Progress is not to surpass others, but to surpass yourself yesterday! How can I get my child to unde

Progress is not to surpass others, but to surpass yourself yesterday! How can I get my child to understand progress correctly? This has a lot to do with parents' usual education, such as low scores in exams, and parents' attitudes cannot be generalized.

Because the situation of children is different, some children are incapable, some children are careless, some children are coping, and some children are ...... tantrumsTherefore, parents should first find out the reasons for their children's low scores. I have a few pieces of advice for parents. The first priority is to communicate.

At this time, you should find an opportunity to talk to your child calmly, such as, "How do you feel about your grades this time?" "Satisfied? "Let your child open his mind and relax.

Decide on the next steps based on your child's attitude.

If the child tries hard, he still gets a low score. At this time, to encourage children, you can use the parents' previous "experience" to make a reference, to ensure that the child does not increase the psychological burden of this, and then put on the hat of "stupid" for himself. That would be more than worth the loss.

After confirming that there is no problem with the child's attitude, parents and children study together whether the learning style is wrong, the curriculum is too difficult, or the school environment has an impact on the child's learning, and then solve them one by one. This not only enhances the parent-child connection, but also cultivates children's analytical and problem-solving skills. If your child is sloppy, guide your child to recognize the importance of sloppiness.

Of course, this is a common problem for children, many cases are that children are inattentive, inattentive, small sloppiness can remind children to pay attention, but if sloppiness is getting more and more serious, parents can train children in details, concentration, and visual span to improve children's accuracy. If the child is emotional, very lost, he can't accept it. At this time, parents need to comfort, encourage and affirm, and teach their children how to cope with unsatisfactory emotions in life.

If the child just doesn't care about the test, he doesn't take the test to heart at all, and the test is the same as the good test. In this way, parents need to dig deeper into the reasons. At this time, the communication of parents is weak, because it shows that there must be problems in the original family, and it is recommended to find a professional psychological counselor for consultation.

To communicate with the child more well, tell the child that surpassing themselves is the best thing, and to encourage the child in a timely manner, so that the child has a good self-confidence and satisfaction, after the child has made a little progress, it is necessary to tell the child further bit by bit, so that the child has a correct understanding.

Tell your children that we need to make ourselves very good every day, and that we want to make ourselves better today than we were the day before yesterday, and surpass ourselves.

Tell your child that our worst enemy is ourselves, and that we have to work harder than we do every day.

It turns out that the biggest enemy is himself, and it is his cowardice that makes him afraid. It dawned on me.

Those who can surpass others may not necessarily be able to surpass themselves, and those who can surpass themselves are the real winners.

We often have a perfect score of 100, and when we get 100 points in a study exam, and we are proud, there are already people who have surpassed 1001 points and moved forward to a higher field, striving for excellence, and being better and better. Only by constantly working hard and surpassing oneself can we make progress. Once, I was aiming for a hundred points.

When studying, I only write the homework assigned by the teacher, never do extracurricular books, only memorize the requirements of the texts and ancient poems, and never memorize the famous poems outside the classroom. So every time the results are in their own bland expectations. Others have been climbing the peak, and when others reach the top, I am still climbing easily halfway up the mountain.

Now I don't have the limit of full scores, I continue to work hard every day, surpass myself a little bit, even if others can't see it, as long as I can understand and improve. We are often surpassing others, but never thought that only by constantly surpassing ourselves can we win others, we must always remind ourselves that one hundred points is just the beginning of one hundred and one points.

Lao Tzu said:"Self-knowledge is clear, self-victory is strong. "Wang Tong, a thinker of the Sui Dynasty, said

The self-aware is heroic, and the self-victorious is male. "Yes, human beings are constantly discovering their weaknesses and shortcomings, so as to constantly overcome themselves and surpass themselves, and a process of struggle is the process of forgetting themselves and surpassing themselves.

It is precisely because of self-transcendence that our life and career are more surging. Therefore, we must do our best, surpass ourselves, go all out, and strive for a higher realm.

The biggest enemy of a person's life is not the enemy, but ourselves, only beyond the self to know how to measure the value of others, only beyond the self, to understand how to accept everything other than themselves, only beyond the self, in order to make their life more colorful, only beyond the self, in order to the whole picture of life.

Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke described that progress is the standard for success.

The real progress in life is not to constantly surpass yourself, but to constantly overcome difficulties and move forward.

Just do your best to do everything you can!