What can I do to make myself less concerned about my boyfriend s ex girlfriend?

If you don't want to break up, then change yourself, from your mind to your heart. You mind to show that you love him, and loving him means that there is something in him that attracts you, and if you can attract you, you can attract others, so you can understand it, and your heart will feel better.

Moreover, men like to play, they all want to compete for the world, you can't tie it yourself, let him play, he has been with you, the rope is in your hands, no matter how high and far his kite flies, it can't do without you, right?

Also, you are now a real lady, and everyone else has to carry you on your back, right? So you don't have to play in the big scene? The gun is in your hand, he just went out and wasted some bullets, what are you afraid of?

Men are also nostalgic, he can't let go anymore, what can he do? People won't steal your place, he's just playing, and if you don't let him delete it if he's tired of playing, he'll delete it.

Be kind to him, make him feel better than his predecessor, will he still think about it? You tell me.

I don't know how long the subject and her boyfriend have been talking and what the relationship is, but I want to say that no man wants to make a big change in his current relationship because of his former girlfriend. Unless he doesn't love you too much. If he loves his ex more than you do, then what you have to do now is not worry about his ex-girlfriend, but think about how to open memories that belong to both of you.

So, what I am is to think about the relationship between the two by myself, and I think it's okay, and I have a direct showdown; If it's still close, try to improve the relationship.

When faced with such a situation, you have to combine your own thinking and then make the right choice, and when you decide, then you can't hesitate to drag the mud and water. Because of this, you will still be affected by this event, and you will not be able to have a normal mood to face life. If it is said:

After you think about it carefully, you feel that you are because you are not confident and love your boyfriend very much, so if you particularly mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then in this case, I think as a girl you should learn to change yourself, in fact, the reason why you have such a performance is completely because you are not confident. You can try to change your external image, through exercise, to make your body to a level that you are satisfied with, so that your self-confidence will come up, and if you feel that you can convince yourself not to mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then you will continue to get along with your boyfriend. But if it is said:

After your efforts, you have changed yourself, improved your self-confidence, and made yourself confident, but you still can't convince yourself not to mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then in this case, I think you should choose to convince yourself to give up this boyfriend, since you can't convince yourself not to mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then you can only convince yourself to let go of your boyfriend!

You ask this question and you already feel that it is not a good thing to care about her, or that it has an impact on your relationship. First of all, the more you don't care, the more you will care, and you feel that it's not right to care about this matter, but you blame yourself, which will increase a layer of burden in your heart. Everyone will be more or less a little concerned, you don't want to keep it in your heart, but you have to talk to your boyfriend in a generous and appropriate way, after all, a relationship is a matter of two people.

In fact, you may subconsciously care about the intimacy between your boyfriend and her before rather than this person, and the relationship between you and your boyfriend will become less and less affected by this matter after you are close enough.

Don't put all the focus on your boyfriend. Love yourself a lot, you can tell your boyfriend appropriately, I mind your ex-girlfriend very much, I can't help but think of her in my head, let your boyfriend tell you some bad memories between them.

Actually, it's difficult, under normal circumstances, it's not easy for girls to do it, don't care about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, but what I suggest is not to be too anxious Since he is with you now, you have to cherish the moment.

Personally, I think it's important to be positive, pretend not to be angry, and guide it. You have to be his bosom sister and let go of your girlfriend status for the time being. Inadvertently discuss the problems that arise in the relationship with him academically. And analyze that his girlfriend doesn't love him anymore.

Being your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend (joke) I think you may be insecure, you can have a good chat with your boyfriend, open up, and show both sides. In fact, it doesn't matter if you don't care or not, it doesn't matter, the moment is the most important! (The above is my personal feeling, if you think it's useful, you can watch it, and if it's not useful, just Hu Luo).

Then ignore this person or ignore his relationship, don't dwell on wasting some of your things on this matter, so that you will not care so much, and you will slowly adapt to this situation.

Don't worry too much about these things, you have your own girlfriend now, everyone has a past, don't worry too much.

Be sure to tell the other person what you really think, and don't hide it at this time, otherwise it will leave a lot of hidden dangers.

I think you can ease your emotional anxiety by improving your charisma and making yourself more attractive to your boyfriend.

Through your description, I feel that after you found out about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, you became less confident. I always feel that I am not as good as my ex-girlfriend in my boyfriend's heart, probably because she is a foreigner, which has caused pressure on you.

However, you have your own charm, and if you don't have something that makes your boyfriend's heart flutter, he won't choose to be with you. Therefore, in the future, you should give full play to your unique charm, read more books to make yourself intellectually beautiful, fitness and shape to make your body look more fit, etc., so that your boyfriend will be attracted by your unique charm.

