What happens if a man gives up his career for his family?

There is an old saying in my country, called "the dilemma of loyalty and filial piety", and there is also a saying called "You can't have both fish and bear's paws." "This all shows that a lot of times we have to make choices and not have to do everything. For us now, the biggest choice is to make a choice between family and career, choose to take care of the family and accompany the children, the career will inevitably have an impact, and if we devote ourselves to the career, we will inevitably not be able to take care of the family, and the wife and children will inevitably be left out in the cold, and even many women scold men for not caring about their families, not loving themselves, and wanting to divorce.

Will it be good for a man to give up his career for the sake of his family?

We live in the best of times, but also the worst times, we enjoy an unprecedented beautiful material life, but we are also facing huge pressure in life, and even people can't find their way and lose themselves. My friend Ah Peng was admitted to a good second university with the second best score in the class during the college entrance examination, which is already a very good result for our rural people, but because his sister was also admitted at the same time, and the family really had no money, Ah Peng chose to drop out of school and go to work. Ah Peng didn't work like a walking dead without ideas, he learned to make and process trinkets, and after working for three or four years, he started his own business.

Because he has worked in this industry for so many years, his skills are excellent, and his mind is very flexible, Ah Peng will soon be effective, it can be said that he is on the road steadily, during which he met his current wife Ah Xing, because Ah Xing became pregnant not long after getting married, so Ah Peng worked harder, went out early and returned late every day, probably because of depression during pregnancy and childbirth, Ah Xing was reluctant to leave Ah Peng for a moment, and finally cried to Ah Peng to accompany her, and said that as long as Ah Peng was with him, nothing else was wanted. In the end, there was no way, Ah Peng sold his small workshop and accompanied her home.

But the matter is not over so quickly, after returning home, I bought a house and a car, and I don't have any savings, I need money to have a child, I need money to raise a child, and I need a lot of expenses every day, so I gradually have quarrels, and even more and more fierce, although I will not directly mention the money, but it is basically related to money, and sometimes even to the point of inextricability. In the end, Ah Peng insisted that he wanted to start a new business, and after more than a year, his career improved again, and the relationship between the two gradually recovered as before, or even better.

He will be said by others to be a useless man, he will be ridiculed by his friends, and if the relationship fails, he will become a person who achieves nothing.

It may be difficult to raise his head for the rest of his life, because the failure in his career will make many people point fingers at him, and many people will mock him.

The family will be very warm, and if a man gives up the family, he will often be able to take care of his family in the future, and it is a good thing that the family is together and happy.

Then the man will become very happy, because he will devote himself to his family and find that his family will be very happy.

No matter how successful you are in your career, it will seem very lonely without the company of your family, and the most important thing is for the family to be happy together.

Will it be good for a man to give up his career for the sake of his family?

I would give up pursuing a career for the sake of my family. Then, let's take a look at the essence of this problem, we all know that career is the best economy, and the strength of the economy is the guarantee of family happiness!

If a man gives up his career for many years for the sake of his family, it can only mean two things: first, there is a major event in the family that requires him to come forward, so he chose the most important thing at this time and put down his career first. For example, if your wife has a child, and you don't have relatives or friends around to help, and the child is what you want most, then you can only temporarily give up your career and return to your family.

Second, your parents and relatives are sick and need your care at this time, and you have to return to the family.

Is there such a situation, the career of the man and the woman is doing very well, and the party who is not doing well voluntarily gives up the career and returns to the family, which is more common in China, that is: the family model of the male protagonist and the female protagonist, this is the phenomenon of male ploughing and female weaving in ancient times. With the progress of the times and the advocacy of equality between men and women, women have become stronger and stronger, and they have begun to pursue their own value embodiment.

In some first-tier cities, there are many men who voluntarily retire to their families and become good "cooks" for their own families, which is also a reflection of social progress!

