Do you often feel the urge to break up? Under what circumstances is it usually the case?

This urge is not often felt. This situation usually occurs when the other party does not understand you or the other party misunderstands you.

There is no normal urge to break up, it usually happens in two people. In the case of picking your feet or when the fight is particularly intense, you will think about breaking up.

In fact, when everyone is impulsive, I usually restrain my emotions.

I do often have the urge to break up, usually when my girlfriend is very willful and impulsive, because I feel that he is very difficult to coax, and then I feel very tired with him.

There will definitely be this impulse, although it is known that this impulse is very irrational, and it usually occurs when two people disagree.

This urge is usually when my boyfriend and I have an argument and he doesn't want to apologize, I want to break up with him and never pay attention to him anymore.

I will have the urge to break up, usually when my boyfriend and I are angry, and I feel that the three views of the two of us are different, and I have the urge to break up.

I often have the urge to break up, usually when my boyfriend is angry with me, I feel that I have found such a person, and I will especially want to break up.

I don't often feel the urge to break up. Because I often have this impulse, it hurts the feelings of two people, and I usually have this urge when my boyfriend makes me particularly sad.

For me, I think the easiest reason to break up is a change of heart.

Two people together,It's because they really love each other and only like each other alone. If one of the two couples in love changes his mind, then the relationship cannot continue, so it leads to a breakup.

Of course, some love-minded couples know that their lovers have changed their minds, but they still choose not to see it, trying to change something. Of course, if someone in a relationship has a change of heart. No matter what the other person does, there must be something irreparable.

Perhaps in a relationship, there are many reasons that lead to a breakup. Including family reasons, work reasons, three view reasons, understanding reasons, understanding reasons. ButI think the most important reason is whether the heart has changed.

For other reasons, as long as two people understand each other and work together, there is still room for redemption.

But if the heart changes, then there must be no room for redemption.

In the end, I hope that everyone can have a beautiful love and work hard to move towards a new life together.

1. Lack of trust.

In the face of love, the two parties should be honest and understanding with each other, but if there is suspicion between each other, the love will not last long.

For example, if a man says that he often has to work overtime at the company, or that he doesn't come home for several days on a business trip, the woman will wonder what the man will be doing outside. If a man still speaks in a strong tone and firmly believes in what he says, the woman will be easily hurt and estranged.

If a man has a heart, he should tell the woman the specific situation of overtime and business trips, so that the woman can really understand what you do, so as to eliminate suspicion and warm up love.

There are many examples of a lack of trust in these and so on. But you must know that trust is not a one-sided effort, but also a mutual trust between the two parties.

Second, there are too many conflicts.

There are too many conflicts, and one of the reasons is that the three views do not coincide, and couples who do not agree have different attitudes towards the same thing. Of course, it is easy to have conflicts after a long time.

Another reason is that both sides have fiery personalities, one side dares to get angry, and the other side does not know how to be tolerant, and conflicts are often detonated.

3. Lack of security.

In general, the sense of security is given to women by men. Enough money, a certain amount of power, and a strong body can all make a man feel more secure in a woman's heart.

Therefore, boys have to work hard to earn enough money, improve their abilities, and it is best to exercise a good figure in order to protect the woman you love and give her more security, so that he will love you more and be inseparable from you.

Fourth, the reason for falling in love is not clear.

Some couples, talking and talking, slowly find that they don't know why they love each other, and they don't have a good idea of the future with each other (for example, building a warm cottage for two people and forming a happy family), which is the typical reason for unclear love to start a confused relationship.

If you in front of the screen have just broken up and still have feelings for him (her), you can think about why you broke up and become a better version of yourself. If you want to keep him/her, be brave enough to chase him (her) back.

If you and your partner are still in love, you should also think about the above questions and manage your love better!

Bless you all!

！！Astound!!! ThisThere are two reasons why people are most likely to break up ruthlessly:

Strong desire to control. The later you get to the relationship, the stronger the desire to control. You hope that the other party is within your control, and expect the other party to develop and change in your direction, because only in this way will you have the security you need, and you are too demanding of the relationship as you wish, thus ignoring the truth that "the world is impermanent".

A strong desire to control is not only not good for the relationship, but also creates a vicious circle: the more you want to control, the more the other party wants to escape; The more the other person wants to escape, the more you want to control. And so on.

Sensitive and irritable. Another consequence of a serious trust mentality is that you are too nervous about the other person's attitude towards you and do not allow the other person to make mistakes, that is, you will become more and more critical: you will pay extra attention to every detail and behavior of the other person.

The result of over-emphasis is that you are extremely sensitive, and as long as you make you unhappy, you will continue to magnify, and after magnification, you will be extremely angry and feel that the other person can't do anything.

Many times, sensitivity is the cause, and irritability is the effect. Sensitivity is due to magnifying details, and the brain is not conducive to oneself, and when it is manifested, it is easy to get angry and angry.

There are thousands of reasons to break up, but there are three main reasons why you are most likely to break up.

Snoring while sleeping, the sound of eating is too ugly, and the two people are too far away to understand each other. The other party is too poor, lacks trust, has no common language, is very tired to get along, has too many shortcomings, and can't stand it, these reasons will lead to a breakup, but the main reasons for the easiest breakup are the following three reasons.

