How much do you know about having children? Is it really important to have a baby?

Before today, I probably didn't know how hard and difficult it was, but today I really feel the hard work of being a mother.

Wait, I'll have to explain that I didn't go through this myself, because I have a sister-in-law who is pregnant, probably seven months old.

Yesterday weekend, I came to their side to eat and drink, to catch up with my sister-in-law today's prenatal checkup, my brother can't spare time at work, I accompanied her, we got up early in the morning, did half an hour to drive to the hospital, this morning is really cold.

After coming up, we went straight to the third floor, went to the ** ward to do an examination, the doctor wrote a list, my sister-in-law went to do a t first, I can't go in and don't know what the situation is, it seems to be to check whether it is a deformity.

Then I went to pay the examination fee or something, and then I went to the first floor to draw blood for testing, by the way, there was also a urine test, and I went to drink sugar water, I was confused, how to draw blood after drinking sugar water every hour, I had to draw blood twice, and we were still waiting at this moment.

My sister-in-law said that it was not easy to get pregnant once every half a month, and she didn't sleep well when she slept yesterday, saying that the child kicked her in the stomach, not to the left, not to the right, and last night she had leg cramps and tortured her.

Suddenly I feel so distressed, those tubes of blood can be made up in a month and two months, my sister-in-law told me not to **, and then reduce it when I get married and have children, otherwise some of them will be supplemented, I suddenly didn't have any idea of having a child after listening to it, it's too hard, this hasn't come out yet, and when the child is born, I guess the troublesome days are still to come.

It's really not easy to be a mother, I hope everyone will be kind to their mothers, and it will be a lifetime to give birth to us and raise us.

This question will have different answers in different times and in different people.

Two. The times are different, people's concepts have changed, and they will have different understandings and views on the issue of having children, and they will put it into life and action.

Some young people are either influenced by Western culture or envy the lifestyle of Westerners, believing that having children will affect their quality of life and material enjoyment. There are also some young people who live in big cities, but the economy is at the bottom of the class, they have no house, no car and no money, and their lives are full of pressure, and it is even more difficult to afford to have children. So these are about these two types of people who want not to have children now.

From the point of view of these two types of people, it is really not important to have children, the important thing is to live your life well.

Four. The times are progressing, each has its own obsession and rhetoric about whether to have children or not, and we can't hold the traditional concept of strict trendy or young people living in low-end cities. Fortunately, there are different concepts, some people insist on not having children, some people not only insist on having children, but also have a boy, so that human beings will not be cut off.

If the young people insist on Dink, after a few years, the earth will be really white and clean.

Since ancient times, people have had to pass on their ancestry in order for human civilization to continue, but now the global population is very large, so I think it doesn't matter whether you have children or not, as long as you like it and your family accepts it.

I think it's still very important to have children, because the reason why society as a whole can continue to move forward is because human beings keep having children. In addition, it is also very important for yourself, because children are the continuation of your life, and if you have children, then your life will be more meaningful, and you will feel more happy and fulfilled.

It is really important to have children because we cannot live without children, children can bring us a lot of joy and happiness and also carry the hope of our next generation.

I think it's very important to have a baby, it's a continuation of life, maybe when you have a baby, you'll understand this feeling, it's really amazing.

Personally, I think it's still very important, because what Chinese value most is to pass on the lineage, and if you can't have children, you will generally not be treated by your parents-in-law.

No, in fact, this society is not ancient now, and there is no need to pass on the ancestry, if the couple thinks that they can not have children, they can not have children.

Not necessarily, it mainly depends on personal concepts, if you like children, you will give birth, and if you don't like them, you will not give birth.

Quite important, right? With a child, there can be a sense of life and a new life. Children add color to life.

So what it means to have a baby.

Yes: 1. Passing on the family lineage, raising children and preventing old age. This is a more traditional view, and most of the people of the older generation hold such a view. I feel that giving birth to children is to pass on the ancestry, and when I am old, I can have someone to support the elderly.

2. Pregnancy and childbirth enable human beings to reproduce and live endlessly. So some people hope that when they grow old, there will be a continuation of life and continue to live in the world.

3. Many people say that life is incomplete without children. In addition to playing the role of a daughter and a wife, a person must also be a mother and experience the happiness of having children. With a child, the Silver Rock of Life is considered complete. Raising a child to grow up will also bring a great sense of accomplishment.

4. Some people think that children are the joy of life and the meaning of life. The wife and children are hot on the kang, so you don't have to worry about everything.

5. A woman who is caught in love often wants a crystallization of love that belongs to the two of them. If you love him, bear him a child.

6. The traditional concept is that a family with children is perfect, and a marriage without children will break up sooner or later. However, the existence of children is not only a kind of reconciliation for feelings and families, but also a test.

