My boyfriend s Tanabata gift has arrived, but I found out that it was a fake, should I tell him?

Updated on society 2024-08-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    1.If the gift isn't expensive and you know that your boyfriend isn't usually like that, then don't tell him, because he may not understand a girl's belongings, can't distinguish the authenticity of the gift, and telling him the truth will embarrass him, so don't tell him, it doesn't matter if the gift is not expensive, after all, he didn't mean it, after all, it was his heart.

    2.If the gift is expensive and you know he didn't mean it, then it is recommended that you tell him the truth tactfully, don't embarrass him, and then you go together to solve the problem, such as returning the goods, so that your boyfriend can't suffer losses and be wronged.

    3.There is also a situation where your boyfriend knows that the gift is fake, and he wants to buy it to fool youIf you really love each other, tell him the truth, tell him not to do it next time, just express your heart with gifts, and you can't deceive. If you think that your boyfriend is a hypocritical person, then you should also tell him the truth and let him not do this in the future, if he corrects it in the future, it will be nothing, and if he is like this in the future, then it will test the love between you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    This is a sensitive issue that needs to be carefully considered. First of all, you need to consider your own feelings and thoughts, if you feel that this fake gift makes you very uncomfortable or feels that it is a sign of disrespect to you, then it is necessary to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him your feelings and thoughts.

    On the other hand, you also need to consider your boyfriend's emotions and reactions. If he didn't mean to buy a fake to deceive you, it may be because he didn't know enough about the gift he bought or accidentally bought a fake. In this case, you can choose to tell him about your findings tactfully and advise him to be more cautious when buying gifts in the future.

    Whatever decision you make, you need to stay calm and sane to avoid affecting your relationship because of this issue.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The first thing you should do is to judge your boyfriend's status and consider whether he knows that the purchase is a fake. If your boyfriend knows about it, I feel like you have to talk to him about it, because it's disrespectful to you.

    But if he also bought this fake by accident, don't say it, because it will make the relationship between the two of you worse than before, because it is a mutual suspicion.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This question is really tangled, let's just say it, if he knows, it will be very embarrassing, don't say it, maybe he was deceived,Personally, I don't think it's better to say it, so as not to hit his self-esteem and make him unable to get off the stage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In this case, it is possible that your boyfriend is shy and has no money, but he has no choice but to buy some fakes for you, wanting to make you happy and happy, but I didn't expect you to see through it. It's embarrassing, I think he knows, you know, you know, you know, don't say it's better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think it's easy for boys to tell the difference, just like a lot of girls can't tell the difference between buying sneakers for boys, so you don't need to tell him, you can just get your mind.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First yoursBoyfriendIt's his intention to give you a gift, and I don't think you need to worry about whether it's a fake or not, just accept it happily and show it. If you say it, if the boy loves face, then he will be ashamed, if it is an imitation, then he must not have reached the economic foundation, but he wants to give you a favoriteGiftsNothing more.

    It's a thing that two people are happy about, and it's troublesome to find someone to retreat in the end, and it's not necessary to become unhappy in the end. My husband is like that, although he bought it for meGiftsIt's cheap, provided that he doesn't understand romance either, but the moment he gave it to you, he was very happy to see you, and next time he will continue to send it, and my husband also thinks that it will be sentGiftsIt's a happy thing for both of us.

    As a man's point of view, he may not be so careful to understand your mind, but send youGiftsIt means that he cares about you and wants to express his love for you, so! Give him affirmation first, give him positive feedback, but don't hide yourself, and tactfully express to him what you like! Otherwise!

    Hell knows what weird sand sculptures he'll buy you next timeGifts

    GiftsWhat does this kind of thing mean to be in line with the heart?

    Unless in both cases, either it is very expensive and very expensive, or you have indicated it several times with the other party's bold reminder before.

    When people buy something, they have to think about it several times, and there is often a situation where they go to buy and sell again, and they regret it after buying. You can't even figure out your own mind, let alone someone else.

    And reallyGiftsIt's all icing on the cake, it won't make any real difference to your life, but it's also fun to have it, and you can feel the other person's heart.

