My mother is seriously ill, what should I do?

If you have money, try to find a way to cure her illness, and if you don't have money, you can find relatives to support her, and pay it back when the time comes, because you are still young and can still create wealth with your hands.

Go home and take care of it, let the mother watch, the mother's mood will be better, and the condition will improve, ** also, go home quickly.

You should be filial piety, filial piety first, and your mother should be happy to have you by her side, and the illness will get better quickly.

If you are with your mother, then accompany you to the hospital, take good care of it, and I believe it will get better!

If you have siblings, it's best to get your mother's will.

Try to spend time talking to her and cooking something delicious.

Give it your all, because there is only one mother, and the greatest one.

Go to the hospital as soon as possible to get diagnosed, it's not good if it drags on for a long time.

Hurry up and take her to the hospital, see a doctor, and take good care of her!

Going to the hospital to see a doctor and giving enough filial piety to take care of her is the best medicine.

Go to the hospital to see, you can't see her in pain.

Hurry home to see your mother.

Take good care of her, at critical moments, the most important thing is to guard by your side.

Take care of her and take her to the hospital.

Take care of her, take care of her, or buy some medicine yourself.

Try to make more money, or go to the bank to borrow money. Slowly return.

Set the right attitude and cherish the present.

Take care of your mother, cook for your mother, soak her feet at night.

Mother is important or money is important. It's understandable.

After taking the money, he immediately rushed his mother to the hospital.

Of course, to do my best to take care of my mother.

Because they all want to live a good life.

If your mother is sick and your father doesn't care, this can be a very difficult and frustrating situation. Here are some suggestions that may be useful:

1.Ask for help: You can seek help from family members, friends, or community resources. They may be able to provide the support and care you need.

2.Contact Social Services: Social Services can provide home care services or other support services. You can contact your local social worker or social service agency for help and advice.

3.Consider getting a lawyer: If your father refuses to take care of your mother, you may consider hiring a lawyer to help resolve a family dispute. A lawyer can help you understand your rights and legal options and provide you with support and guidance.

4.Consider seeking mental health support: Faced with this situation, you may feel depressed, helpless, and anxious. Seeking mental health support can help you deal with emotions and stress, as well as helpful advice and support.

Whatever option you choose, make sure you're safe and healthy. Try to stay calm and sensible and seek professional help and advice.

1. According to China's marriage law.

It is stipulated that husband and wife have the obligation to support each other and other responsibilities, and when the mother is sick, the father is indifferent, regardless of whether it is wrong to ask the breadth.

2. If the father does not fulfill his responsibilities to the mother, he can go to the court to sue for a delay in marriage.

3. If the husband and wife have the obligation to support, if there is no divorce, they can request a lawsuit to perform the obligation.

Chatting with a friend, he couldn't stop crying when he talked about his deceased grandfather.

He was raised by his grandparents since he was a child. A few years ago, my grandfather had cancer and had no money for treatment, so my grandmother said that she would sell the only house in the family for treatment. Grandpa said no, I had to keep it.

The reason, naturally, is for their grandchildren.

Grandpa eventually died in agony.

I am reminded of a case I once saw: when your loved one is seriously ill, the treatment requires you to go bankrupt or even in debt, but the success rate is only 55%. In this case, you choose to be cured or not cured.

I also gave my friend this multiple-choice question, if you go back in time and you are faced with the same situation, do you choose to cure or not.

My friend said without hesitation, cure.

I asked why. He said it was the conscience of a man. If the money is gone, you can earn it again, but if your relatives are gone, you can't get it back.

Even if you know that the result of choosing treatment will drop your living standard by a few grades, you may not be able to earn it back for the rest of your life.

I had chosen to use the rest of the money to take my parents on a trip so that they could spend their last days happily.

I think this is the best option, which not only avoids the suffering of the living, but also makes the death more dignified and meaningful.

Although the means of choice are the same, the starting point of the purpose is different, and the nature behind it is not the same.

Another friend also said on the side that if it was him, he would also choose treatment.

His reasoning was that although human beings are selfish, it is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and that choosing not to treat them will be more beneficial to the survival of the individual. But from the perspective of the whole race, the reason why humanity has been able to defeat other races is because we have a civilization that protects the weak.

The weak were once the strong, contributing to the community. If we abandon these weak people for the sake of superficial profit calculations, it will cause an emotional and mental blow to the existing people, the order at the lower level will collapse, and it will be difficult for the ethnic group to go further into the future.

is a bit like the plot in "Spirit Cage", in order to survive the resources, the Lighthouse has to send the old, weak, sick and disabled to travel far away every year. And young Mark thinks it's inhumane. He also hoped that young people would face difficulties head-on, defeat difficulties, take the initiative to create a new situation, and open up a better living environment.

Behind it is a game of optimism and pessimism.

It is also the difference between calculation and calculation.

Calculation is short-termism and focuses on immediate interests. The calculation should consider the long-term benefits, whether you can endure the current difficulties and have stronger resilience to win future benefits.

It's faith. It's courage.

It's determination. Which is the best choice?

There are pros and cons. Short-termism also has the value of short-termism, and if we can't even cross the current threshold of survival, how can we talk about the future?

Long-termism, on the other hand, is more conducive to stimulating people's potential, forcing themselves into an infinite game, constantly challenging difficulties, and making people's lives more exciting.

Most of the time, we don't have a short-term existential crisis. It's just that I'm afraid of the uncertainty of the future, and I put shackles on myself.

How do you start from long-termism and keep yourself in the company of uncertainty?

Day 116.