Why should a boy look at the woman s mother when he is looking for a partner?

Marriage is a lifelong event. A man marries the right wife for three generations, and marries the wrong wife for three generations. If a woman marries the right person, she will be happy for a lifetime, and she will regret it for a lifetime if she marries the wrong person.

Many people think that if they get married, as long as they are happy, it doesn't matter what the other party's parents are. But we tend to ignore the fact that humans are sentient animals. As time goes on, we get to know each other better and our relationship deepens.

To the point where it is difficult to give up, even if the other party's parents oppose it, or even if the character is very poor, it is necessary to let the other party's parents' bad and reasonable existence countless times before they can give it up.

As a result, it is obvious that most of the people who enter into marriage without a mature concept of mate selection are unhappy. The impact on the mother is very large. The mother has a good cultivation of three views, and the daughter she raised is independent and connotative, and she has her own opinions. The mother is a good housekeeper, and the daughter's married life.

It won't be too bad. On the contrary, if the mother insists that it is unreasonable, the daughter will do the same. If the mother blindly blackmails emotionally, the daughter will live in an emotional cage and spend her life in resistance and compromise.

Therefore, many parents tell their sons that when a boy is looking for a partner, it depends on what the other party's mother looks like. If the mother is poor in all aspects, the impact on the daughter will be great, and the chances of a happy marriage will also be reduced.

It can greatly promote the formation of a good personality in the father's child and is an important part of the child's good personality**, especially for boys. If the father has a correct understanding of things, the son's three views must be positive. If a father loves his wife, his son will know how to respect women.

Dad is grumpy and machismo.

I don't know how to be nice to my wife. The son also copied the word to himself.

Mother's influence is also very great. The mother has a good cultivation of three views, and the daughter she raised is independent and connotative, and she has her own opinions. The mother is a good housekeeper, and the daughter's married life will not be too bad.

On the contrary, if the mother insists that it is unreasonable, the daughter will do the same. If the mother blindly blackmails emotionally, the daughter will live in an emotional cage and spend her life in resistance and compromise. Therefore, many parents tell their sons that when a boy is looking for a partner, it depends on what the other party's mother looks like.

If the mother is poor in all aspects, the impact on the daughter will be great, and the chances of a happy marriage will also be reduced. Therefore, many parents who give birth to daughters tell their daughters to find a partner, so they must look at the man's father. This is a sign of mature mate selection.

After all, marriage is not child's play, and no one wants to get married and divorced.

You can look at the attitude of the woman's mother, you can see whether the woman's mother will leave you a chance, but also look at the other mother's thoughts about you, whether she likes you, and the other mother's evaluation of you, if the other mother's mother doesn't like you, then the two of you may not have a chance.

What kind of person is the woman's mother, so you can roughly understand what kind of person the girl is, because the mother will play the role of educating the child, so you can see what the girl is like from the mother.

Because what a person's family is, so are their children. Boys can see from the woman's mother what their lives will be like in the future.

Although falling in love is a matter of two people, for girls, because they need to marry into the relationship of the man's family after marriage, this aspect of the factor cannot be ignored. ......Specifically, if you find that your boyfriend's parents are too strong, you will have to think twice about whether the relationship is going to continue. The reason why I say this is because the state of the parents has a very big impact on the child, the man's parents are too strong and will have no impact on their married life, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a factor that girls must consider.

1. The state of parents has a great impact on children. When falling in love, you must consider the factors of the other person's parents.

For each of us, our parents are the ones who have the most influence ...... usOur personal habits, temperament, and behavior are all deeply influenced by our parents. The children educated by the well-informed father and mother are bound to be very good, while the children raised by overly strong parents may be cowardly, or they may be equally strong, and the girl falling in love with the latter is very detrimental to her future......Because of this, when a girl falls in love, she must consider the factors of the other party's parents.

2. The man's parents are too strong, which will have an impact on the girl's married life.

After marriage, the girl has to marry into the man's family to live, so the status of the other party's parents has a very important impact on the girl's life after marriage......If the other party's parents are too strong, they will inevitably ask more about their own lives after marriage, which will affect the happiness ...... their livesAnd strong people are generally difficult to communicate, if the other party's parents are too strong, then the girl will be more difficult to communicate with her in-laws after marriage, and this old difficulty will have a more bad impact on their married life.

3. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a factor that girls must consider when talking about marriage.

For girls, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage is the most difficult to get along with, so it is necessary to focus on ......The man's parents are too strong, which means that his future mother-in-law is very difficult to get along with, and this state is extremely unfavorable for the girl. Therefore, when it is found that the other party's parents are too strong, the girl must carefully consider whether her relationship can continue, and make a rational judgment according to the specific situation to avoid falling into trouble after she gets married.

In this case, I think the man will definitely care.

Now when the man is looking for a partner, in addition to asking the woman to be beautiful, he also requires the woman to have a good family background, and it is best not to ask for a bride price. If the girl's mother is not in good health, of course the man will be very concerned. There are two main things to care about:

First, the girl's mother is not in good health, will she pass it on to her daughter? Second, the girl's mother is not in good health, which means that she has to spend money on medical treatment, and after marriage, if the woman uses money to help her parents, what will she do?