The first is to split the legs, although with yourself, but still ambiguous with others, there are too many flowers around you, flowers and grass, mercy everywhere, not only do not trust each other, but also feel that the other party can not grasp.

In this situation, I will break up directly, feeling that two people have no value together, and I don't feel any joy and happiness every day, only panic and anxiety and pain.

The second is arrogant and domineering, unreasonable, particularly willful, hot and cold, and emotionally unstable.

It's obvious that you've done something wrong, and everything always depends on you, and you're always very arrogant and domineering. The mantra is, everything I do is right, everything you do is wrong.

If you want to eat ice cream, your body is not in good shape these days, you must go out to buy it, and you must buy six, and after you get it, you persuade her to eat less, but she eats it all in one go.

Later, I had diarrhea, had a stomachache, and scolded myself again, bought expired and inferior ones, and made a lot of noise on the street, so that I couldn't stand the ......In the end, he had a nervous breakdown and broke up.

Finally, there is an extreme double standard, selfishness.

There is only one self in the heart, self-centered, everyone else is your own slave, you can do whatever you want, but you can't.

You can earn one or two thousand a month, but you have to earn tens of thousands, and you have to give it all to yourself. I want all the gifts, and if you like them, you have to buy them for me. But I can't buy you a gift, I can accompany you out, just I can afford you.

This kind of extreme double standard felt very fresh at the beginning, but after a long time, it felt too naïve and immature, and it went straight away and broke up immediately.

Falling in love is a process of mutual selection, and both people need to constantly give to the relationship in order to be long-term and stable.

A person who often mentions breaking up, the feelings he longs for in his heart are very deep. I always hope that my feelings can be cared for. Because a person who often mentions breaking up is just a little sensitive emotionally.

The deeper they sink into a relationship, the more they will care.

Their psychology is relatively strong, and they feel that they want to remind each other that they are gone, and he can live a better life.

Their hearts are more sensitive, and they will choose to separate when they feel that it is inappropriate for two people to be together, which will make them often have such thoughts.

This type of person is particularly psychologically fragile and will not be able to withstand any wind and rain, and there is some feeling of insecurity.

He may be very childish and immature at heart, and he doesn't take feelings very seriously.

Such people are often not serious about love, and they don't love you very much, so they will mention breaking up at every turn.

Breaking up at every turn also depends on the situation, the first is relatively superficial, and the three views do not match. For example, if you don't buy a mobile phone, you will break up, and you won't divide it when you get the mobile phone, because of the benefits obtained. But I think there are still fewer such people, more people are quarreling and saying to break up, and most of them are girls.

The second is the impulse caused by the contradictions in daily life, and in general, the two still have feelings. In my opinion, this is not a one-person pot, but a communication problem between two people. For example, it turned out that I had a quarrel with my male ticket, and he was very fond of the Cold War, which caused my typist to be interrupted, and people didn't fart, and they might turn off ......Only if I mention breaking up, I can know that my male ticket is still alive, and he will reply to me and coax me, then I am also helpless!

Also, although they will coax me, in fact, the male ticket will not delve into why I am angry, and it will still make me mad next time. When I think of the problems that have not been solved last time, last time, last time, etc., I will feel that this day will not go on......Boys like to coax to solve problems, as if the matter of coaxing girls to be happy is over, no! Actually planting a bomb on yourself...... okay

Now quarreling with my male ticket to grasp the point of my anger is very accurate, very quickly strangled my little flame to death, once a thing is solved very smoothly, it will be quickly forgotten, as if there has been no quarrel, and it will not accumulate a lot of emotions to break up.

After an impulsive breakup, I will definitely regret it, and at this time I will find some ways to remedy it. In fact, it is inevitable that couples will quarrel with each other, and then they may propose to break up on impulse, but when they calm down, they find that they are actually very reluctant to each other, and the real intention in their hearts is not to break up. When you realize that you are reluctant to give up on the other party, you will think of some ways to redeem it, such as talking to the other party and calmly saying what you really think in your heart.

If the other party cares about me a lot, he will definitely accept my communication. If the other party refuses to communicate, then it means that the other party has no me in his heart, and in this case, it is useless to make any kind of redemption, so I can only face the reality, accept the situation, and then clean up my mood and take the following road. In fact, for some couples, a short breakup is not a bad thing, because the breakup will also make everyone figure out something.

After breaking up, you can know how much you love each other, or how much you care about each other, and during the breakup, you can also calm down, calm down and think about whether the other party is suitable for you. If both of you regret it, then there is still room for redemption in this relationship, and if not, I think do something you like and stop thinking about relationships. Arrange work and life well, which is the best care for yourself.

However, I also want to remind everyone here that you can't just say it casually when you break up, because these two words are very hurtful, and they are just momentary angry words, and it is very likely that they will become true when they are said. When the day of the real breakup comes, I find that my heart is very reluctant, so if you really love each other, don't choose to break up impulsively, because sometimes, when you are separated, it is not so easy to redeem it.

After an impulsive breakup, most people will regret it afterwards and want to redeem it, but some feelings are not something that you can redeem.

After an impulsive breakup, I regret it very much, I feel that I made a wrong decision, and I want to get back to the other person.