Do you think you ll raise your own children?

Our baby has always been taken care of by myself, from birth to 8 months old, and then I hired a nanny when I went to work, it is really hard to take care of myself, but it is also very interesting, because watching him grow up day by day, day by day changes make you surprised and happy. Really, although it is hard but also very happy, the baby grows up healthily day by day.

I don't have any children, so why should I raise them?

My parents-in-law said that as long as I give birth to a child, they are responsible for raising and taking care of it, so I am also very trouble-free And I think that many of the ideas of the older generation are still very positive, and they can raise good children.

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, I think it is better not to let the mother-in-law cultivate it, or to take care of the children by yourself, because usually the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will have different views on the issue of parenting, which is the fuse of the deterioration of the relationship. And the child is his own, don't let others educate him.

I will, children are born by themselves, they must be nurtured by themselves, and it is my obligation as a parent to lead their outlook on life and values.

As parents, we should be like Olympic champions, as good coaches, so that our children can do their best in their strengths under our right guidance.

No, there is a teacher in the school or something, I can only say that I take care of him in life, and I still have to rely on the teacher to teach him other things, and I can't have a very professional and correct thing to teach him.

If conditions permit, it is better for children to cultivate themselves. Although it is really hard to raise children by yourself, it is very tiring to work during the day and take care of the children at night, but there is also a lot of fun, which no child can not experience.

Nurturing oneself" is more important than "nurturing children".

Before the child has any ability, cultivate yourself first. Manage your emotions and take care of your body.

When you want to urge your child to do homework, shut up, put down your phone, pick up a book, and study quietly!

When you want to teach your children to be tolerant and polite, shut up first, learn to be tolerant and polite to your children and your family, don't yell, don't nag, don't control!

When you want to teach your children to work hard, shut up and do what you wanted to do before but were afraid that you wouldn't do well.

A child's development follows the principle of visual priority, and in many cases it is not about what the parents say, but what the parents do.

Be a role model parent and urge yourself to grow with your child! We all hope to have a child who is excellent in all aspects, in fact, children also want to have a father and mother who understand education and can educate!

Please start with "cultivating yourself"!

As parents, we nurture our children with the ultimate goal.

The first is to train children to be good people and good citizens. Children become good people and good citizens, so that parents do not have to worry about their children. For society, it is a good thing.

If the child does not become a good person and a good citizen, it will cause harm to others and society, and it will also harm himself. That is not only a matter of worrying about parents again, but this kind of worry and worry is more worrying than worrying about raising children, and it will make parents lose face;

The second is to raise children to be non-self-centered people. Children are not self-centered people, but will make their own families happy and harmonious. Whenever a family has a lot of problems, quarrels, and fights, they are all related to the fact that one or both parties in the family are self-centered.

If one of the members of the family is self-centered, it is often the other who is angry and unreasonable. If both parties are self-centered, then the contradictions in the family are irreconcilable, and the end is the disintegration of the family. The disintegration of the child's family is also a painful cry for parents.

The third is to let their children have a connotative childhood. People who have had a connotative childhood will also let their children have a connotative childhood, and will not use incorrect family education to force children. Otherwise, people who have not had a connotative childhood will either deprive their children of their childhood, or they will be angry with themselves because of the anger of having children.

Look at the reality, because several generations have not had a connotative childhood, and they do not let their children have a real childhood, which is not only hurting children, but also making themselves angry enough because they will not educate their children correctly.

I didn't think about what to train a child to become, but Li Gao is a child, and he must have a good character. The state of life is disturbing Li Du's end ruler is late. Positive, sunny. That's a good boy.

The cultivation of children has always been the focus of social attention, and parents have been thinking about how to make their children become the talents needed by the future society. In fact, there is no fixed standard answer to what kind of child Min Shouxian wants to cultivate, because every family and every child has a different background and personality characteristics. However, we can still do this from the following aspects:

1.Cultivating the ability to be independent: As a parent, you should give your child some space and opportunities to be independent, so that your child can learn to think independently, solve problems and take responsibility. This is conducive to the child's future self-development and growth.

2.Cultivating social skills: Social skills are very important for children's future interpersonal and career development, so parents should provide more social opportunities for children, encourage children to actively participate in various activities, make more friends, and enhance children's interpersonal skills.

3.Cultivating innovative thinking: Times are constantly changing, and the talents needed by the future society are also constantly changing, so we need to cultivate children's innovative thinking and equip them with the ability to adapt to the future society.

Specific methods include encouraging children to read more, pay more attention to the news, and be exposed to different fields.

4.Cultivating moral quality: Moral character is the most basic quality of a person, and it is also one of the qualities that talents needed by the future society should have. Parents should educate their children about the principles of life and work from an early age, and cultivate children's public morality, collective consciousness and sense of responsibility.

In short, in order to train a child to be, it is necessary to take into account the child's personality, interests, family background and other factors, and also need to be cultivated according to the needs of the future society. Most importantly, parents should respect their children's individuality and choices, and give them enough freedom and support to explore and develop independently.

There is no absolute answer to this question. However, the child's mentality and strengths need to be paid attention to. Some parents want to train their children to be some kind of ideal person, but this method is not feasible, and it will only imitate the object and make the child lose his own personality and ability to think independently.

Regarding the state of mind, if the parents are always anxious and worried about everything, the child is also likely to develop attachment problems, which will lead to some controlling and vicious demanding.

When it comes to the development of talents, it is very important to provide children with a creative environment that can provide a variety of materials for children to use their imagination and creativity to play and learn. At the same time, giving your child enough time and space to think and fiddle on their own is also a great way to stimulate your child's creativity. Finally, the encouragement and recognition of parents is also very important, and children need to have the support of parents to further develop their own strengths.

