How long does it take to recover after a failed first love

Actually, the failure you said was just a code for yourself in your own heart, but when you have this shadow, what should you use to satisfy yourself, I personally think that you only need your extra time to go outside, what is failure, those who have seen the Three Kingdoms know, how good Cao Cao said... I won't repeat it here, I suggest you go to the jungle, the field, the wheat field and 、、、 to walk, to open yourself, maybe there will be better results, instead of deliberately comparing yourself with time, it is not worth it, after your mind calms down, it will naturally get better It has nothing to do with time at all, let's go. You will definitely reap the rewards ...

Because I have walked before I will tell you ... Really,

That's not a certain amount of time! It's up to you! Generally speaking, if it is true love, it will not be forgotten in a lifetime, but we have to admit that man is a very strange animal, you fall in love because you feel that you only like him (her) one for the rest of your life, but this is not the case, when a long time, although you may still love him but you may not necessarily love others, no one will really love only one person!

It doesn't matter if you believe it or not, when you meet someone who makes your heart flutter again, you will slowly forget your first love in the depths of your memory!

When the first love breaks up, how long will it take for the boy to return to normal? I think it still has to be different from person to person, because everyone's ability to resist stress is different. Some people break up, recover in a few months, sort out their mood, and then go to find new love.

And some people have been immersed in pain and are unwilling to get rid of it for a year or two. There are also people who have extremely poor ability to resist pressure, and they can't stand the breakup at all, and even do not hesitate to pay for their lives. Actually, I once read an article that said that we love someone is actually loving the same kind of person, and if you lose this, you will meet the next one, so there is really no need to hang yourself on a tree.

Breaking up is a very painful thing, but life itself is full of ups and downs, so we must learn to release our bad emotions, participate in more group activities, participate in more outdoor activities, and distract ourselves, so that we will return to normal sooner.

Breakups hurt both men and women relatively much, but generally men will deal with this kind of relationship problem in a more timely manner, but it will drag on for a long time, and the two will not conflict, and the timely thing is that the boy will quickly come out of the direct shadow after the breakup. But the experience of being with one's girlfriend is something that will never be forgotten for a lifetime, and it will evoke such emotional emotions more than women in certain situations.

The processing time of men for this kind of thing is about 1 3 months, because men are inclined to rational emotions, especially when two people fall in love, the boy himself does not put all his time and energy in the longest relationship, but he attaches great importance to love as a part of his life, but not all, then in this case, the boy can slowly forget the change in his girlfriend's living habits for himself in about a month. Because people who are in love and people who are not in love are completely different in terms of living habits, this is also a habit that will not change in the short term, and will gradually fade after 21 days.

Because people in love, whether they are together or not, what we are talking about here is distance, two people will always communicate, for example, they will chat with their girlfriends in their spare time from work, and they will play ** or ** at night, and then go out shopping on Saturdays and Sundays and watch movies together, which is the normal rhythm of couples. So even if two people are in different places, at least there is a habit of playing ** every day, and a habit is gradually formed, and this habit can be gradually forgotten after 21 days. Therefore, it will take at least a month or so for a boy not to think of his other half every day and not feel that disappearing all the time.

It varies from person to person, people who value feelings recover more slowly, and people who don't value feelings will recover soon.

I haven't been in a relationship or experienced my first love, so I can't share my personal story. But I understand the many emotional entanglements and growing explorations that people go through in their first love, and here are some suggestions that may help:

Sincere communication: First love is not easy, due to lack of sufficient experience and self-confidence, confusion and contradictions often arise. Therefore, it is important to communicate sincerely in a relationship, both psychologically and in life.

If you have any doubts and confusions, you should actively communicate, clearly express your thoughts and feelings, and solve the problem as soon as possible.

Respect yourself and each other: In a healthy relationship, both partners should be respectful of each other's feelings. Over time, if you find that there are too many differences or conflicts in each other's personalities, values, interests, etc., you should make adjustments in time, or give up appropriately, rather than forcing an unhealthy union.

Remember your own plans: First love should not be a dependency or obstacle that interferes with our other relationships or lives, so it is important to remember your life plans and goals. Treat this simple relationship as a learning and experience in your own growth and interpersonal interactions, and master it well and grasp the time.

Cherish experiences and feelings: Whether the first love is a success or a failure, it is a valuable experience and feeling. For those memories that are worth remembering and cherishing, we should keep them and reflect on the gains, mistakes and lessons learned, so as to make useful preparations for a better life in the future.