Why is a blind date man so realistic, looking for a wife, you have to find the right person?

A friend of mine said that marriage is a kind of transaction, you can find the right person, why look for a bad one, and others don't owe you! Listening to her words, I was more angry. Why are men and women so selfish today, what's the point of a loveless marriage?

At least you have to have love when you're young, and talk about it when it's not suitable, and you have to be worthy of your youth, both men and women in my family! Especially me, I'm still talking about love at such an old age, isn't it in line with today's times? But I like it, I don't have much money in this life, I have always had love, and it is not in vain for me to come to this world once!

I'm never particular about getting things right! If marriage really has to pay attention to the right family, I think the right family should not only be in modern times, but also in the three views should be equal, I bought it myself to find a wife, I must choose the right family, otherwise both parties will suffer after marriage. It's not the reality of men now, but the reality of today's society, and besides, marriage is a major event in life, so there is nothing wrong with reality.

The basic conditions of the family are comparable, the life experience is similar, and it is easy to have the same interests and hobbies and outlook on life.

Values, it is easy to have a common goal when living together, it is easy to communicate and understand each other, it is easy for both parents and families to live in harmony, and it is easy to live happily. It can reduce the trouble behind, and if the conditions are equal, the two sides can discuss any problems, the three views are very important, there is usually something to talk about, everyone is about the same on the material basis, there is no one party who is stronger, and the life is at least more comfortable.

Blind date men. If you are looking for a wife, you have to find the right person. This is only an isolated case.

Some blind date women are looking for a partner. That's how you have to find the right door. Everyone has their own love, reality.

Everyone also has their own ideal of love. Not all of them. It's all about finding the right person and asking for the right door.

They value feelings more. and the other party's character, appearance, career, etc., each has a different emphasis.

This is normal, your family is rich, your work and career are very good, and you must also ask your other half not to be too bad for yourself, only the right girl can help herself, marry a poor family and always have to help the woman's family, definitely not happy, human nature only.

The blind date itself is to look at the other party's conditions, if you can't attract yourself in a short period of time, you will definitely not get along, I believe it is to look at the other party's work appearance, and then talk about it to see how the personality is. It's not that men are very realistic, but there is no way to cultivate feelings in a short period of time, so you have to find someone with similar conditions to yourself. If a woman has other excellent points, the man is also willing, and it is not necessarily the right one.

It's not the reality of men, it's that this society is so realistic. Since he will choose a blind date, it is enough to show that it is difficult to find a partner in society now. Since it was not negotiated by oneself in free love, then it must be necessary to find the right girl to live according to the conditions.

You may have a misunderstanding about the family and marriage is a very realistic thing This family is more people with the same interests and life attitudes Only the right person can reduce the friction after marriage Others like ** You like to dance How to reconcile this contradiction So this is not a reality but an attitude.

It's just a personal perception.

Because some men's traditional concepts are relatively strong, they also have to find the right person when looking for a partner.

This has something to do with his growing environment, and his family's traditional concept is also very strong.

So everyone has their own criteria for finding a partner, and this is understandable.

This is not the reality of blind date men, mainly forced by the current situation! In addition, only if you find the right person, you can have a good married life in the future, and the two of you can communicate well! It is conducive to the stability of marriage!

It's actually good to find a wife to be the right person, so that there are fewer contradictions after marriage, and now society is so realistic, there is nothing wrong with a blind date man doing this.

People who go on blind dates are realistic, everyone just wants to find the best object, and the most satisfied one will enter marriage, so it is inevitable to know more about each other's family conditions.

Countless cases tell us that it is very necessary to be the right person, and the marriage is happier if the concept, material conditions, and other aspects are comparable.

That's for sure! Who doesn't want to find someone as strong as themselves? The woman will also ask the man to have a house and a car.

This is also normal, men are just looking for the right person, think about the women now, they don't have anything, it's not the same to ask the man to have a car, a house and a deposit? It's not as simple as reality, if you are a woman and you have nothing, then will you also find a man who has nothing? Probably not.

Before you find it, you need to consider the other party's conditions, and once you meet someone you like, such conditions are not important.

Because they have their own standards and requirements, they have topics and common opinions.

The same is true for girls, then you can find one that doesn't require the right person, and there are some, and if the family conditions are very good, you like the door.

That's the idea of rich people, they are all the same deals, and they just want to make their own business better.

It's normal to find the right person, but it's hard to get along with those with too different family backgrounds.

Definitely. Otherwise, both parties to the marriage will suffer, and the current society is so realistic, a major event in life when getting married, so it is still realistic.

Now looking for the other half through the blind date channel, it must be a person with a clear goal and will not waste time. It's not just men who are realistic, women are also realistic, depending on what kind of person you meet.

Because everyone has their own different views, the reality of blind date men belongs to personal official thoughts, and the benefits of being a family are right.

