Relying on teachers to discipline children, why do children only become more and more unproductive?

Disciplining children should be done by parents, teachers teach children knowledge, and teachers can't discipline your children like educating their own children, so don't push the education of children to teachers to complete.

Because teachers can't discipline every child, the most important thing is parents, and parents must not be lazy in this regard.

It may be because if you don't educate your children as parents, it will also have a great impact on your children's lives.

Many children are lacking in family education, and "poor" parents raise some rich second generations.

As a teacher, you can hold a theme meeting on the joint education of parents and teachers, or a discussion meeting on the common education of parents and teachers, brainstorming, so that parents realize that their children's education needs the cooperation of parents, and education is not only the responsibility of teachers, some of the children's living habits, some outlook on life, values, and worldview are learned at home, parents can not blindly feel sorry for their children, and educate their children to pay attention to ways and means. Many children win the sympathy of their parents through crying, and some parents do not understand the truth and feel that their children have been wronged, but they do not know that it is a kind of indulgence and indulgence. As soon as the child cries and the parents coax, the distress has become the child's effective **, tried and tested, over time, this kind of child will be arrogant, arbitrary, no sense of responsibility, no sense of collective honor, no responsibility, no understanding of others, no empathy.

Find some relevant articles and audios for parents to learn and learn, they are also parents for the first time, don't do their duties, don't attack each other, understand their feelings. Solve problems in a way that is acceptable to everyone. Children also make mistakes to be more reasonable, can not always make a lot of noise, I have been a childcare teacher, so I especially understand your feelings.

Make friends with them often, if they do something wrong, let them realize their mistakes and solve them in a peaceful way.

Maybe many people have discovered such a phenomenon, many teachers are very good, but they are not good at educating their children, why is this? In fact, this is mainly because some parents are teachers, but they only focus on their children's academic performance, or always mix the roles of teachers and parents, which does not achieve the best educational effect

1. Confusion of roles.

Many teachers and parents make the mistake of raising their children as if they were students. This may seem like no problem, but in fact there are great drawbacks, the child needs to face the pressure of the teacher at school, and when he returns home, he needs to face another "teacher", and the "teacher" at home is even stricter than the teacher at school. Stress from all sides may cause children to feel inferior and lose their independence and creativity.

Therefore, parents must not mistake their role, and do not educate their children in the same way as they educate students.

Second, focus only on results.

Teachers and parents usually pay more attention to their children's grades because they want to raise excellent children. Have high expectations for your child and ask them to go above and beyond. But because of this, these children will lack quality and quality education.

Training, although there is a good grade, but there is no good moral character, so that children will be limited after entering the society, which will have a great impact on their future future.

3. Restricted by thought.

Many parents as teachers are limited by their thoughts, their circle is not large, and most of their time is spent in the process of teaching and educating people. It is precisely because of this narrow circle that it affects the activities and vision of the children themselves, so it is not good to educate the children. Therefore, some teachers train children who are more timid and cautious, unwilling to take risks, and have little creative and thinking skills.

But everything is not absolute, for example, some teachers can educate their children well, so it is mainly related to the teacher's education style.

Because they are busy with their work, they don't have much time to educate their children, and they don't have much way to educate them.

It is because these teachers put all their patience on their students that they are especially angry when facing their own children.

Because they focus on educating their students, they don't have time to take care of their children, and when they educate their children, they will have conflicts with their children.

This may stem from the dual identity of parents, both teachers and parents, as children, they think that teachers are not very serious, and they will not do anything seriously, which may be a big reason.

Rebellious periodchildren, rebellious too much, most of them are due to problems with home education. At this time, relying on teachers alone to teach will not work very well. Education is almost a project and only the concerted efforts of all parties involved can create positive synergies and achieve the best practical results.

Parents can't think that they can't control it, and leave it to the teacher; Teachers should not feel that parents are helpless, what can I do? Teachers and parents should sit down and communicate well, discuss and analyze the cause together.

Let's look for preventive measures together, perform their duties, and find ways to create class management and education cooperation, and do a good job in children's education together. Recognizing that every child is different, not all children are good at taking exams or studying and training in colleges, he will have other advantages, even if he becomes an outstanding chef, he is also an outstanding talent of the country. You can't take it out of context, and you think that only good learning is good.

Many sports stars may not have done very well in exams, but he has a good education in sports culture, which is also very good.

Even if he is an ordinary person, as long as he has a sound personality, does no harm to social development, and is happy to help others, then his education in a certain college can be regarded as smooth. Children do not follow their parents' instructions, mostly because their parents did not create good standards at an early age. How can the teacher create standards at the beginning of the lesson, so that the child will understand and follow the rules.

We don't advocate being too strict with children, but there are also standards, some things can be played by children, and some things must be treated strictly!

At the level of education, it is necessary not only to "manage", but also to "manage". Parents can't control the student, there is no doubt behind the reason that can't be controlled, this student is because he was spoiled at home, or rebellious in adolescence, or met some pig friends in the society, we have to analyze the actual problem in depth, find filial piety to the reason why it can't be controlled, the symptom **. Knowing with affectionand move it to reason.

