Now that you are still posting on Moments?

Someone said: "When you are young, you want everyone to know about a little thing; Later, I found that the more people grow up and the more things they experience, the less they want to say. When you are sad, you are used to getting through it alone; When I am happy, I no longer want to share with others. ”

Another person said: "When a person gradually begins not to post on Moments, it is not that he has nothing to say, he is not lazy in recording, but he grows quietly and matures in a low-key manner." Life is meant to be felt by yourself, so why live in a circle of friends. ”

Recently, *** has always tweeted to me, and I see what kind of character you are by whether or not you post it on Moments. Some articles say that people who often share their circle of friends are passionate about life, and conversely, there are no dynamic people in their circle of friends all year round. They are very cold, they are reluctant to talk to people; There is also a saying that people who often post moments are attracting the attention of others, but in fact, life is blank, and people who do not post moments are really enjoying life and real feelings, rather than making their experiences public and letting others**.

Actually, I don't think it's necessary to bring up this topic. Everyone has their own ideas and lifestyles. I can't say that people who love to post moments are just for attention, and I especially like to post moments.

From the comfort of being illuminated by the bright sun, to the elaborate hand-painted and thoughtfully matched copywriting. I want to keep track of my growth and progress. But one thing is that I never post negative energy in my circle of friends.

I don't have a good job in the eyes of others, and I don't have a good "mix" of other people's children. But I'm just happy, I envy others, but I don't compare.

Originally, I read it for my leisure, but I didn't expect that a year later, two "adventures" occurred. One thing was that my college roommate commented to me that she dreamed of me yesterday. It occurred to me that when someone I haven't seen in a long time appears in your dreams, it is a sign that she is forgetting you.

So I think it's a good platform for friends to raise Kai Haoquan, although we haven't seen each other for a long time, but we still have intersections in the circle of friends.

Another thing is that the customer I worked with before had no contact after changing jobs, and after half a year, I suddenly contacted and asked me about my current situation, saying that I felt that I was very literary and artistic, and my gender was very good, and I wanted to introduce my colleagues to me.

Both of these things are unexpected gains, I don't want to get anything from the circle of friends, one is to record my life, and the other is to show myself and feel more and more confident.

Everyone has their own rhythm of life, and finding their own passion is far more important than following the love of others. In the adult world, living your own life is far more important than comparing yourself with others. In fact, the circle of friends is a space to show oneself, and some people like to use it as a record book of life to decorate it colorfully; There are people who want to withdraw from the circle of friends and focus on real-life experiences.

Whether you post it on Moments or not, it belongs to your own choice. Respecting other people's choices is also the cultivation of adults.

One is that I really don't like fake social behavior. With the rise of socializing, more and more people are starting to socialize in the wrong way. Some people will make the ** or text very beautiful, some people will post some fake news, and some people will post all kinds of fake news, which is not my social method.

Secondly, brother, I don't like to show off on social **. Sometimes there will be some conspicuous content in the circle of friends, such as someone will post about the places they have been, the clothes they have bought, the things they eat, etc., I think this kind of behavior is too fake, not like real communication, so I don't like this kind of behavior.

Third, you don't want to be the center of attention. I like to do things quietly, I don't like to get noticed, especially on social**, I don't want to get noticed, I think it's rude.

Fourth, I don't like negativity in my circle of friends. There are often some negative emotions in the circle of friends. For example, some people will post some complaints or negative information. These are not my liking, and I don't like to see such emotions.

Fifth, I'm not used to posting my private information on social **. There are many people in the circle of friends who disclose their private information, for example, some people will disclose their family information, and some people will disclose their love stories, but I don't think it's very good to do this, because the information on the Internet is not safe and easy to be used by others, so I have been reluctant to publish my private information on social **.

In general, my attitude towards social ** is to keep a distance, I don't like to post moments, I don't like to watch moments, I like to communicate with friends face-to-face, which is more interesting than communicating on social **.

With the popularity of the social network and the mobile interstate network, posting moments has become a social behavior and a necessity in daily life. Rush early.

However, now more and more people are reluctant to post on Moments.

Here are some of the possible reasons for this. First, there is increased awareness of privacy.

People are increasingly aware that their personal information is very vulnerable to leakage and misuse on the Internet.

Too much personal information can make people worry and upset.

Therefore, many people no longer easily post on Moments after considering their privacy issues.

Second, the content is too boring. With the rapid spread of information in the circle of friends, many people have joined this popular place, resulting in a significant increase in the amount of information, and the monotonous and boring life** and uninspired text content have begun to make people lose patience.

When you post a circle of friends, if you don't get enough attention and response, then posting a circle of friends becomes a futile thing, and it slowly makes people lose interest in posting moments.

Thirdly, it can cause negative effects. Some people post on Moments to cause unnecessary controversy and strife, or receive criticism or ridicule for posting inappropriate content.

In some cases, this can be psychologically stressful or even hurtful for people.

In addition, some people may choose not to post on Moments due to lack of time or energy.

They may prefer to concentrate on real life or other aspects of things rather than spending too much time on social networks.

In conclusion, there are various reasons why people are reluctant to post on Moments, including privacy protection, poor content quality, negative impacts, and time and energy.

We should be more respectful of other people's choices and try to ensure that people can share their lives with friends in a safe, comfortable, and like-minded environment.

The circle of friends used to be our most common use to record life, and many friends like to share some bits and pieces about life in the circle of friends. So why is WeChat no longer lively now? Why are more and more people not updating in the circle of friends? There are several reasons for a personal summary:

1. The first type of person really doesn't like to post on Moments, has nothing to post, and doesn't know what to post, and has no desire to update Moments.

2. The second is because there are family, friends, and colleagues in the circle of friends, and they are worried that the content they post is inappropriate or has a bad impact. If you don't have a good life, you're afraid of being known by others, and if you're doing too well, you're afraid that others will be jealous, so you still don't send it.

3. The third type may be that I used to love to share my life in the circle of friends, but I was always picked on by some people, and then I slowly felt that it was a shame to share actively, so there was less; Or maybe there are more and more friends on WeChat, and you have to disguise yourself, so you don't want to share your life with others. Because life is becoming more and more complicated, sharing may not necessarily be understood, and others may not be able to empathize, and what is said is in vain.

In short, this is determined by the individual's personality and personal attitude towards life. Whether to post or not to post on Moments is also a personal choice, such as me, I prefer to publish in the headlines, what about you?