Finally, I would like to talk about how we make trade-offs in this situation. When my wife was pregnant with twin sons, I was so excited that I decided to stop my wife from work. And for her, it was very reluctant, because after all, it was a job she liked, in fact, she was more concerned about our financial pressure, to put it bluntly, because I didn't make much money at the time.

But for the sake of our son, she also agreed to give up the career she had worked for several years. In order to live up to her mother and son, I worked hard, and finally the emperor paid off, my work was improved, and the economy was getting better and better!

However, if a family wants to live a happier life, I think each must have its own career circle and circle of friends.

In a word: there will be gain, and there will be blessing if you give away!I just gave up my career because I felt that my family was more important at this time!Who doesn't want a good career and family!

Men will not give up their careers for the sake of their families, after all, giving up their careers is equivalent to giving up their own families, and the maintenance of a family also requires economic ability and effective security.

This varies from person to person, but some men can do it! Best wishes!

Most of the stars in the entertainment industry are very ambitious, and even neglect their marriages in order to achieve something in their careers. But there are some celebrities who are completely different, and they are willing to give up their careers for the sake of their families, such as these two.

1. Chen Hao. Chen Hao is a female star I personally like very much, born in a professional class and has superb acting skills, in the TV series "Double Cannon", Chen Hao plays the role of a heartthrob. No one has surpassed this role in the future, and it is difficult for the actors to have the courage to create this role, and it is obvious that Chen Hao's portrayal is very successful.

This role allowed Chen Hao to reach the peak of his career, and there were many masterpieces after that, but in the rising stage of his career, Chen Hao chose to step into marriage, and now he will hardly appear on the big screen.

Many netizens feel sorry that if Chen Hao is still in the entertainment industry today, then her status is not inferior to Fan Bingbing and other big flowers. For Chen Hao, marriage and family are equally important, and people will focus on it at every age.

Second, Bao Lei. Bao Lei is the wife of the famous actor Lu Yi, and this name may be a little unfamiliar to many post-00s, but in fact, Bao Lei has also created many roles before getting married. is in the same class as Lu Yi, and looks very sweet, Bao Lei's resources have always been very good, and there are many roles that can be created, but after marrying Lu Yi, Bao Lei can take care of her children at home, which is definitely a loss for the audience, but not necessarily for Bao Lei.

Bao Lei talked about such a topic in the talk show, she feels that marriage and career are important to her, but if you want to make a sort, she will always put marriage first.

Everyone has a different understanding of marriage, and for Bao Lei, no matter how smooth her career is, it is not as good as Lu Yi's greeting and a hug from her child.

So giving up her career for marriage is worth it in Bao Lei's opinion, and now the two are very happy, and they are known as a model couple in the entertainment industry.

Will give up his career for the sake of his family.

If it were to be said that a man gave up his career for the sake of his family, would it be worth it? So we must first know what kind of man this woman is marrying, if a woman is particularly good at marrying a man, that man can give this woman a lot of knowledge in the family, and can also give her the material basis for family harmony, then I think a woman gives up her career for her man to take care of her family.

After all, it is impossible for two people in a family to work hard for their own careers, so that there will be a lack of warmth in their own family, and it will also make their children lack father's love or mother's love in the family, and there will also be a lot of psychological defects, which is irresponsible for their own family, because as long as two people form a family, then there must be a person who is particularly serious about his family.

Although the material foundation is particularly important, but the spiritual world is also indispensable, so many people can give up their careers for their families, but if a woman marries a man of her own, then this man is not self-motivated, and he is not very hard at working hard for his family, so I think it is particularly irrational for this woman to give up her career for her family, because family and career must be accompanied by a woman.

If your family is not particularly successful, but you still give up your career because of your family, then I think this woman should be very stupid, and the unsatisfactory of a family will also make his own career particularly unsuccessful, and give up his successful career for an unsatisfactory family, such a woman can't do it, and many strong women will not give up their careers because of their families. Of course, it still depends on what kind of man a woman marries to be able to decide.

Give up your own business for the sake of your family.

