at a certain age to escape your parents' urging to marry.

Tell them your state and let them understand that it's not that you didn't go looking for it, but you just didn't meet the right person. Marriage can't be sloppy and rushed, or it's good to meet yourself like to make a noise.

It's a normal phenomenon, but you know if the shoes fit or not In reality, there are many girls who are only about 25 years old, and they begin to worry that they can't get married. began to deny his self-worth, ready to give up the love he had always longed for, and blindly looked for someone to live with. I hope that each of us has the right to marry love, and also has the courage to face love and share the joys and sorrows.

The hardest thing for me to work hard in other cities alone is not work, and what I am most afraid of has nothing to do with money, but it is my parents' **, which is also ironic, hug the subject, bear with it, otherwise it is yourself who is hurt, it doesn't make sense.

Everyone is the same, you have to know that you are not alone.

If it were me, I would have worked and be independent, and they would still annoy me so much every day, only standing on my own position and not understanding the child, I would definitely go crazy if I went on like this, I would just not go home, and go back for the New Year to see, marriage is my own business, not just to meet their wishes or face. Let me settle, who pays for me, it's not me, even if she is a mother, she is not qualified to ask for an independent life, this is someone's life, what's the matter is not yours.

At first, I would communicate with my parents, but now I don't want to communicate with them, and it has repeatedly hurt my psyche! I've now told them to tell me not to introduce anyone to me again! They shouldn't be in the future, and I won't pay attention to them if they do!

That is, if you are not sure that you are not married or have a very firm goal, I think you can learn from it, and don't reject these things, because your parents are crazy to urge you because they love you, empathize with each other, understand each other, and then deal with emotional things positively and then follow fate

If you want to assert yourself first, their words will be ignored. Anyway, I'm better off and emotionally stable, and I like that. I hate being in love because it makes people don't feel like themselves, and it's too much of a reduction in efficiency. Once you've achieved your goals, think about them first.

You should recognize that because in fact, now that you have reached the age of marriage, everyone else is already married, you can try to consider marriage as well.

Yes, you should recognize the reality and find a partner, because you are already old, and if you are not old, your family will not urge you.

You should not recognize the reality of finding a partner, nor should you listen to the arrangements of your parents and the people around you, you should look for the other half who is really suitable for you according to your heart.

Yes, you should recognize the reality, find a partner, make yourself grounded, and reassure your parents.

Don't be in a hurry to find a partner, it's better to insist on yourself, and you must find someone who suits you.