How to speak hurt, how to speak without hurting others

If you say that you speak like hurting people, this is actually unnecessary, because swearing is an uncivilized phenomenon, so you need to pay attention to your self-cultivation.

There is no right or wrong in love. Only things made for love will have a judgment of right and wrong, sometimes there will be some behaviors that cannot be understood under normal circumstances, but there is no standard to say right or wrong, it can only be said that love is too persistent, maybe hurt others, or hurt yourself. Loving and being loved is a person's right, but you don't want to affect the normal life of others because of this.

1. Forgive me for being a ruffian and can't be your good girl.

2. Girls should travel around the world first, and then embrace love.

2. The truth has no special meaning to me, rather than being deceived and suffering because I know the truth clearly, it is better to be deceived all the time.

3. Never deceive your friends, they care about you, so don't hesitate to believe you, if you deceive them, you will betray their trust in you.

4. When others are sad, we will always comfort and deceive; And when I was sad, I found that those words could not deceive me.

5. Deceiving others is one of the most painful things in the world, because you have to deceive yourself before you can deceive others.

6. When someone deceives you, it's not just his fault, it's also that you're too stupid, and you believe everything you say. So don't be disgruntled, don't be resentful, and confess your mistakes.

7. You think you are the sun, and everyone else has to revolve around you. You must know that there is only one earth in the universe, and it may make your arrogance burst.

8. The one with wings is not necessarily an angel, he may be a birdman.

9. I really want to send you to the cage to parade the streets and taste the delicious taste of Chinese cabbage and rotten eggs.

10, wait for the clouds, wait for the moon, can you wait for your spring breeze ten miles I am addicted.

11. I'm sorry, my words don't count, and I can't do what I say. Didn't promise you, didn't do it. I was wrong, don't blame me, it's not that I didn't do it, it's that I made excuses for myself.

12. It's been a long time since I've gotten up so early, and I hope that when I wake up, he will delete what he says, and everything will return to normal, and he will be a big pig's trotter who doesn't count.

13. Even if it's a fart, it will stink for a while! What you say is not as good as!

14. When you see the passing shadow clearly, you know that it is a stranger.

15. You don't know that I'm thinking about you because you don't love me, I know you don't want me, but I still love you because I'm too stupid. Maybe sometimes, the escape is not because of the fear of facing something, but about waiting for something.

You talk like a fart and don't know if I should believe you or not.

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation.

Seed. Luck for lovers.

Fu strives to build.

One. A piece of the sky, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a kind of dependence and kindness to each other. Journey. A.

Heart. Move (think. Read.

Time. Heartbeat (phase. See time).

The feeling of heartache (when parting and hurting).

Love someone, to.

Understand and explain, apologize and thank, and admit mistakes.

It also needs to be changed. Wrong, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, is to be tolerant.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

the world. on, each.

Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

If you want to speak without hurting others, you need to be more gentle. Because when you speak for yourself, you are more gentle when you do things. Then others will be able to see that kind of change in you as a person.

So at this time, even if you do something a little worse, then others are willing to accept you. So it comes down to the way you do things. Also, when you speak, you must always put yourself in the shoes of others.

We must learn to observe words and feelings, adapt to different situations, speak in different ways in the face of different people, do not belittle anyone, do not say insulting and excessive words, respect others, learn to praise others when necessary, if necessary, we must learn to praise others, if others do not like to hear, try to say as little or not as possible, and if you have to say things against your ears, you must learn to express them tactfully, and give the other party a step down.

Facing it, facing it, accepting it, sometimes it will make us sober and make us more courageous. Try to make yourself stronger, better fight back and defuse the damage of others.

We should calm down and analyze, why should I be sad? Is it someone else's fault, or is it your own fault?

Hurtful words are spoken by strangers, people who have little to do with them. When she saw whether she knew it or not, Sheng Minglan was neither humble nor arrogant, she was calm, she said: You can't control other people's mouths. The rumors stopped at the wise, and she proved her character with her actions.

There are some people in life who are not worthy of our mere care, strangers and people who are not worthy of our care, whether they say something harmful to you intentionally or unintentionally, you might as well laugh it off. Time is expensive and doesn't have to be wasted on them.

I think you should read more books, and you will find that even if others really hurt you verbally, it is nothing. Either the next time you feel this way, try back, be confident, what are you afraid of, the big deal is that you don't talk anymore, but you don't know people at the beginning, and the worst result is to go back to the way you started.

Or you just endure it, don't think so, many things can actually be dealt with in eight words: it's about you, it's about me. I've been using these eight words to make my way around.

If you are someone who treats us sincerely, you might as well tell us frankly: what you just said makes me sad. You are calm, they understand, and they will pay attention to their words in the future.

After talking about others, we should reflect on ourselves. Why is it that I am sad, is what others say true, or slander? Or is it that you are too weak, too sensitive, and too glassy?