I believe that many women, after getting married, will encounter a problem, marriage and career are difficult to achieve, and sometimes they really have to give up.

Career is very important, and money is the most reliable in your own hands".

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and in different families, there will be different problems. In most families nowadays, whoever makes money will have more confidence.

If you don't make money to take care of your children at home, new conflicts will still arise. And the family's economic situation will also drop a lot. Whether it's a man or a woman, money is what makes you more grounded.

Women are not financially independent and have no say in the family. Don't pin your hopes on a man, it's better to rely on yourself than on heaven and earth, no matter how much he loves you, you must work hard to make money.

A woman's career and deeds are also her capital in her relationship.

Family and work should be taken care of".

In fact, women are required to be both financially independent and take care of their families. Encourage mother-state breastfeeding, and advocate for a second child. It's really hard for a woman to keep her figure and look like at the same time. But who is not difficult in life?

Neither men nor women should give up on their careers. The best way to do this is to balance family and career together. Of course, men also have to take care of the family together.

Family responsibilities are not just the responsibility of the women, but also the men. When two people take care of the responsibilities of the family, the family will be more happy.

In the drama "Our Days", Dongfang is a successful entrepreneur, but he is somehow alienated from his family because of his work, and he also feels lonely to some extent. When his daughter became seriously ill and needed his care, Dongfang decided to give up her career for a while and return home to spend time with his wife and daughter to help her overcome the disease.

In this case, the choice of the East to abandon its career can be understood and respected. In the face of life and family, the value of personal career seems relatively small. At the same time, Dongfang's success also gave him a certain degree of financial security, and he was able to choose to give up his career and go home to take care of his family.

However, it's worth noting that giving up on a career can also mean giving up some kind of fulfillment and opportunity for self-fulfillment. This makes a difference in everyone's values and choices. Therefore, whether it is worth giving up a career depends on the specific situation and values of each person.

One party is already married, and the other party is single and unmarried.

But no matter who you are, work is always a very important part of life, because this is the foundation of life.

1.How to balance family and career.

For the plot in the TV series, in fact, one of the most obvious problems is about Sun Heping's estrangement from his daughter.

In his own opinion, his efforts are actually to be able to give his children a better material foundation.

However, when he gave all his time, and even on the premise that he barely accompanied the children to grow up, in fact, he did not get what he wanted, and even let his daughter look so rusty when standing in front of him.

That's why he regretted it: he had done his best, but the result was always unsatisfactory and he didn't reach his goal.

Of course, for us, perhaps, we can't experience Sun Heping's feelings, because we are just facing a job.

This job can provide a minimum daily consumption for a family and can meet the daily needs of the family.

However, it is true that this job also consumes a lot of time with our family and occupies a very important part of our lives.

Therefore, how to balance and coordinate the balance between family daily life and workplace work has become a problem that many people also need to face.

2.At home and abroad, it's all giving.

Excluding some single men and women who are not yet married, couples who have entered the palace of marriage are faced with nothing more than two problems:

First, there is the sharing of family problems. Second, it is the balance and care of various material needs of the family.

Especially for those dual-income families, the daily contradiction is nothing more than the disproportionality between the pay and the gain.

In the eyes of many husbands, they have been fighting for this family all day, and when they return home, they should get enough rest.

In the same way, the wife also worked a day. She was reluctant to go home and face all the chores, so an argument ensued.

But in fact, the question is never who does how much, but how the other party perceives the other party's contribution.

When anyone tries to do something, he doesn't want to be happy, and they just enjoy the results and ignore their own efforts.

In other words, the out-of-home out-of-home is a contribution to the family, and the care of the home is also a kind of contribution, both of which should not be ignored.

3.You have to know what you want.

For many strong women, the most important problem they need to face is not knowing how to balance family and career.

They are accustomed to putting some of the rules of the workplace in their own family business, which is actually impersonal in itself.

Whether it is the male protagonist outside the female protagonist, or the female protagonist outside the male protagonist, in essence, everyone hopes that your home can become better.