If my parents don t agree to a marriage, will I be wronged after I get married?

Updated on society 2024-08-04
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I'm like you, I'm from the North, and my friends are from the South! Too far to disagree, because his family has no money and no house! I'm afraid that I will suffer in the future, and I won't know anything until now!

    But it's man-made. My parents have approved of him! We'll be back at his house next year and get married!

    There are no wrong parents in the world, they are thinking about you, and they are afraid that you will be angry because you don't know anything! As long as your parents slowly feel that he is good to you, I believe they will not object! If your parents don't like him, it's up to you to tell them how he treats you well.

    A little bit, there will always be a drop of water through the stone! My friend and I have known each other for 4 years, and if it weren't for the consent of my parents, when I went home with him, he would have been out of the North a long time ago!

    But don't learn how to elope, this is the stupidest and most heartbreaking method for your parents! You've grown up, don't let your waywardness hurt your parents!

    Bless you, wait slowly for your parents to change, and believe that everything will be fine! As long as you're willing to work hard!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Marriage is a lifetime thing. Don't be impulsive, your parents are from the past, and they must think more than you. After all, you still have to live after getting married

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If your parents don't agree, you won't necessarily be wronged after marriage, as long as he is genuinely good to you

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You have the heart to see! Your parents are good to you and don't want you to be angry in the future, if you really like him, then do it, your parents won't care about you very much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I myself as a woman. I'm a little selfish. If my parents don't approve of my marriage. Then I'm not going to get married.

    Let's start with a love. How long can you hold your value? After getting married, it's not the same as falling in love.

    Love is sweet and dense. And when you get married, you face a family lock-up. Daily necessities of life.

    Mother-in-law and sister-in-law. There are no parents behind you to support you. Help you.

    Do you think you can live well?

    Again. Parents oppose their children's marriages. It must be the parents who think that their children are choosing the wrong one.

    There is no way to be happy in the future. It doesn't matter if your parents are old-fashioned. The forces are also good.

    Their parents will never harm their children. Especially my daughter's family. The daughter is the treasure of the family.

    Most of the people who suffer from a relationship are daughters.

    If that boy is really good enough. You should let him work hard. To prove that He is capable of giving you happiness. Instead of sandwiching you in the middle.

    Finally, I hope you understand. There are no wrong parents in the world. They love you.

    That's why I care about you. will oppose you. In the matter of marriage.

    Don't think about going against your parents. Love that can't get the blessing of parents. It's never going to be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Parental consent is not necessarily required to get married, as marriage is first and foremost a decision and choice between two adults. However, it is very important to respect the ideas and opinions of parents, and their support and blessings have a positive impact on the relationship between the couple and the whole family.

    Parents are usually experienced and branchy people, and their opinions and suggestions may be of great reference value for marriage decisions. They are the ones who want their children to be happy, so it is beneficial to communicate and communicate with their parents as much as possible and listen to their opinions.

    However, marriage is a personal decision made by an adult autonomously, and the ultimate rights and responsibilities rests with both spouses. If the parents do not agree, but both parties are convinced that their choice is the right one, they can try to have an open and honest dialogue with the parents, explain their decisions and reasons, and seek to build a consensus of mutual understanding and respect.

    Marriage is a lifelong commitment that requires the love and support of both husband and wife, but also the blessings and support of the family. It is best to strive for a mutually acceptable solution to maintain harmony in the family relationship. In this process, it may take time and patience to facilitate communication and mutual understanding.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think that this kind of relationship lacks a secure foundation, so it is easy to change, and in a marriage, if the members of the family do not support it, it is very difficult to go on.

    1. Marriages that parents do not agree with will not be happy, and most of the marriages that parents oppose are because two people are not in the right household, and parents are generally very cautious in order to let their children marry into a good family. When the parents strongly oppose the marriage, it is likely that the two people are not suitable, and if the two parties do not get the blessing of the parents at this time, then even if the two people are forced to be together, they will receive a lot of blessings. Therefore, if the parents are opposed, they generally need to face more difficulties and feel unhappy.

    However, there are also some couples who, after getting married, prove themselves through their own efforts and are also very filial to their parents, so it is also very correct to let their parents accept such a choice in the end.

    2. Generally, if the parents do not agree to the marriage of two people, it is likely that they use their experience to analyze the young people, which may cause the two young people to make mistakes, and sometimes break up a good fate. Therefore, the marriage obstructed by ordinary parents will make two people more convinced of self-confession, resulting in a gap between them and their parents, so this matter needs to be dealt with well.

    3. If their parents do not agree, some young people will also listen to their parents and choose to break up with each other. At this time, there will be some more extreme phenomena. If you ruthlessly give up your beloved, then at least you will not feel happy.

    At this time, although the relationship with your parents is more harmonious, it will also hurt the people who love you. If you have the idea of divorce in the process of marriage, it is very dangerous, and you must know how to repair the relationship between two people in time. How to repair the relationship between two people requires certain ways and means.

    4. Everyone understands that marriage does not belong to the unilateral problem of two people, it involves the destruction of two families, if you do not get the support of your parents, then it will not only add a lot of trouble, but also lose confidence. Venus said that marriages that are opposed by parents are generally unhappy, and if they do not get the consent of their parents, then two people are likely to not last long, so generally couples will go to a better life after marriage, and then use their own actions to prove that their choice is right. When parents see their children happy, they will also feel comforted, so they will not dwell on this issue.