    So don't always think about what is practical and need this kind of word, as long as you can feel the other person's heart, then you can accept it happily, and it is also excellent to put it at home. If you can't feel the other person's heart, that's even better. Send him a decent smile and say, thank you, you're so nice.

    ReceivedBoyfriendofGiftsWhat should girls do?

    Boyfriendto yourselfGive gifts, no matter how heavy or light, affection is to be "returned". You have to treat it with the same heart, maybe you don't have much ability to "repay" the same ** thing, just do your best with a sincere heart. Between couplesGive giftsMost of them don't care if I send you a hundred, you have to send me a hundred and one.

    GiftsI picked it myself, and I gave it willingly, so you don't let the other party think that he didn't give it worthwhile. Your relationship is good, or there is a longer way to go, and then it will evolve into "what is hes is yours, and yours is yours".

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he knows it's a fake, it just means that he doesn't love you enough. Usually if a person wants to sell valuables as a gift, he will go to a regular store, because he values it so he is afraid of making a mistake. If you are greedy and go to a crooked stall to buy, the chance of being fooled is relatively high.

    Don't talk about anything else, at least this baby is not full of purses and is talking about vanity. That's a little bit of a war. If you can afford it and buy a fake for your girlfriend cheaply, then this "love" will have moisture.

    I didn't ask him to take the initiative to buy a gift, the day before yesterday I asked him what he was doing, I said I was choosing a gift for me, said fancy a necklace, no goods, I asked him what style, he sent me **1000 or so, said that there is no goods and I don't know what to send me, I chose a I like Swarovski 900 or so to send him a link, I said I like this, he said he looked at it, you like to sell it to you, as a result today he gave me a box, when I threw it away directly in front of me, the warranty card is nothing, at first glance, it is fake Before he bought and delivered it directly to our house, this time he couriered it directly to him.

    That means he knows it's a fake, but he's reluctant to pay for it, so he bought it to deal with you.

    The question was also within his reach, yes, he knew what I was going to do to him, so I was angry.

    Therefore, many men have one set in front and one behind the back, and to put it bluntly, he is not willing to spend money for you.

    I also feel reluctant to spend money, I just don't care, I don't love.

    I'm going to tell him, but I'm still pretending I don't know.

    If he is reluctant to spend money within the scope of his financial recognition, he doesn't care, to put it bluntly, he is stingy.

    Of course, you have to talk to him about this kind of thing, otherwise every time you think about it, you will feel like you have eaten a fly.

    Ask him what I should do to him.

    You just say that the one you bought is completely different from the necklace on the link I sent you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The boyfriend didn't mean it. There's a good chance that your boyfriend is a victim just like you. He was deceived.

    The tips that can be tactful are mainly to maintain the face of the boyfriend. The boyfriend was not deceived, and with a fluke mentality, he bought a fake with a fake**. What we should do is still thank your boyfriend for giving you the gift first.

    Wow can be said to speak! It's very expensive, I looked at the counter and asked for 9800. It's so valuable, I like it so much.

    At this time, please ** boyfriend's reaction. If it is really a solid-eyed boy, he will proudly tell you in a tone that he is very good at living at home: Hahaha, it only costs 980 to buy it on **.

    At this time, you can tell him that it is fake! You've been fooled! Speaking of which, it remains to remember the "principle of face" and add:

    A lot of people are fooled! Let's hurry up and return the goods.

    This is a very good opportunity to teach your boyfriend a lesson: you get what you pay for. There is a reason why it is so expensive in the counter, it is because it is **, sparkling, and I will become a princess if I wear it.

