Why does the house become an obstacle for many young people to get married?

If the girl I give birth to gets married, my mother wants her to have a house to live in. If it is a son who also wants him to have his own nest, distance produces beauty.

Why are young people now increasingly reluctant to get married? Is life too stressful or not meeting someone like you've been working with for a lifetime?

Because it is becoming more and more difficult to survive in today's society! 1 million to buy a house, 200,000 to buy a car, and 100,000 to get married, these numbers are enough to make you full of fear of getting married! If you don't get married, you can play as much as you want, if you don't love, you will break up, and if you want to love, you will start again!

Live unfettered and live only for yourself! So nowadays many young people would rather not get married!

When you get married, you have a family, and you have responsibilities.

It takes a lot of money to get married and start a family, buy a house, buy furniture, weddings, and so on.

Maybe these are the main reasons, the pressure is too great, and life is not very stable, so I am afraid of getting married.

Take out a loan to buy a house.

Nowadays, young people are like this, and there are not many people who actually have a house.

Pay a down payment first, and pay the rest back every month.

Most of them rely on their parents for the down payment; There are also some families who have money to buy directly; The rest drink the northwest wind.

On the same floor, there are not many people who really have a house, either their parents have a big house and live with their parents, and those who live alone, most of them take out a loan to buy a house, and their parents give a down payment.

Why are young people now increasingly reluctant to get married? Is life too stressful or not meeting someone like you've been working with for a lifetime?

The fundamental reason for people who don't want to get married is the family of origin.

Because people today are not too optimistic about the future.

Nowadays, people take themselves as the protagonists, and there are almost no people who want others to be supporting roles and are willing to sacrifice themselves for love. Most of today's people want the other party to pay for themselves.

And I don't want to give too much, so it's difficult to have a happy family.

Yes, now young people can support themselves and have things to do, while today's young people pay attention to and care about whether they are comfortable and free, but it reflects the hardships of managing a relationship.

Many people think that if getting married means being responsible for raising each other's family, it means giving up their ideals and pursuits, and it means living around the stove and washing machine for the rest of their lives, which is really better than being single.

From a rational point of view, for girls, the biggest role of marriage is actually to bring them economic security, but now the awakening of women's rights, most girls can live a good life even if they don't get married, and with their own strength, they can also have a car and a house, so most of the leftover women are actually so-called "high-quality girls", because they don't need marriage, not that they can't find a partner.

When marriage is no longer the only option for financial security, hard work is more secure than the sacrifices that have to be made in marriage and family. Just imagine, whether marriage can improve the quality of life, after all, marriage is not as simple as the sum of two people's wages, but the cost of economic merger will become larger, and if there are children in the future, the cost will become larger.

And after getting married, the contribution to the family is also very large, first of all, your career problem, not to mention that you can achieve a balance between work and family, this is impossible, as long as you have a family, you will definitely be bound by the family. From the perspective of the workplace, most of the girls who are married but still have no scruples in their careers are on fire in their backyards.

Therefore, marriage is just like the phenomenon of self-employment today, and today's young people's yearning for their quality of life and freedom is deepening, so it leads to the avoidance of marriage nowadays.

Because it is possible not to get married. Marriage is a besieged city, and people in the city want to come out, and now many people outside the city don't want to go in.

Marriage trouble, just have your own things to do

1.I didn't meet the right person.

Like his father's and mother's generation, as long as Bai has met, he can get married without hating each other. But zhi

Why do more and more young people not want to get married? It should be said that it is not that I don't want to get married, but that I can't afford to get married.

The cost of marriage in modern society is too high, and if you want to get married, first see how many of your monthly jobs you can have?

At the minimum, if you want to have a house and a car when you get married, in an ordinary third-tier city, a 100-square-meter house will cost about 1.5 million, and a relatively ordinary car will also need 200,000.

The bride price for marriage ranges from hundreds of thousands, and the marriage partner is not necessarily the one you love. Under such circumstances, some young people have put off getting married again and again.

Today's young people are more open-minded, and the phenomenon of unmarried cohabitation is serious, and some even have children out of wedlock. Since marriage has to pay such a big price, boys feel that they have wives and children, and whether they get married or not is just a formality, so they simply don't pay attention to the form.

What other marriage ceremonies are held? Let's live together! Don't spend money anymore to find it unpleasant. But. The family has also wanted to hold a marriage ceremony for their children. If there is no ceremony, is this marriage or not marriage?

1. I didn't meet the right person.

Like his parents' generation, as long as they have met, they can get married if they don't hate each other very much. But now most of us are only children, and we have a high level of marriage partners, those who want to fall in love, those who want to be humorous, those who like us, and so on.

2. There is not enough money.

After getting married, there are nothing more than three things, wedding, raising children, and adoptive parents. In the past, there was basically a place to live when you got married, but now if you don't have a house or a ring when you get married, most girls don't want to.

3. The bloody side of marriage.

Unmarried cohabitation, pregnancy and miscarriage, missing money borrowed between couples, quarrels and divorces, recovery of bride price, asking for wedding dress fees, photography fees, banquet fees, honeymoon travel expenses and other disputes, I still think that in fact, it is good to be alone, how free, why not find yourself unhappy?

The reason why more and more young people don't want to get married is that it takes a lot of money to get married.

I have asked many "late marriages" and found a very interesting phenomenon, the more young people who do not want to get married, the lower their monthly salary tends to be, and when their monthly income is less than 5k, they have basically lost the desire to get married.

People with a monthly salary of more than 30k are thinking about their lifelong events, and the problem they face is how to find "true love" in the vast sea of people!

The cost of a wedding is enough to empty the pockets of a young man with only a small amount of savings, and there will be more expenses after marriage. Buying a house, buying a car, children's milk powder money, education expenses, child support.