7. Forced by the world and the pressure of parents. When you reach a certain age, your parents, relatives, and friends are asking: Why haven't you had a child yet?

Being born too late is not good for your health. Look at how cute the kid next door is! If you don't have children, your home doesn't look like a home, so let's give birth quickly!

8. Go with the flow. Some people say that children are a gift from God, and if you have it, you will not force it, and everything will go naturally.

9. Participate in the growth of children's lives, so that they can have a wonderful life.

10. Some people think that in this world, nothing belongs to them in their original form. Only a child is a living organism created entirely by himself.

I think the point of having a child is that the child makes the parents better.

It is undeniable that before becoming parents, most couples were child-minded. And once they have children, parents will have a sense of responsibility. A friend of mine, before he got married and had children, had no fighting spirit, he only thought about how to spend the day every day, and he had no intention of working at all.

Later, he got married, and the woman gave birth to a lovely son, and he seemed to be a different person, more active in his work, and had hope for Ikuno.

And children are also the bond of the family. When parents feel tired after working outside all day, they come home and see their lovely children serving tea and water, and feel that the troubles of the whole day have disappeared, maybe this is the meaning of having a child! And some couples may not have a very good plan for the future before giving birth, and they may not be gentle, but after giving birth, they will take on this responsibility when they have this responsibility on their shoulders.

Never underestimate your parents' explosiveness.

Whether to have children or not is actually the freedom of every couple. To figure out why you have children, some parents have children just to pass on the lineage.

Children are the continuation of life, and after a hundred years, you have left this world. No one in the world will remember your stories anymore, but the child will, and he will tell those stories to his own children, generation after generation.

If you don't need children to help you care for yourself, then having children is also meaningful, and there are many joys to experience.

To have a baby is to experience life with children. Many people around me say that everything changes after giving birth, and for those who have given birth, there is a comparison, of course, there is a conclusion, and for those who have not had children, talking to them about the meaning of having a child is like a summer worm talking to ice. A little story that we know since childhood, the pony wants to cross the river, I don't know how deep the water is, the old scalper told him that the river is not deep, the rabbit said that the rabbit drowned his companion, and then he tried the river and found that it is not shallow, and the experience of having a child is only to try it yourself, there will be an answer, and the meaning of having a child is to experience the life of having a child.

The meaning of having a baby is to witness one's own time. We will feel that there is a rush in life with children, busy means busy, watching children croaking to their school, work, getting married and having children, watching grandchildren grow up one by one, they slowly grow old, they witness the children grow up one by one, children witness the fact that they grow old slowly, this is the meaning of having children.

When it comes to having children, many people have their own reasons, some people say that children are the crystallization of love, some people say that children are the continuation of life, some people say that because they like children, some people want to experience the process of growing up with children, some people say that children are an accident, some people say, because of the birth of parents, in short, as long as they have children, most of them are because they like and are willing. I think for most women, whether they are married or not, whether they have children or not, how many children they have, the reason why they have children is because they like children and are willing to have children, which is the ideal answer. As for how to choose, having a child is willing and willing to pay and change for him or her, that is the best choice for yourself, rather than simply considering whether to provide for the elderly, otherwise, it is too selfish to think.

Because, there is a lot of joy in having a baby, and don't miss it.

The value of having a child is to extend our lives and make our families more warm. If my clan meets a man whom I love very much, of course I will have children.

The value of having a child is that you will have someone to support you when you are old, and you can also have one more person by your side, and I will have children.

Yes, it can enrich our lives, solve problems in marriage, find the meaning of marriage, and maintain the state of life.

The meaning of having a child is not only to help oneself provide for oneself, but more importantly, the continuation of life and the companionship of each other.

In fact, there are often people who discuss what the purpose of having a child is, in the traditional Chinese family, having a child is to pass on the family lineage and open an insurance for their own pension. But now many people don't care so much about inheritance, as long as they can live a good life, it is more important than anything else.

As for children providing for their parents, it may be possible in some rural areas, after all, parents do have no income when they are old, and they need some help from their children. However, most children in the city are unable to bear the support of their parents, and it is very difficult for them to live on their own, and now it is also popular to gnaw on the elderly.

Therefore, many elderly people often sigh that their children don't need my continued help, and they don't expect him to provide for their old age at all. Moreover, the current social welfare is also very good, and the pension institutions and pension mechanisms can also help most of the elderly to achieve a pension without worry.

So raising children is more of a period of companionship with each other, a family has children, it will become more lively after the collapse, although it will be very hard, but there will be a lot of happy moments. At the same time, you can also experience the continuation of life, especially when you come to the end of your life, the child can still remember your thoughts.