Now that they are looking for a partner to marry, they don't need a marriage test when they get married, and many men are worried about what to do if the woman hides her illness. If the girl's mother is not in good health, the man may be very selfish and think that although the girl is healthy now, if she waits for a few years and becomes sick with her mother, then the man's financial burden will be very heavy and will drag down their family. For the man's parents, no matter how good the girl is, they don't want their son to be too tired in the future.

The man will care about the girl's mother's poor health, and another reason is money. Although a new family was formed after marriage, the woman's parents were still the girl's relatives, and in any case, it was impossible for the girl to leave her mother alone. If you are not in good health, you have to spend money to see a doctor.

Many men think that when the woman marries him, she is a member of their family, and can only serve the man's parents, and can only spend the money on the people in their family, and if the woman gives money to her parents, the man will be unhappy, as if the woman gave the money to a stranger.

Aren't there many families now that divorce because the woman gives money to her parents? I often hear those old men and old ladies in the community complaining to others when they talk about their daughters-in-law, saying that their daughters-in-law think about taking the things at home to their parents' house every day, and give money to their parents' family to spend, and they will not live at all. I'm thinking, does their family have hundreds of millions of assets, worried that the daughter-in-law will give the money to her parents?

Without parents, your son will not be able to marry this daughter-in-law. This is still the woman's parents are very healthy, if the girl's mother is not in good health, I don't know how the man will mind?

The girl's mother is not in good health, and the man is worried that after marriage, if the girl's mother is hospitalized, the woman will take the money to help her parents, how can a selfish boy watch the girl give the money to others. If the girl then runs to the hospital to take care of her mother, what will happen to their little family. In the eyes of the man, this is obviously a loss to the wife and a soldier.

In any case, what is needed to find a partner is that both parties love each other enough to manage a good marriage, and if you give up the girl you like just because of some external reasons, is it a bit too regrettable?

It's hard to say, you may or may not care, it depends on whether the man is sensible and whether he really loves the girl?

1.The man won't care.

First of all, it is stated that the man is looking for a girl, not the girl's mother, her mother's body is not directly related to the girl's body, if you want to get married, it is only the man who marries the girl, and the person who has lived with the man all his life is a girl, not her mother, so he should not care.

If the man is a man, he will not care about these inconsequential details, you think about it, the girl has reached the age of trial marriage, her mother is not young, and slowly enters the stage of the elderly, it is inevitable that the health is not good, and it is the most normal phenomenon of birth, old age, sickness and death.

If the man is a filial son, then he should also be a filial son-in-law, when the girl's mother is not in good health, not only will he not care, but will also visit and take care of the girl's mother, so that the future mother-in-law will look at him differently, then, when the man wants to marry her daughter, she will raise her hand in agreement.

If the man is a good husband in the future, he will not care about the life and death of the girl's mother, he is more concerned about the girl, because at this time, as a daughter, she will be very worried about her mother's illness and not very happy.

If the man is a good man, he doesn't want the girl's mother to be in bad health, on the surface he cares, but in fact, he cares in his heart, because he is thinking, the girl's mother is not in good health, will it bring unexpected pain to the girl, he loves the girl, he is afraid that the girl will be hurt, he cares about nothing else, but whether the girl will lose her dear mother one day, and there is one less person who cares about her.

2.The man will care a lot.

First of all, when he hears the news of this thunderbolt from the blue, he will associate the girl's body from the girl's mother's poor health, whether she will also be like her mother, the body is very weak.

He is worried that if the reason for the girl's mother's poor health may be due to genetics, then the girl's body may be like this one day, then it will be very bad, this is not a lot of pressure in the future, to treat the girl, but also to support the family, whether he can bear it.

If his family is also against caring and has no opinions, he will care more about the girl's physical mother's problems, and he may give up this relationship because of this, leaving the girl sad and crying alone.

Fellow male compatriots, the target is a girl, please don't give up this hard-won relationship because of the situation in her family, you know, there are many singles now, and it is difficult to find a wife.

I think that the boy is not concerned about the condition in the first place, but about whether the girl's mother will cause a burden to their family in the future, as long as the burden is small enough, there should be nothing to care about. In other words, because this concern can only mean that there is not true love between two people. Just like between me and my boyfriend, my mom is also in poor health, and my boyfriend never said anything.

If you are not a powerful person yourself, just an ordinary person, and you want to find an equally ordinary person to marry for a lifetime, to be honest, your equally ordinary partner will definitely mind this. An elder who is not in good health means that your future life will be affected by this elder a lot, and you will spend a lot of time and energy to take care of her and serve her, and it is very likely that your small family will be ruined because of a person's illness. Any boy who wants to be with you should assess whether he has the ability to take care of him for a long time.

On the other hand, if your mother's illness is hereditary, and you have an underlying root cause that may erupt in the future when you get older, then the boy will mind more. Because it means that maybe it's also unhealthy with your offspring, and few men are willing to spend their whole lives on their own, unless there is a deep affection between you.

In my view of love, I only care about the girl, not her family, because we can't decide the family we were born into, and we can't decide the physical condition of our parents, but we can change the family we live in through our own efforts.