How benevolent can a friend be? What to do if a good friend is not benevolent

A friend is the first person who can appear by your side when you are sad, a friend is the person who will be the first to support you no matter what happens to you, no matter what you do, a friend is the first person to lend a helping hand to you when you are in trouble, a friend is like this, when there is a happy thing, he will be the first to want to tell him, and when he is unhappy, he will be the first to think of him, and tell him, <>

I don't know how righteous my friends can be, I don't know how good your friends are to you, I only know, my friends are very interesting to me, very righteous, I remember one time, I was uncomfortable at home, because women, there will be a few days every month, at that time, there was no one at home, and then, I told her, she said, you didn't go to buy some medicine, buy some brown sugar, I said I don't want to move, it's too uncomfortable, and then, he said okay, but, after a while, I found out, my door thought, and, I went to open the door, we saw that it was my friend, it was he holding the medicine in his hand, and a bag of brown sugar, she said hurry up and let me in, it's too cold outside, it's snowing, it's too cold Then, after he entered the house, I found that he was a little dirty, I said what are you doing, she said, it's okay I just fell down, it was too slippery, seeing this scene, my eyes were full of tears, she hasn't sat down since she entered the house. began to boil brown sugar water for me, let me take medicine, and he couldn't fall clearly, so, can have too much righteousness, this is a true friend, I will always remember that scene, my friend, my forever friend, I can't forget the friend, at that moment, I feel that my friend is really righteous, I am proud to have this friend, proud, I feel that I am really lucky to have this friend,

A colleague and buddy of my husband is very honest and extremely benevolent, and he is really benevolent to the point of outrageousness.

My husband's colleague is now carrying a mortgage of 1,500 yuan per month, and his salary is 3,000 yuan per month after deducting five insurances. He still has to eat and dress, so he can't have any money left every month. This is such an economic situation, in the case of ordinary people, if others ask you to borrow money, you must have no money to lend to each other.

He doesn't have any money to lend to the other party, but he is a super invincible and benevolent young man, as long as he treats you as his friend, as long as you open your mouth, even if you can't do it, he will find a way to help you do it, even if he has no money, he will go out to borrow money, and then lend it to you. He was the most righteous friend I have ever met. But not all of his friends know how to be grateful like my husband, not long ago, he had a friend who asked him for help, he had no money, so he gave his credit card to the other party, and the password was also given to the other party.

Later, his friend was not a person, overdrew his credit card of 20,000 yuan, disappeared, and when he reappeared, he never mentioned the matter of repaying the money. And this benevolent and stupid him, he doesn't ask for money, and it is not easy for him to say that the other party. Then he now works until 11 o'clock every night, and he pays off the 20,000 yuan credit card debt little by little.

He is extremely benevolent to his friends, thinking about each other everywhere, and there are hardships and difficulties, but he does not speak, he resists himself, and helps you without complaints. I don't know what to do with such a righteous person, but I hope he doesn't make friends with unreliable people anymore. Benevolence and righteousness are good things, but benevolent and righteous people need more intelligence, so that they will not live a miserable life by themselves after helping others!

Friends are the closest people to us in this life, besides relatives. Friends are like a good glass of wine, and only after a long time can you appreciate its mellow fragrance and the true feelings between friends. There is far from the story of the reunion of the brothers in Liangshanbo in "Water Margin", and there is close to the love of classmates, brotherhood, and the comradeship that can make us remember for a lifetime.

These friendships are treasures in our lives and are worth cherishing.

Friends around me say that my personality is very good, so so far there are a few friends, whenever there is something on my mind, open a ** chat, what troubles, what worries are thrown out of the clouds. I remember that when I was in junior high school, I had a bad relationship with the Chinese teacher, and I had a stiff fight, and my friends around me supported me. She was very angry and asked in the classroom if anyone else wanted to go out, let's go out together!

As a result, my two buddies ran out of the house and had a meal in the cafeteria. At that time, it was very comfortable to find that there were a few friends around me. If there are difficulties, we will carry them together, and if we have good things, we will also take them out and share them.

When they came home from the summer vacation, they worked, and when they got off work in the evening, they opened a few bottles of wine at a barbecue stand on the side of the road, and chatted with each other about what had happened in the past few years after graduation. We have all changed a lot, I have not experienced the warmth and coldness of society in school in the past few years, they have become more mature and more suitable for society. The only thing that hasn't changed is that friendship, once it begins, it is like a surging river.

We cried, got drunk, and ended up helping each other home.

If you don't have a few friends in life, then it can be said that it is a failure, and you don't need polite words in society between friends, just where is a sentence, I'm on the street, come to have a meal, it's enough.

It can be said that when you have no money, he will use money to support you, when you are bullied, he will seek justice for you without saying a word, and when you fall out of love, he will secretly beg your ex-girlfriend to stay and continue to love you.

Seeing the truth in adversity, it is natural that you are not a true friend when you are in trouble.

Since there is a clear distinction between good and evil, it is normal for you to stop associating with him.

But the more I experience, the more I will feel that there are fewer and fewer good people in this society who are purely righteous, and self-preservation is the attitude adopted by most people, so my suggestion is:

1. If you are sure that you can no longer connect with this "friend", then you can be estranged, but this is the next policy;

2. But if it is still inevitable to have contacts, then the relationship must be maintained, at least you can't turn your face into a passerby or even an enemy, or your righteousness will not be wasted; But on the other hand, you must be wary of him, and know in your heart that he is no longer your close friend (of course, there are also people who repay grievances with virtue and thus influence the other party, it depends on whether your "friend" has a conscience).

The words sound a little snobbish, but they are also very helpless, so change the mentality, forgive him, adults don't care about villains, and at the same time remind yourself not to plant the same heel in the same person and similar things, isn't it better?

Friends share.

Three, six, nine, etc., what kind of friends can really make friends can only be realized in the process of communication. Prosperity makes friends, adversity tries them. After experiencing it, I know if it is a good brother in the real sense.

This kind of friend belongs to the third class of friends, and can only be superficially friends, not deep friends. People should be able to endure, not be angry with face, just know in their hearts when they suffer losses, one more lesson to see a person clearly, it is worth it! There's no need to be stiff to **, the next time you have the opportunity, let him also taste "what it's like to be this kind of friend".

But if you don't want to socialize, it's reasonable, let him figure it out for himself.

It's not too much, there is no friendship without breaking up.