After Lin Daiyu s death, who did Jia Baoyu stay with?

The reasons why Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in Dream of Red Mansions can't be together are:

1, Lin Daiyu's body and ability are not good.

Lin Daiyu has always given people the image of being frail and sickly, which was explained when Daiyu appeared for the first time, if Daiyu marries Baoyu, she will become the future grandmother of Jiafu, and she is bound to be in charge of the size of Jiafu, and there are nearly 1,000 people up and down Jiafu.

And Daiyu's body is obviously powerless, in addition, it turns out that Daiyu does not have such ability, her bitterness, small belly and chicken intestines are not supported by people in Jiafu, all day long Gu Ying self-pity, is really not clever in the world, is a temperamental person.

2, Lin Daiyu has no background support and cannot make her own marriage.

Large feudal families usually rely on marriage to consolidate their social status. Daiyu's parents died when she was a child, she was lonely, and lived a life under the fence in Jiafu without any background.

In ancient times, paying attention to the words of the matchmaker of the parents, Sister Lin's marriage was not decided by her parents, and in that era, women had no status, no matter if Daiyu dared to love and hate, she could not dominate her own marriage, she could only be at the mercy of others and resign herself to fate.

3. The most important reason is: Baoyu's weakness and affection and Daiyu's sensitivity and willfulness, which caused the two to not be together.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Baoyu's affection is famous, he doesn't know how many women in Daguanyuan have had an affair, but Lin Daiyu is naturally sensitive, and she really cried tears for this matter. made trouble with Baoyu, but Baoyu also knew his mistakes, and took the initiative to coax Daiyu every time, making Daiyu more and more willful.

The most fundamental reason why the two can't be together is Baoyu's weakness, in the final analysis, Baoyu is a submissive person, he doesn't have a sense of resistance, he doesn't have any sense of resistance, he has not made any efforts for the love of the two from beginning to end. Let others dictate his fate.

Lin Daiyu. and Jia Baoyu are cousins.

In "Dream of Red Mansions".

The relationship between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu belongs to the relationship between aunts and cousins, Lin Daiyu's mother is Baoyu's aunt, and Baoyu is the son of Lin Daiyu's mother's brother, in our modern terms, it is the relationship between cousins and sisters.

The third chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions" wrote that Lin Daiyu went to the Jia family because of the death of her parents, and she met her only confidant Jia Baoyu in Rongguo Mansion, her love for Jia Baoyu is very real and persistent, and Jia Baoyu also loves her from the bottom of her heart, sincerely.

Dream of Red Mansions has been watched a few times, but I can't tell who is Lin Daiyu and who is Jia Baoyu

Lin Daiyu. Why can't you be with Jia Baoyu.

There are four main reasons for this.

First, feudal etiquette.

At that time, it was in the feudal era, and all marriages were ordered by parents, and the words of the matchmaker! This is also the most important reason.

Second, Lin Daiyu is frail and sickly, and I am afraid that she will not be able to live long!

This is also Jia Mu. Worried. Mother Jia disagreed, Mrs. Wang disagreed, and Xifeng naturally didn't like it, so the upper echelons of the Jia family didn't agree, and this matter couldn't be done.

Third, Lin Daiyu is a person of temperament, straightforward, with a persevering temperament in her bones, and she is not suitable to be everyone's housewife!

Fourth, Lin Daiyu is lonely, under the fence, without power and power!

Lin Daiyu herself also thought that if she had parents, her parents could still talk about it!

The real ending of Dream of Red Mansions is probably like this:

Lin Daiyu died, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai got married, Jia Baoyu became a monk for the first time, and Jia Baoyu's jade disappeared on the eve of the fall of Jiafu.

The disappeared Tongling Baoyu returned to the hands of a monk and a second immortal, and the two immortals handed it over to Zhen Baoyu, who sent him jade as Jia Baoyu's person, so as to wake up Jia Baoyu and make him finally enlightened.

Jiafu fell, Jia Baoyu became a beggar, and when he saw the eggplant code, Zhen Baoyu returned the jade to him.

Zhen Baoyu also told him that this was not a piece of beautiful jade, but a stubborn stone under Qinggeng Peak, and everything was an illusion.

Zhen Baoyu told Jia Baoyu that he didn't exist, he was just a fake Baoyu, just a shadow in the Fengyue Treasure Book, and he was just a phantom shadow of the person in the Fengyue Treasure Book in a dream Zhen Baoyu had before.

After Jia Baoyu learned the truth, after officially becoming a monk for the second time, he followed Zhen Baoyu back to the Illusory Realm to prove the alliance, the cliff let go, the ashes and smoke drifted away with the wind, and the Shenying attendant returned to the Illusory Realm and the Zhuzhu Immortal Grass that returned to the sky earlier proved the front edge.

What was left behind was the monk Zhen Baoyu, Zhen Baoyu took the raft helmed by the wooden monk to support the gray monk to cross the maze, arrived at the other side, and completely realized that life is like a dream.

When Zhen Baoyu was old, he was deaf and faint, one day when he was cooking porridge, he met Jia Yucun who accidentally saw the couplet at the door of Zhitong Temple and stepped into the temple, Jia Yucun saw that he asked not to stare at which to answer, very impatient, so he turned around and left the temple to leave ......