In short, to raise the best children, it is necessary to take into account the characteristics and personalities of children, and give them enough support, respect and free development space.

I hope that the child is physically and mentally healthy, optimistic, has a positive outlook, and has as high emotional intelligence as possible, because my emotional intelligence is not good.

I hope she is an optimistic, cheerful, and emotionally intelligent child, who can have a number of livelihood skills, and does not need to be a humble social animal, but is qualified to rectify the workplace.

Optimistic, cheerful, and positive.

The three views must be correct This is the most important thing.

Everyone wants their children to be successful and works hard to nurture them. Different parents have different answers to the question of what kind of goals they have for raising their children. ......For me, the ultimate goal of raising children includes the three pillars of raising children to become self-reliant, to make children successful in their careers, and to enable them to pursue a happy life.

1. My primary goal in raising a child is to make him a self-reliant person.

My primary goal in nurturing my child is to enable him to become a self-reliant person. ......This goal may seem simple, but fundamentally it is the basis of everything. ......Only when my child becomes a person who can face and solve the various problems he faces with his own ability and can support himself, can his career and life be guaranteed, and I can rest assured of him.

2. My ultimate goal in raising children is to enable them to become successful people in their careers.

Everyone wants to succeed in their careers, and that's what my ultimate goal is to raise children. ......I hope that my children will be able to make achievements and achieve certain achievements after entering the workplace, and become a respected person and a successful person. In this way, his life will be meaningful, and he will be pleased with what he has achieved.

3. Qingyu's realistic goal in raising children is to enable him to pursue a happy life.

My goal for raising children is to enable them to pursue a happy life. ......The reason why I set such a goal is because life is the foundation of a person, and only when you have a happy life will everything become meaningful. ......Because of this, I take this as a realistic goal to cultivate my child, guide and educate him, help him improve his ability to live independently, so as to pursue a happy life through his own efforts, so as to make his life happier and more perfect.

How to raise a child? It's a big, broad problem, and one that all parents are eager to solve.

Big, broad problems also mean big, broad solutions, and the approach given by each person may not be suitable for all children. In that case, let's put the solution aside today and think about what the problem is.

Why do you want to raise children?

Many parents will say, "Do you need to ask?" Since I gave birth to my child, of course, I must train him (her) to become a talent, which is the responsibility of parents.

Each parent may give a different answer, but it boils down to two points, one is a sense of responsibility and the other is a sense of anxiety.

What kind of person do you want your child to be?

The answer to this question must be more colorful, such as wanting to train children to become wealthy businessmen, managers, artists, teachers, doctors, engineers, etc., but everything is the same, almost all parents want their children to have money, status, and respect in the future.

What kind of person does your child want to be in the future?

Parents who can answer this question in a minute basically don't have to look down because you know better than anyone else how to raise your child.

It is precisely because you have not thought about the third question that you often feel helpless and hopeless in the process of educating your children, why are other people's children so good, but my children are not only not excellent, but they always like to ...... with me

Many parents may not be convinced: "Your third question is purely difficult, how can a child have ideals at such a young age?" "You would be wrong to think so, each of us has a natural ideal from the moment we leave our motherhood - the desire to be an independent person.

The only responsibility of parents is to help their children find their own ideals in life, so that he (she) can become an independent person, independent in personality, independent in thought, independent in spirit, independent in finance, and independent in life.

But many of our parents regard their children as their own private property, and they can plan how they want, invest how they want, and they can't wait to do it all by themselves, from their children's study, work to marriage. The children who have been painstakingly cultivated in this way are just accessories that satisfy their parents, and they are even worried about becoming "people", let alone becoming "talents"?

Therefore, to cultivate a child, first of all, we must "child-centered" to think about the problem, when you see the child as an equal person with you, learn to understand him (her) from his (her) point of view, respect him (her), help him (her) become himself, achieve himself, then raising a child has become the most natural thing, and all parent-child conflicts will no longer exist.

Children's education has always been the focus of public attention, especially nowadays, the child's education is more important than anything else, not only the improvement of living standards, the upgrading of after-school education, and even want to use all kinds of resources around them to cultivate children, so how should children be educated.

First of all, no matter how urgent the mood of Jackie Chan is, the premise is that it must be according to the child's own wishes, some parents are eager to enroll their children in various cram schools, interest classes, not to mention the money, it is simply a torment for the child not to be interested, so what to do should be based on the child.

Second, communicate with children, I believe that many parents and friends have such problems, because they are very busy with work, rarely interact with their children with their children, and rarely participate in children's activities, in fact, this not only alienates the parent-child relationship, but also will appear in the future, so we must try to find time to play with children and communicate with children.

Third, there are many parents who can do homework together, but there are also some drawbacks in doing homework together, that is, parents are more impatient, and they usually count their children at a higher value, resulting in pain for themselves and their children, so patience is very important.

Fourth, talk to your child to understand their thoughts, for example, after school, don't rush your child to do his homework, you can sit down and talk about your child's learning experience in the day, and share the joys, sorrows and sorrows of school with your child.

Fifth, it is not enough to learn the knowledge in textbooks, but also to let children learn knowledge in life, in fact, it is to apply what they have learned, such as taking children to experience nature, letting them know how food is produced, letting them identify the names of plants or animals, and so on.

Sixth, as parents, we should also enrich our own knowledge, and gradually enrich our knowledge while accompanying our children, only in this way can we better accompany our children to learn together, and we can get a library card for our children and ourselves, and cultivate a good habit of reading more.