The reason behind this is that there is a big problem with the way we communicate and express ourselves! When we hear criticism, we generally reflexively defend and refute it! However, when we shut up, pause, and think about our own feelings and needs, we can discover our deepest innermost needs and understand the difficulties of others!

Often, we encounter times when communication is not going well. First, pay attention to what's going on, like it or not, and just say it.

If it hurts you by speaking unintentionally, you can be generous and don't care. If you deliberately hurt you by speaking, try to make the reason clear and "fight back" naturally.

Keep smiling, stay calm, and ignore it when it's not right for you to shoot, and let him fart!

I think it's okay for a week.

Good eyes and silver words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in three winters.

Speaking can reflect a person's cultivation and quality. Language is a tool for communication between people, and although words come out of the mouth, they do come from the heart.

I am a person who understands and suffers from it. My predecessor is a prime example. Speak without concealment.

Say what you want, whether you can stand it or not. I remember one year when we had a New Year's dinner during the Spring Festival, according to the traditional custom in our hometown, firecrackers should be set off before eating. This has been a habit since I can remember, and it has been like this every year.

The child and son-in-law went home. When I was carrying firecrackers and preparing to go out to set off them. But he did not say that he was allowed to set off firecrackers, and he had never had this habit.

It made the family very embarrassed, and the children didn't know what to say clearly. In the end, everyone had an unhappy New Year's dinner. It also became our last parting meal.

Speaking hurtful is also called cold violence. It needs to be said and spoken, but it can hurt people's hearts. Some colleagues and friends quarrel once, and they can say anything, just care about being happy for a while, and don't care about the consequences. In the end, my friend didn't have to do it.

Demeaning words: When someone says something demeaning about oneself, it can make one feel that one's self-esteem is hurt, leading to low mood and self-doubt.

Discriminatory words: When others say discriminatory words, it can make people feel discriminated against and disrespected, leading to low mood and low self-esteem.

Words that do not respect one's beliefs or values: When others do not respect one's beliefs or values, it can make people feel that their beliefs or values are being devalued, leading to low mood and inner instability.

Repeating hurtful words: When others repeat hurtful words, it can make people feel helpless and hopeless, leading to depression and trauma.

In the face of these words, the most important thing is to learn to protect your emotions and self-esteem, to communicate with people who support and love you, and to strive for their support and comfort.

Summary. The tone should be calm, the tone should be soothing, and the tone and tone of speech are integrated with your emotions and attitudes, and the other party can judge whether you respect the other party from the tone and tone, if the tone is very heavy, and the tone is also lethal, then you will hurt the other party's self-esteem when you speak like this. The other party can't accept it.

Talking with a smile on your face and a kind smile when speaking will instantly eliminate the barrier and make the other person accept you and be willing to listen to you. If you speak with a straight face, the other party won't buy your account! It may be that a casual expression hurts the person who is most likely to be a good friend.

Learn to praise appropriately When talking to someone, don't be stingy with your compliments, appropriate praise can encourage the other person to be positive and can also increase the other person's trust in you. If you make a sarcasm, he may turn the other cheeks and may even put you in an embarrassing position.

The tone should be calm, the tone should be soothing, and the tone and tone of speech are integrated with your emotions and attitudes, and the other party can judge whether you respect the other party from the tone and tone, if the tone is very heavy, and the tone is also lethal, then you will hurt the other party's self-esteem when you speak like this. The other party can't accept it. Talking with a smile on your face and a kind smile when speaking will instantly eliminate the barrier and make the other person accept you and be willing to listen to you.

If you prepare a stool and talk with a straight face, the other party will not buy your account! It may be that a casual expression hurts the person who is most likely to be a good friend. Learn to praise appropriately When talking to someone, don't be stingy with your compliments, proper praise can encourage the other person to be positive, and it can also increase the other person's trust in you.

If you make a sarcasm, he may turn the other cheeks and may even put you in an embarrassing position.

Say good things by the wayFor some people, Bird Limbs Silver especially likes people who get compliments, you can say good things about the hungry wheel appropriately, and as long as the other party is happy, they will have a good impression of you. Doing things against others, choking on others, what can you get from the feast!

Think twice before speaking, pause when it comes to criticizing people, think about whether some words can be said more tactfully, and whether some excessive words can be deleted. It's normal to not do it well once, and it's good to change it a few more times. Pay attention to the first point of the tone best to be gentle and gentle, so that even if the words are hurtful, they will not sound too harsh.

Speaking skills] 1. Someone else's business, be careful to say. 2。

Less about the elders. 3。The child's business, said enlightenedly.

4。Little things, humorously said. 5。

If you can't do it, don't say it. 6。Sad things, only find close friends to say.

7。Listen to what others have to say first. 8。

The husband and wife discussed the matter. 9。Urgently, speak slowly.

10。Don't talk nonsense about things that don't necessarily happen. 11。

Never say anything that hurts.