Why do children who were cared for by their grandmothers in childhood know how to be more tolerant?

When the child is young, because the parents are busy with work, most of the children will be handed over to the elderly to take care of, some children will be taken care of by the child's grandmother, and some children will be taken care of by the child's grandmother, the elderly are the child's relatives, no matter who takes care of them, they are all dedicated, young people are very relieved, but there is a saying that the children who were taken care of by their grandmother in childhood, why do they know how to be more tolerant? Let's talk about this topic together.

1. Grandma looks at the older child, and the whole family revolves around the child, and will think that she is the center of the crowd.

The child is taken care of by the grandmother since he was a child, and the whole family will revolve around the child, it can really be said that the child relies on reaching out to eat to open his mouth, and always feels that he is the center of the crowd, so such a child takes more than he gives. Such children often do not know how to tolerate others, and there will be some selfish behavior.

Second, if it is a child who is grown up by grandma, he will realize that if he wants to get grandma's love, he also needs to take care of grandma himself.

If it is a child who answers the grandmother, the child will realize that if you want to make your grandmother love herself more, then you should be sensible, you should know how to be considerate of your grandmother, take care of your grandmother, and not just blindly ask for it, this kind of love is mutual, and at the same time you get your grandmother's love, you also pay love, therefore, grandma sees that older children know more about tolerance.

3. Grandma believes that the child is the continuation of her own life, so she pampers the child even more.

Grandma will treat the child as a part of her body, and when taking care of the child, she will be more accustomed to the child, and the grandmother is more attentive than when taking care of her son, but this kind of intention is not understood by ordinary people, because they are more spoiled by their grandchildren and granddaughters. In this environment, the child will not become tolerant either.

Because grandma helps her daughter take care of the child, she usually helps to take care of her daughter because she feels sorry for her daughter, and they have a more positive outlook, and it is not easy to spoil the child.

Because grandma hopes that her daughter will live well, she will teach her children to love their parents.

In my grandmother's view, the child is an independent life individual, and as another independent life individual, she only plays a temporary role in taking care of her. Grandma has a clear sense of boundaries for her children and does not let them think that they are the center of the world. Children who grow up through their grandmothers can realize that their relationships with others should be an attitude of mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual tolerance.

Grandma will not be too accustomed to the child, nor will she interfere too much in the child's life. Individuals who have grown up in this environment understand that if they want to be respected by others, they must first learn to respect others.

If the grandmother is a child who is older, they realize that if they want to get the love of their grandmother, they should first know how to take care of their grandmother. Only by giving oneself can you win the love of others. And it is better to understand that love is mutual, not one-sided.

You have to love others for others to love you, and this is a benign interaction. If no one in the family knows how to express love, the child will be severely lacking in love. The child himself will not understand how to love others, and as a result, his personality will be greatly inhibited due to the lack of love.

Such children will grow up very slowly, and they will always be one step slower in the process of growth.

Personally, I think it's not so much about grandma taking care of the children as taking care of each other, so the children will be more tolerant.

Childhood grandmother was very doting on children. Because the elderly love their children too much, and even dot on them without principles, but in the final analysis, it is their inferiority complex because of the aging of the body and the gradual loss of individual social value. So grandma is very doting on children.

Spoiling refers to a characteristic of the relationship between the caregiver and the child, which means that the child is too pampered, and the child is used to the child by his temperament. Drowning Liang imitates love, that is, the unjust thing, the scum, the scum, the filial piety, the feelings, to give satisfaction and protection.