What to do when you are not used to some of your parents behaviors

Have the opportunity to express your thoughts in a peaceful time, but it is more difficult to change them, it is better to be yourself and cause them less trouble.

Hello, think about the contributions of parents in the past, such as raising themselves, spending money for their own education, etc.

Look at the advantages of parents, often empathize, think about everyone's personality is not perfect, no one is perfect, parents are also people, be considerate and tolerant of parents, and communicate calmly.

The grace of birth and nurturing is the greatest kindness in the world.

Treat parents well, is a person's greatest blessing, as a child, should be more tolerant of parents in life, forgive their imperfections, a lifetime is far from as long as we imagined, forgive the imperfections of parents, the family is perfect.

You should communicate with your parents frequently and don't be petty. Only tell him calmly and let him know that this is not right. Because the habits of the old man for a lifetime cannot be changed immediately. As long as they say that this is not right, they will accept it.

As they get older, they develop some habits of their own. You have a different view of their habits. If it's not particularly severe, that is, when their physical health is at risk.

You can patiently talk to them about it. Let them change. If that's not the case, then you twist your head to the side.

Did not see. Isn't that the problem solved?

You can be reminded, but if they don't accept it, you can't do anything, you can only act as invisible.

Because it's hard to want to change people, everyone thinks differently, and it's hard for them to change you, so don't want to change them.

If you are not used to the practice of your parents, you can put it forward, and when it is not recognized, then there is no need to further theorize.

You can find common ground while reserving differences.

Parents do not have to be asked to agree with themselves, and they can keep their own ideas and disagree with them, but they can allow different opinions to exist.

Some people especially hate their parents' behavior and can't accept their behavior habits, how to get along with them?

1.Learn more about your parents' upbringing, understand their thoughts, and spend more time with them. After all, you are not people of the same era, and there are many differences between you.

But through communication, you can understand each other's ideas, so that you can seek common ground while reserving differences, understand each other, and understand each other. You should communicate with your parents more and watch TV with them. Teach them to play with computers and mobile phones, learn about new things in the outside world, and let them have a different perspective on things.

Fundamentally change them in their thinking, let them know that times have changed, and so have our actions and things. Every family has its own difficult experiences, and it is important for family members to communicate and understand each other, which is what a family should have.

2.Be understanding parents. Many years later, the confrontation between these parents and their children has eased, but the inner hurt remains.

Don't be a wound in the other person's heart. It's about family, and we have to learn it. There should be love between parents and children, but in some families, it hurts each other, or suffers or hurts each other in one direction.

Although society is promoting the greatness of parents' love and never mentioning that parents will bring harm to children, both children and parents themselves should face up to the problem of family harm. In fact, many children don't hate their parents, but they don't get the parental love they want. Those wounded hearts and pent-up emotions that have nowhere to release finally turn into disgust for their parents, as if this kind of venting expression can make them feel better.

3.Making friends is unrealistic. Friends are based on shared thoughts and hobbies.

It's hard to be friends if there are differences in thinking. It is impossible for a child to be friends with all his peers, they are just people with similar interests. So, instead of spending a lot of time in the child's heart, let your thoughts be consistent with the child's, and become your child's friend.

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1.Empathy, the important thing to be a child is to be comfortable, you can not get used to their way of behaving in the world, but I hope you can empathize with them, think about the problem from their point of view, so that you can understand them a little. If our parents are not very understanding of our behavior, we can calmly talk to them and explain it.

2.Communicate well once, not enough two or three times, and use real actions again and again to tell the other party that I really love you, instead of saying and saying all the time but doing nothing, and even doing things that hurt the other party, which will only make everything you say become a lie, and make your words and deeds become an untrustworthy performance, which will only make the other party close the door of their hearts again, and it will be difficult to open. For those irreparable families and each other, please choose to let go, you may not be able to forgive those mental and physical injuries, but people always have to look forward, please give yourself the hope of life, let go of those obsessive confrontations, and start a new life of your own.

It's okay to be polite with them and not go against their wishes, but at the same time keep yourself independent and tell them that you are an individual.