    Don't have any speculative thoughts, if you want to give me a gift and make me happy, just go to the counter and buy it. It doesn't matter if you can't afford to buy such an expensive one, we can buy a cheap one, the point is: don't buy fakes, don't buy copycats, so you spend money, and I don't like it, your heart for gift-giving is not cherished, it's a pity, and this fake, I can't wear it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, happy to answer your questions. Do you know how much the genuine one costs? is very expensive. Personally, I think he deliberately bought a fake for you. I just didn't expect you to be so serious. I actually went to inspect the goods. So it can only be a lie.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better to say it straight to the point, it may not be intentional, take care of each other's emotions, find a time to be alone, ask about the situation sideways, if there is a deliberate intention to send fakes, then it may be necessary to change his perception again, if it is not intentional, then you can forgive, everyone is open and honest, don't cold war, you must find two people to say when they are alone, solve it as soon as possible, don't hold it in your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, if he really loves you, he won't give you a fake. I know it's an imitation and I give it to you, so I have to make it clear to you. For such a scumbag, it's better to leave as soon as possible! Thank you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your boyfriend sends you a fake, first of all, don't blindly blame your boyfriend for sending a fake to yourself, because maybe your boyfriend doesn't know it's a fake, maybe he's been deceived. And then there is, maybe it's a mistake in your identification, and it may really not be a fake. Therefore, it is recommended that you ask your boyfriend euphemistically first, I like the gift you gave me, but I feel that this gift seems to be a little wrong, and I don't know that ** is wrong, but I feel uncomfortable.

    You bought it in **, we can't let people cheat it, will it be fake, no, let's find someone who understands. Then look at how the boyfriend explains and handles it, and you will know the answer.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Psychology: What a virtuous and virtuous, thrifty housekeeper, gentle and lovely wife, I really found the right one, God treats me well!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Boyfriend, the gift given to you by Tanabata is too expensive, and he is very happy to return it Because from this incident, your boyfriend not only saves money At the same time, you also know your character You are a girl who knows how to live very well Not a girl who is greedy for money and loves vanity So my boyfriend is very, very happy Maybe sometimes he doesn't say it, but he thinks so in his heart If you also like your boyfriend Then you will continue to date I really envy your boyfriend and can find a girl who is so sensible as you Your boyfriend will definitely like you and will recognize you, and he wishes you a great future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it's still necessary.

    1. Do I need to tell in advance to buy a gift?

    In general, there is no need to inform us. If you give a friend a very expensive gift, you can also explore the path in advance to see what the other person likes. In this way, you can also do what you like and achieve the purpose of giving gifts. No, buying a gift is to give a feeling of surprise and feel that you are romantic.

    2. Should you let the other party know in advance when giving gifts? It's best not to tell the other person in advance about gifts, because people will like small surprises in life, and sudden gifts may make the other party feel that you are more interesting. If you tell the other party in advance before giving a gift to someone else, you want to give her a gift, which will make the other party feel that you give a gift in the form of inviting merit, and the other party's heart will reduce the joy of receiving the gift Under normal circumstances, you need to tell the other party in advance, so that the other party knows your specific time and place.

    Gift-giving is a common occurrence between the two parties, so try to understand each other's interests and hobbies as much as possible.

    3. Should I tell him in advance about a gift for Tanabata? If you give a gift on Tanabata, you shouldn't tell him in advance, because it will be better to surprise him on Tanabata, and carefully prepare some Tanabata rituals before that, such as having a romantic date with him and preparing a hearty dinner, it's okay, and then give him the gift, so that he will be surprised and happy. So don't tell him in advance, there will be no mystery if you tell him in advance.

    If you want to buy a gift, then I feel that you don't need to tell your girlfriend in advance, because after all, it is a gift you gave him, if you tell him in advance, there will be no surprise, and there will be no intention to talk about pure righteousness, so in this case, it is best to give him a small surprise after buying, he may be happier, and he will feel more happy. You don't have to say it in advance, otherwise it won't be romantic, fourth, buy something for a friend and tell him to guess first or later? It's better to tell him first, in case you buy something he doesn't like, waste money, and others don't want it, it's boring.

    If you know him very well and know what he lacks and likes, then you can not tell him, buy it and suddenly put it in front of him, give him a big surprise, he will be ecstatic, always remember this moment, and let your friendship last forever. When you buy something to a friend, tell it first or tell it later, and distinguish whether it is a gift or a help to buy on your behalf. The gift is to be told later, tell it first, the other party will definitely refuse, worried that you will break the fee, but also to surprise your friends.

    If the latter buys it on behalf of your friend, you should tell it in advance and confirm it to avoid buying it repeatedly and causing unnecessary waste. Under normal circumstances, you should tell your friends first to prevent the embarrassing situation that people don't need you to buy something. Out of politeness, you should also make it clear first, and then handle it more reassuringly.

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