What does the first half of the filial piety mean when the disciple is regulated

Parents should call in a timely manner, do not slow for a long time to answer, parents have something to explain, to do it immediately, do not delay or shirk laziness. Our parents teach us how to behave and behave for our own good, and we should listen respectfully. When parents reproach and admonish them for doing something wrong, they should accept it with an open mind, and should not use strong words to make their parents angry and sad.

Serving parents should be considerate, the twenty-four filial piety of Huang Xiang (Xiang Jiuling), in order to let his father sleep peacefully, he will help his father fan the bed before going to bed in summer, and warm the bed for his father when it is cold in winter, which is really worth learning. When you wake up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. After returning home in the afternoon, you should tell your parents about the situation outside today, report your safety to your parents, and reassure the elderly.

When you go out and leave home, you must tell your parents to go to **, and when you go home, you have to report to your parents in person that they are back, so that your parents can rest assured. Usually daily life and rest, to maintain a normal and regular routine, do not change arbitrarily, so as not to worry parents.

Even if it's a trivial matter, don't be willful and make decisions without telling your parents. If you act willfully and are prone to make mistakes, it will damage your duty as a child, so it is unfilial behavior to worry parents. Although public property is small, it is not allowed to be collected and possessed for oneself.

If you keep it private, your character will be lacking, and your parents will be very sad to know about it.

Huang Xiang, a native of the Eastern Han Dynasty, knew how to honor his father when he was nine years old and warm the quilt for his father. This is something that everyone who is filial to their parents should practice and emulate. When Kong Rong of the Han Dynasty was four years old, he knew that he would give his brother a big pear to eat, and this kind of respect and friendship for his brother is something that everyone should know from an early age.

Extended information: This is from the "Three Character Classic".

The Three Character Classic is a traditional Chinese enlightenment textbook. Among the ancient Chinese classics, the "Three Character Classic" is one of the most simple and easy to read books. The "Three Character Classic" is based on allusions, including literature, history, philosophy, astronomy and geography, human ethics, loyalty, filial piety, and righteousness of traditional Chinese culture, and the core ideas are included"Benevolence, righteousness, sincerity, respect, filial piety.

While reciting the "Three Character Classic", you will understand common sense, traditional Chinese culture and historical stories, as well as the principles of life and work in the connotation of the story.

Historical Background: There are different opinions about the age of the writing of the "Three Character Classic" and the author's successive dynasties, and most later generations of scholars tend to hold the opinion"Mr. Wang Bohou of Song Confucianism wrote the "Three Character Classic" and taught it in the school", that is, in order to better educate the children of his clan to read, Wang Yinglin compiled a three-character song recipe that integrates the subset of classics and history.

Wang Yinglin was a native of the Southern Song Dynasty, and the historical part of the original work of the "Three Character Classic" only ended in the Song Dynasty. With the development of history, in order to reflect the changes of the times, each dynasty has people to the "Three Character Classic" constantly supplemented, Qing Daoguang period He Xingsi added about the history of the Yuan, Ming and Qing dynasties, a total of 24 sentences.

When our parents teach us, we must listen respectfully. When our parents rebuke us, we should accept it with sincerity.

Children should pay attention to whether their parents are wearing warm clothes and whether their homes are warm in winter, and whether their parents feel cool in summer. In the morning, I should greet my parents, and at night, I should take care of my parents and sleep peacefully.

Be sure to tell your parents when you go out, and report when you come back, so that your parents don't feel at ease. We should have a regular daily life, and do not change our ambitions and chosen careers easily.

Even if it's a small thing, don't call the shots. If you do it yourself, it will be detrimental to your children's duty.

No matter how small things are that are not your own, you can't hide them secretly, otherwise you will make your parents sad and sad.

When the children like the things they want, they should try their best to prepare them completely, and the things that the parents dislike should be carefully removed for the parents.

If we are physically harmed, our parents will worry about us, and if we have a lack of moral character, we will make our parents feel ashamed.

My parents love me, and it's not difficult for me to honor my parents. My parents don't like me, but I'm still filial, which is commendable.

Parents have made mistakes, and we need to persuade them to correct them. When admonishing, you must be kind and pleasant, and your voice must be soft.

If your parents can't listen to your persuasion, then laugh and persuade again, even cry and plead, and be whipped by your parents for this, and don't complain in your heart.

When my parents are sick, I have to taste the medicine I take first to see if it is bitter or not, and whether it is hot or not. Take care of your parents day and night, and wait at your bedside.

When parents die, they must keep filial piety for three years. During the mourning period, filial people often weep sadly because they miss their parents. During the three years of mourning, the husband and wife do not live together, strive for simplicity in their dwellings, and abstain from drinking alcohol and eating meat.

The funeral of parents should be handled in accordance with etiquette, and the worship should be sincere. Treat your deceased parents with the same respect as they did when they were alive.

"Filial piety" means honoring one's parents, and "brother" and "悌" mean uniting brothers and sisters.

"In" and "out" are actually double entendres, and the meaning of this sentence is: whether at home or outside, honor your parents and unite your brothers and sisters.