That is, for sure, you have to learn to talk to them and let them correct them, because not all parents are right, and you have to make them feel that they are wrong.

If you find that your parents have some bad habits:

First of all, we should be mentally prepared to accept it. No one is perfect, and it is normal for parents to have some bad habits.

Secondly, we can communicate with our parents about the negative effects of their bad habits, so that they can realize it and take the initiative to change it.

Finally, while parents themselves want to change, we can also assist parents and guide them on how to change bad habits.

Accept them, because that's someone else's habit, and it's not something that can be changed, plus others may think they're okay with this habit. So it can only be accepted. But there will be occasional complaints.

If you can't get used to anything, then you can't get used to it. In this world, you don't need to make everyone look at you. Even if that person is your parent. Even for parents, because not every parent is able to understand their children, everyone is different.

is a naughty child, and he won't take anything seriously, so his parents can't get used to everything about you, so they can correct it well, so that parents can have a new understanding of you.

Talk to them, they just want you to do better. It's not that you can't get used to anything, after all, there is a generation gap.

If you want your parents to look good, you have to listen to your parents, do what your parents ask, and help your parents share their worries, so that your parents will get used to and like you.

What if Mom and Dad can't get used to anything? Dad, Mom. If you can't get used to anything, you should explain it to him. Today's society is different from what it used to be, and it needs to be more open. In this way, you can make yourself happy.

It's normal to have a generation gap with your parents. The generation gap needs to communicate more, and if you let them accept your ideas, you will teach them first, so that it will be easier to understand you

If Mom and Dad don't like your business. He wants to see if he thinks it's right. If it's correct, then you move out and live on your own, not under your parents' noses so they won't see it and won't be used to it.

You can temporarily follow their approach, and then slowly change it to your own approach, so that they can slowly accept their own approach and get used to it.

What if Mom and Dad can't get used to anything? Mom and Dad can't get used to anything. It is necessary to adjust one's own mentality and enlighten the minds of parents. in order to adapt to that society. Happy life.

When you grow up, you think that you are the master of yourself, and you think you will be bold and make the decision, and your parents can't be with you for a lifetime. Can you give an explanation to answer the question, why is it always not through asking for an explanation.

Mom and Dad expect too much from you, so try to make yourself better and don't have conflicts with them, so that you will both be unhappy.

Your parents are old and a little depressed, you don't have to worry about your parents, because you are old, you have to forgive.

It must be that you live in a bad **? So they won't be able to look down on you, and if you live well, Mom and Dad won't look down on you.

Parents are the closest people to them, they pay the most for themselves, and they have the greatest impact on themselves, but some bad habits of parents in daily life do make them feel uncomfortable. It has a great impact on oneself, specifically, the lifestyle habits of parents that make them unacceptable, including excessive concealment and frugality, believing in home remedies, and turning off the lights casually.

1.Transitional frugality at the expense of reducing the quality of life makes it difficult for yourself to accept.

Frugality is a good habit in life, but if the implementation of the transition will have an adverse impact, parents pay attention to thrift, but thrift is excessive, some of the normal expenses in daily life are saved, which causes the consequences of the decline in the quality of life, but the gains outweigh the losses, so for the parents' habits, they feel unacceptable.

2.Believe in home remedies and affect your health.

When we are sick, we have to deal with the symptoms, in order to check and talk about the health of ourselves, parents in the disease of the problem of overly believe in the defeat of home remedies, often in this way to ** their own disease, this situation has a great impact on physical health, such a situation is also unacceptable to themselves.

3.Turning off the lights at all times creates even more waste.

In daily life, when they leave the room, it is a very good habit to turn off the lights casually, but in this regard, the parents' approach is not appropriate, specifically, when they leave the room for a short time, they will also turn off the lights casually, and then turn on the lights when they return to the room. In fact, this practice does not save much electricity, but will be damaged by repeated switching of lamps and lanterns, resulting in greater waste, which is unacceptable to parents in this regard. For this reason, I have also communicated with my parents to help them change these habits, so as to obtain a better quality of life and make the life of the family happier and happier.