Now whether it is a boy or a girl, it is more realistic, whether it is looking for a husband or a wife, they are all hoping to find their ideal type, so everyone's requirements are relatively high, and they have their own ideal type.

Now it's the era of shrimp looking for shrimp and fish looking for fish. Rich families have their own set of plans for disciplining girls, they are all excellent and very good at living, if you can really marry the absolute best choice. But it's too hard.

Nowadays, people are unrealistic, and whoever is looking for a partner wants to find a better one. Everyone wants to find a suitable partner, so this kind of thing is normal, and you shouldn't feel uncomfortable because of this kind of thing.

It's normal for boys to be picky about blind dates, and it can't always be that women are picky of boys, men and women are equal, and boys can also be picky about girls.

I can't see, I can't hear, all the time passes, there are a few cities between you and me, in fact, to put it bluntly, in a blink of an eye, if you are really willing, use time to fill the unwilling vacancy, and then one day to choke on the morning truth.

Because the people who are in the right place experience people or things, or customs and habits are almost the same, they can better increase the relationship between husband and wife in the future married life, and there will be no estrangement due to different opinions or habits.

We live in a reality, only when the spiritual door is right, there will be fewer contradictions between the two people, and the same concept of life will reduce the contradictions

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. Second, the goal of life is to be dissolved.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many simple people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

How to introduce yourself on a blind date, please see below.

1. Name in the first place (what is the general name of others):

Self-introduction is generally a disadvantage that starts with a name, tell the other party your name, and at the same time, you can also tell the other party's family to call your nickname, as well as your friends to call your nickname, etc. (especially some interesting titles, which can open up the atmosphere of chatting).

2. Age (based on the age of one):

After introducing the name, you should tell the other party your age, here the first year is the standard, you can also tell the other party the year of birth, the date of birth on the ID card, do not refer to the lunar calendar.

3 jobs (with their own career plans attached):

After introducing the basic information (pre-name and age), we can start talking about our work. The position of the job, the current treatment, and his own plan for the future development of the work, this is very important, the plan must be meticulous enough, enough to give the woman a certain sense of security.

4 hobbies (it is important to cultivate several interests and hobbies that girls appreciate):

After talking about work, you can tell the woman what she likes to do (that is, her own hobbies), such as singing, traveling, etc., and try to cultivate some hobbies that girls are interested in, such as singing, cooking, photography, etc.

It's not too much for a man to find a woman who is in the right place.

The main thing is to see if the two people are suitable.

It also happens to depend on whether the two people have a common topic.

In this way, the relationship will last for a long time.

It is indeed not too good, and the requirements are not too high, after all, it is also the Chinese idea of Qinghu Liang Tong.

Since ancient times, of course, it has not been the right person to deal with the world. There will definitely be individual cases, maybe a poor boy married a rich woman yesterday.

Of course, it's not too much, and it's been like this since ancient times.

Of course, it's not too much, since ancient times, blind dates have wanted to find the right match.

Hello, love itself is happy and sweet, but the process of pursuing love can be affected by various factors. Among these influencing factors, the subject's family status is one of the most important. Many people choose to break up because of the partner's family.

The reason why this situation occurs is that the gap in family conditions will affect the love between each other, the opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of the two parties, and the other party's family will have a great impact on the relationship.

1. If the gap between the family conditions of the two parties in love is too large, it will directly affect the outcome of the relationship.

The two parties in love are the same or similar in all aspects, and the most ideal results can be obtained, and the communication and feelings between the two people are more likely to reach a harmonious state. If the gap between the two family conditions is too large, the impact on this relationship is very large, and the two people with a large gap in family conditions are very different in terms of living habits, thinking and concepts, etc., it will be difficult to form a common language this time, and it is difficult to maintain such a relationship for a long time, and the two parties are likely to break up because of this.

2. The opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of both parties in love.

For two people who are in love, if the families of both parties are strongly supportive, then the feelings between each other will be deeper, and the relationship between the two people will continue to develop. But if the other party's family objects to the relationship, it will have a very big impact on the relationship between the two parties, and many lovers break up because of this. Therefore, family reasons have a great impact on ...... relationshipBoth parties in love must carefully investigate each other's family conditions in advance to avoid breaking up after falling in love due to family sensibilities.

3. If the partner's family conditions are too poor, it will have a great impact on the relationship.

In real life, it is not uncommon for two people to fall in love and find that each other's family conditions are very poor, so they choose to break up. Although this kind of thing feels a little impersonal, the reality is that way. In the process of falling in love, if the other party's family conditions are superior, then the almost regret rate of successful love will be greater.

On the other hand, if the other party's family conditions are too poor, ......Then the parties are likely to break up because of this. This situation shows that family reasons have a very direct impact on love, so when falling in love, we must pay attention to the factor of both families.