    It's just that when we choose marriage, we must calm down and think about our parents, what is the reason for disagreement, we must communicate well with each other, and do not cause conflicts between the two families. Parents are always interested in the good of their children, so even if they have opposing opinions, do not go against them, but use their own actions to convince the other party.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No marriage will be happy without the blessing of your parents. So the old man eats more salt than you have traveled. We have nothing to blame for that.

    One. Parents all over the world want their children to be good, so they want to see their children live happily and have a happy family. Along the way, they have experienced a lot of extraordinary, so they hope that their children will not lose at the starting line.

    Two. Because she has worked very hard, she has achieved her current achievements, and she hopes that her children can find a good match, help herself to struggle for a few years, and make her material conditions better. That's why he picks and chooses the child's object, hoping to slow down the quarrel and find someone more suitable for him, after all, her parents work hard for her.

    Of course, you have to learn something, and someone will inherit it.

    Three. Therefore, they are not optimistic about the marriage that is not blessed by their parents, and they are destined to not last long, after all, his parents raised him from a young age. They know their children's temperament better, they know better what their children are pursuing, they can see the future more clearly, what do you need more?

    What will change. Once it is not suitable. Even if you make do it now, you will never settle in the future.

    Same as I thought, so be it!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I think:1It's possible without parental consent, but it's not necessary.

    2.Inform the other party that it is a branch of the potato to respect people.

    3.The other party's disagreement is the other party's attitude of dislike and non-acceptance, whether the other party likes or disagrees and does not accept is the other party's aesthetic value freedom, and there is nothing to disagree, but if the fierce person forcibly interferes, it involves violating the law.

    4.The freedom of marriage and love is protected by the Marriage Act.

    In view of the above principles, the marriage that the parents do not agree with will not be good, but usually the parents have more social experience and experience in the leakage, and they are overly cautious about the marriage of their children. The parents' disagreement with marriage and love itself has no effect, but if you are not weaned from your parents and have no financial autonomy, it will be more difficult to obtain parental consent if you hope that your parents will help you in secular marriage and love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. A marriage that is not favored by parents will not be happy.

    The management of a marriage not only requires both parties to pay together, but also needs the help of the other two families, if not favored by the parents, then this marriage may also produce some contradictions, even at the beginning, the husband and wife can stand up for righteousness and insist on being together, but as the days go by, there will gradually be all kinds of contradictions, and if the relationship with the family is not good, it will not make this relationship long-lasting. Therefore, most marriages that are not favored by parents do not have a very good ending.

    Second, the parents have more experience.

    Most parents live more than 20 years or even 30 years longer than themselves, their experience is very rich, and for their children they may face a relationship for the first time, the recognition of people is not very standard and professional, and there is a possibility of seeing away with less experience, but for parents, they may eat more salt than everyone eats, so they are more accurate in looking at people, and most of the marriages that are not favored by their parents will not be very happy.

    3. Although children should listen to their parents, they should also think independently.

    If some children listen too much to their parents, then they are undoubtedly "mommy boys."

    Or "Mommy Girl". If the child is not thinking for himself.

    ability, then there will not be too good results in a relationship, so although everyone must listen to their parents in a certain aspect, but it is only for reference, don't listen all the time, but also have the ability to think independently.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Will be happy, happy or unhappy, the key depends on whether the two people are suitable and whether they love each other? The specific situation and concept of happiness of the two generations will be different, although the concept of happiness of children is closely related to the concept of happiness of parents, and even has the taste of inheritance, but after all, it is two generations, and it will not be exactly the same, so a happy marriage may not be recognized by parents, experience and support, but the happy life of the next generation is independent of the life of parents, and their own marriage is generally decided by themselves, but if there is an understanding and support from parents, the marriage relationship of children will be stronger, It will be happier, so the happiness of the marriage that the parents do not agree with will be more or less discounted, but this does not affect the existence and continuation of the children's marital happiness. Nevertheless, it is necessary to obtain the consent and support of the parents as much as possible in the marriage of the children, so that the happiness of the woman will be more stable and strong because of the harmonious relationship between the parents and relatives.

    However, there are also cases where a happy marriage becomes unhappy because of the parents' disagreement, although this situation is relatively rare, but it can be seen that the impact of the parents' attitude on the happy life of the children cannot be underestimated, so it is necessary to try to obtain the consent and support of the parents. But regardless of whether their parents support each other or not, if two people truly love each other, have similar interests, and are in love, their marriage will be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the parents do not agree to the marriage, if you manage it well and interact with your parents well in the later stage, you can be blessed, and many things are not static. Learn to get along with your parents, learn to bow your head, and learn to please your parents, and you can make your marriage happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A marriage that is not approved by the parents will not be happy. Because your parents have social experience, they are more accurate in looking at people, and they can see the problems of the two of you. You can see the shortcomings of your object.

    If your parents are talking about your partner's own shortcomings, then I think you should consider this marriage. If your parents are just because your target's family is not very good, and they are not worthy of your family, then I think you can fight for it, and maybe you will still be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Generally, not, because most people are born and raised by their parents, it is unlikely that the relationship between parents and children will be severed, and without their support, life will be very troublesome and unable to persevere.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As long as both men and women truly love each other, the marriage will be happy, and parents can only say that there are regrets if they do not agree.

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