The title of teacher is solemn and sacred, and it has weight, and not ordinary people can hold it.

As a teacher, you should communicate well with them, hoping that they can abide by classroom discipline, continue to learn, improve their academic performance, and secondly, encourage them more and praise them more.

I don't think this teacher should give up. He should be patiently educated. Let him know that there are still people in this world who love him.

In this case, I think that we should not give up, but should give the child a caring child to be able to perform very well.

Why are more and more teachers reluctant to discipline their children?

1.Parents don't understand, point fingers at education. As a result, the teacher's job is difficult to do because there are parental barriers.

When I was young, the teacher managed the students, and the parents even applauded on the side, saying that the teacher managed well and annoying. But now parents are distressed by their children and point fingers at education, and it is difficult for teachers to do it. The teacher manages the students well, and everyone is very happy.

If the management is not good, it is easy to have such a problem. Parent reports, school handling, teachers being notified, and losing jobs are commonplace. Today, the tide of the times has changed.

Teachers lack support, parents don't trust, the system is strict in school, and children can't be taken care of casually.

2.Most of the current parents were born in the era of national family planning, and they are the first only children. Most of the students are now the only second generation.

This is our traditional generational biography. Influenced by concepts, parents are particularly accustomed to their children, and their children are perfect and will not be criticized and questioned by outsiders. When children are criticized and questioned, parents will protect the calf, have conflicts with teachers, and even have physical contact.

When a teacher encounters such a situation, he will naturally not manage the students, and there will be fewer and fewer people who manage the students.

3.Children are endowed with the fundamental expectation of the family to achieve a happy life in the future, and represent the future development direction of a family. Therefore, every family expects to give their children the best teaching aid, and they all hope that their children will become successful children.

Cheng Feng. Therefore, in the process of teaching children to learn and grow, it is difficult to carry out intensive cultivation and strict control. Parents defend their rights excessively, complaints are frequent, and all kinds of ** have caused teachers to be smeared, and even too many demerits and expulsion cases, resulting in teachers "more things are better than less things", reminding themselves not to cause trouble for themselves.

There are also some people in the society who know that the teacher, the defendant and the plaintiff can basically win the lawsuit, so it is good to make a profit.

4.The teacher system is perfect. There are very high and reasonable educational programs for different types of students.

And the state is also very strict in the supervision of teachers. Teachers focus on education, not scare students with all kinds of powerful means! It is to guide children, educate people, and become talents in a more reasonable way.

Because today's children are only children, not only is it difficult to manage, as long as something happens, parents will not spare all kinds of troubles for the teacher, and all the problems are attributed to the teacher, so the teacher is not willing to care about the child now.

This is because many children are now the only child in the family, and the family knows that the oak is very doting on the children next to them, if the teacher's method of disciplining the child is not recognized by the parents, there may be a lot of trouble, so many teachers are unwilling to discipline the child Yinhuai.

Because today's children can experience a lot of things very early, they are more precocious and have a very independent thinking ability, so it is becoming more and more difficult to manage; Teachers should adopt correct education methods, and do not adopt strict and tough methods for children, which will have no effect, and will likely cause children to rebel, and it is not good for children's healthy psychological development. Simple model.

It is because most of the children are only children, so the parents are more fond of them, so their personalities are more extroverted and lively, and they don't like to be restrained by others; As a teacher, you should also discipline them in the right way, by diverting their attention and leading the children to play some games that they are interested in, so that they can realize their mistakes and understand the obligations of a student.

Now there is only one child in every family, and the parents are very spoiled by the children, and they are also responsible for the children's affairs, so the children's personality is more rebellious and difficult to discipline. Give the child some rules, when the child makes a mistake, you must give the child some punishment and punishment, or Zheng establish the majesty of the teacher.

1.Everyone has their own personality and behavioural habits, and this also applies to teachers and their children.

2.Although teachers have the ability to educate and control students in their work, they may face different challenges due to their different roles in the family.

3.In addition, educating children takes time and effort, and the job of a pretending master can take up most of the time and energy, making it difficult for them to spend more time and energy educating their children at home.

4.Vulnerability to others may also be one of the reasons, and the teacher's children may be influenced by peers and social environment, which makes them behave differently from what the teacher teaches in school.

5.In general, there are many reasons why teachers cannot discipline their children well and need to be considered comprehensively.

It is necessary for the teacher to discipline the child, and the teacher has the responsibility to travel and discipline the child voluntarily, but the teacher also pointed out that the town may not be able to manage it well, and parents should not hand over all the work of disciplining the child to the teacher.

I think it's necessary for teachers to discipline carefully. The teacher must establish prestige, and then should also communicate with the child, should let the child develop a good study habit of covering the years, and should establish a sense of bending rules for the child.

I don't think there is any need for the teacher to do this, because it is too much time to sell the cover, and there are other students in the class who are bored and feel that empty-handed students need to discipline themselves, and they must allocate their energy reasonably.