In life, those who are really smart, never quarrel?

Quarreling is the most stupid behavior, which not only disturbs one's mood, but also angers one's body.

If you lose the quarrel, you feel aggrieved, and if you win the quarrel, you hurt your feelings. All the quarrels to the end, the one who suffers is himself. Therefore, a truly intelligent person never gets angry with others and does not quarrel with others.

1. Quarrels are a kind of negative energy.

Quarreling has no benefit, it will mess up your emotions, disrupt your life, offend the people around you, affect getting along, and hurt your peace.

Quarreling is a kind of negative energy, arguing and arguing, the demons in the heart take the opportunity to breed, breed resentment, let anger explode, rush out cruel words, hurt people's hearts, and finally deepen the contradiction and make things more complicated. Therefore, instead of wasting time and stiffening the relationship in meaningless quarrels, it is better to be generous, only in this way can negative emotions be eliminated and the spread of negative energy can be cut off.

2. Quarrel and win, lose love.

In this world, there has never been a quarrel to win, to win a quarrel with a family, to weaken family affection, to win a quarrel with a friend, to lose a friendship, to win a quarrel with a lover, and to change love.

No matter who you quarrel with, what you win is just momentum, but what you lose is feelings. People, the more quarrelsome, the smaller their hearts, people, always quarrelling, the worse their temper.

After a long time, temper will drive away your good luck, lose your future and life, and ruin your connections and reputation.

3. Really smart people never quarrel.

Quarrels, waste time, consume energy, only stupid people do. Really smart people never quarrel, because they know that if they are right, there is no need to quarrel, and if they are wrong, they should not quarrel.

Really smart people must be generous-minded, live transparently, see clearly, and they will not get entangled in small things, leaving troubles and troubles for themselves. With an attitude of not arguing or quarrelling, avoid disputes and gain people's hearts.

People, to control their temper, to manage their emotions, when encountering garbage people, do not quarrel, encounter troubles, do not care.

Only with a good temper can it be easy to do things, and only if you don't get angry, everything will be good. Those who do not quarrel, who are gentle and humble, who are easy to get nobles, who are not angry, who are tolerant and generous, will be blessed!

Yes, really smart people never quarrel in life, because they will control their emotions and will calm down and communicate with each other.

People who really have the pattern and ability in life are really smart people, and they will never solve problems by quarrelling.

It is true that those who are really smart never quarrel, because arguing will only embarrass themselves more.

It's not that there are no quarrels. It's that they can find the reason after the quarrel, solve the problem, and don't quarrel over such things next time.

I don't think I never quarrel, but I think that there are many times when I choose to regress and be more able to handle some things, so I usually don't quarrel easily.

The real enemy when quarreling is not the opponent who is quarrelling, but one's own emotions. Hidden in our bodies"Emotions"is the worst enemy of each of us.

There really is no such thing as a fight to win. Both sides of the quarrel will definitely lose, just to see who loses more.

We always subconsciously prevent others from degrading and denying themselves, and everyone expects the outside world to recognize themselves, which is also the source of our enthusiasm and efforts.

And when we quarrel with each other, in order to quickly defeat each other, we will definitely attack each other from the moral and moral point of view. Hence this"Self-worth protection"The red line will definitely be crossed, then it is no more"Who is right and who is wrong on both sides"The problem escalated directly into one"Personality attack battles"with"Personality Defense"。

Therefore, when the quarrel reaches a certain level, we no longer fight for right and wrong, but for the sake of breath. In other words, we are led by our own emotions, so the quarrel becomes a process of struggling with our own emotions.

Once a person is swayed by emotions, the demons will take advantage of the opportunity, and many impulsive behaviors are caused by this. There are many things that cause lifelong regrets on the spur of the moment.

So, when you are provoked, don't fight back immediately, you might as well count from 1 to 10 in your heart first, and then communicate and communicate, which is a good way.

The following passage is one I saw on the Internet"Quarrel tutorial"：

If this person is short, you attack his height;

If this person is fat, you attack his figure;

If this man is ugly, you will attack his appearance;

This woman is rich, and you say that she sold herself;

This man is rich, and you say that he eats soft rice;

If this person is poor, you say that he will not be able to make a fortune in his life.

If you continue at this pace, there is only one way out left for the other party, and that is to die with you.

And the only way we can put an end to quarrels is to learn to be tolerant and think from the perspective of others.

When you meet people who are messing around and insulting others at every turn, don't pay attention. Just smile, wave, and wish them good luck, and continue on your way.

Trust me, you'll be happier by doing so.

Because the bad things have passed, smart people know the truth of life, they better know how to endure humiliation and bear burdens, and enjoy suffering, so they will not fight against bad things, because there is no benefit to themselves.

Because you are always fighting against bad things, it will make you more and more frustrated, your mood will not be bright, and you will feel that life is very boring, so really smart people will not fight against anything bad.

Because such people will not put themselves in a bad situation, they will fight in a roundabout way.

Entangled with bad people and bad things will only affect your mood. Just ignore it.