For most young people who are just starting out in the workforce, unless they have a parent who is rich enough to help them out, everything is empty talk!

Because the pressure to get married is too much now. The material pressure makes the boys feel a lot of pressure, and those who can buy a house in full are basically the second generation of the rich, who can pay the down payment loan to buy a house, and those who have a very good job and can afford the bride price, which is a relatively superior family situation. However, most boys come from ordinary backgrounds, and in the face of huge material pressure, they have a fear of marriage.

Nowadays, when young people get married, it is basically the man who buys the house, and the housing prices in the first and second-tier cities discourage many boys from ordinary families.

I can't get a high down payment, and the repayment pressure of the loan is still great, even if I buy a house, the decoration money has not yet been settled. If all this is done, there will be a bride price, a wedding banquet, wedding photos, etc. As for boys in third- and fourth-tier cities and even rural areas, the house is not the main pressure, but the high bride price discourages them, ranging from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands, which scares off many boys.

Why are young people now increasingly reluctant to get married? Is life too stressful or not meeting someone like you've been working with for a lifetime?

Why do more and more young people not want to get married now? The reason for saying it is too real.

The biggest reason is that the financial burden is too heavy, and if you don't get married, one person will be fed, and the whole family will not be hungry. Once you get married, you have a car, a house, a ring, and you have to raise children, and the cost is getting higher and higher.

The main reason is that young people nowadays are under increasing pressure to work, and they are afraid to get married because they are afraid to afford it.

Marriage requires the person in charge to sacrifice some freedom, and young people nowadays don't like to be constrained, so many people don't want to get married.

Because the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, but many young people have developed a fear of marriage.

There are more important things to do, and there is also the increase in the divorce rate.

Marriage is not the result, it is the beginning of a new challenge.

Because the cost of marriage is already very large, but the object is not the person you like.

Because of the increasing pressure and the difficulty of life, I can't support myself, let alone get married and raise children.

Because marriage has to be integrated into the families of both parties and prepare to have children, I feel that the pressure after that is too great, and it is not as easy as before marriage.

Why get married? Earn your own money and spend it yourself, don't rely on anyone, and men and women don't have to make everyone happy. Do what pleases you. Don't think about other people's feelings.

Because the pressure of marriage is too great, housing prices are too high, and many people can't afford it.

The burden is too heavy, the old and the young, and they are bound by the family at a young age, so they can't do many things they want to do.

If you're single, you can rent a house!

Single and long-lived, single women keep safe.

Why more and more people are reluctant to get married is not the fault of men, nor is it the fault of women.

Maybe I'm afraid to enter the grave of love! I always hear people say that as long as you get married, there will be no love, so many young people are unwilling to lose their sweet love, so they hate marriage. In fact, marriage is a matter of course, as long as two people love deeply enough, after marriage, they will still be as affectionate as when they fell in love!

Nowadays, young people are becoming more and more independent, in fact, they are living well without their other half, they can earn their own money, they can buy things by themselves, and what to do when they get married. Getting married is a matter of two families, the responsibility has become greater, there may be children, taking care of children is actually very troublesome, and it is necessary to educate children well, which is not easy to do, and slowly I feel that I am actually very good and free.

Because the pressure is too much now, I don't want to get married. After all, housing prices are so high now, the greater the work pressure, and the imbalance between men and women is serious. As soon as I thought about the complicated things I would have to face in my later life, I became exhausted and more resistant to getting married.

I feel in my heart that it's good to live alone.

I think the main reason is that people's concept of life has changed now. Nowadays, people are more independent, more considerate of their own feelings, if they have a other half, they must not live freely by themselves, and they also have to deal with the problems of getting along with their loved ones and family members, so some people would rather not get married, as long as they are happy.

Today's young people, living under the care of their elders since childhood, have never needed to bear the responsibility of life, and have developed the habit of opening their mouths for food and stretching out their hands for clothes, so they are unwilling to bear the responsibilities brought about by marriage.

It's not that everyone doesn't like marriage anymore, but modern people's concept of life is different. The older generation thinks that when you are old, you have to get married and have children, regardless of education. However, people of our generation have to think about family problems, children's education problems, housing and a series of other things.

Because marriage is a big thing, it is related to the happiness of a lifetime, and the hard work of parenting is a great responsibility, so you can't get married blindly.

Why are young people now increasingly reluctant to get married? Is life too stressful or not meeting someone like you've been working with for a lifetime?

Generally speaking, whether to get married or not to get married is not a reason for stress, but the most important thing is a personal psychological decision. Today's young people are reluctant to get married, and this has something to do with the way people live now. Today's young people do not stay at home, but as much as possible to integrate into the big city, see the world, open their eyes, enjoy the life that is accustomed to a colorful and free life, in the face of a series of uncomfortable problems after marriage, young people choose to escape, unwilling to get married.

The main reason is that there is a lot of pressure, many people are too busy to take care of themselves, they don't have the ability and time to take care of others, and even many people have problems surviving on their own, let alone talking about marriage.

It's not that young people don't want to get married, it's that now young people are under more and more pressure, the cost of marriage is getting higher and higher, and young people can't afford to get married. Of course, it is not excluded that some young people now advocate freedom, and they do not want the fetters of marriage.

Why do more and more young people not want to get married now? The reason for saying it is too real.

Why are young people now increasingly reluctant to get married? Is life too stressful or not meeting someone like you've been working with for a lifetime?

Now it is too difficult for young people to find a partner, the requirements of the people they like are too high, most of them are unwilling to make do, coupled with the pressure of life, if you find the one you like, you will get married, and if you can't find the one you like, you would rather live by yourself, and the ratio of men and women is out of balance, so there are more people who do not get married. It's a common problem now, and there are more singles in big cities.