It always takes time for the scars after a relationship to regenerate, and it is impossible to get better all at once. In the process of healing, there will also be unbearable itching, and the urge to uncover the scar again. At this time, in order to heal the scar, please go all out for other things, when it is particularly itchy, press it gently, and say that when you still want to see him, take a sneak and distant look, and then walk away.

For our ex, our injuries turn into resentment towards her or him. In order to live a good life, please let go of resentment, and life must go on no matter what. If you really can't let go, just leave and find a new place to live.

When you really let go and see him or her again, you will find that in the face of him or her, you no longer have the resentment you had back then, and the whole person has calmed down.

For your ex, being in love is the scenery in your future memories, and when you are old, all you think of is sweetness, what grievances, what grievances, all slowly fade out of your mind. Tolerance is understanding, just like the male protagonist in the recently released Korean drama "Knowing the Wife", after getting along with his wife for decades, his wife no longer has the same appearance as before, they love each other, but in the end it has become the maximum limit of each other's temper. Later, the male protagonist returned to the past when he didn't meet his wife, and he was very happy, and tried his best to avoid meeting his wife.

Sure enough, he was married to someone else. Later, he slowly discovered that no woman is perfect, his current wife is beautiful and generous, and the family is rich, but his current wife does not like his family very much, and even dislikes it. And the female owner who didn't look at the male owner, although she is not married, but she is as happy, lively, and cheerful as before, and she came to work in the male owner's company, and the male owner realized that he had made the female owner so unlucky, and the female owner silently took on a lot.

That's why there is a saying, "Because you understand, you are compassionate." Perhaps, your current resentment will ultimately be your guilt for him or her.

It takes a lot of courage and fate to love someone. Sometimes, loving one is not an easy thing to do, it takes all the moments. When you love him, you love him with all your might, and in the end, please use all your strength to understand or forget.

He's traumatized in this area, you don't always have to let him touch it, as long as you're good enough for him, oh, that is, you're really better than his ex-girlfriend, and everything is fine. Give him time and space.

In fact, love is a matter between two people; Only if you really care about him, will you be jealous of the matter between your boyfriend and your ex, there is no need to convince yourself, you may not be able to convince yourself, just say to your boyfriend, because you care, you will care, there is no better way than to let the other party know that you care about him, he knows that he will handle it, please believe your boyfriend, and please believe that being honest with each other is good for each other.

One is that you adapt to him, try something according to his hobbies and habits, and observe whether he changes. The second is that you leave him, and you are not suitable for him. Even the basic daily hobbies are different, how to get common things.

As a girl, you can not care about your boyfriend and ex, but a guy should take into account your feelings. You should communicate with him and let him understand your heart, if he doesn't even care about your feelings, then how can you talk about feelings?

After reading your question, I am very sorry for you! Why do you have to convince yourself that you don't care about your boyfriend's ex?! As long as it's a person, as long as it's a person who really likes each other, you won't mind each other's ex, so you don't have to convince yourself, if you really convince yourself that you don't care about such a thing one day, is the relationship between you still a relationship?

What does that kind of love want him to do!

So it's normal for you to care about this kind of thing, there's nothing wrong with you, what's wrong is that your boyfriend has you and how you are with your ex, just ask your boyfriend, what position will you be?! If you think what I said makes sense, please give one, thank you!

Dear, you can think that everyone has their own emotional experience, let the past pass, the most important thing is to cherish the present. I wish you a better and better relationship.

How long you've been together, I don't feel very good. The experience with my ex may be good, but I think the more beautiful it is, the more it should be forgotten. Normal people can imagine how unpleasant it would be to find that their boyfriend and girlfriend have always left traces with their ex.

Your preferences are also different, and listening to the concert by myself will understand that I don't care so much about your opinion. I just don't like it enough.

This thing is not convincing, it is a problem in the heart, I think no woman can accept her boyfriend and ex, unless you don't love this man.

When you ask this question, you can't accept it in your heart, asking others is nothing more than trying to find an excuse to comfort yourself, but girl, there is no reason for love, we can accept a person's premise is that he has met our inner expectations for the future object and pursues happiness, rather than looking at the low-quality man in front of him and choosing to compromise, understand.

I think you are not confident in yourself, since you are together, there will definitely be a reason for liking, they are separated and there are hard injuries, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, it can't be compared, you are not perfect, and men are the same!

If you feel that he doesn't like you that much, or that he doesn't like you more than he likes his ex-girlfriend, then you have to think about how much you like him, and if you can't, you can divide it.

Since there is pork to eat, why bother with how pigs are raised?