My parents and I didn t know what to do anymore.

Today's students are very individual, very assertive, very thoughtful, and very willful, but not all of them are right. Today's education requires that school teachers cannot beat and scold students, or disguise corporal punishment of students, but for post-90s students, parents have been a little doting since childhood, so many students have developed a lot of bad habits, including not studying well. But what an educator said is good, there are no bad students, only some students with bad habits, and if these students get rid of these bad habits, they are still good students.

This requires the teacher's teaching and the cooperation of the parents, explain more to him, communicate with him more, be his close friend, let him trust you, and only then will he listen to you. I am also a homeroom teacher, and I have met a few such students in the middle, and I often talk to them, and now they are much better. I wish the world full of peach and plum!

In fact, we can listen to our parents' opinions, but sometimes we can't listen to them all. Jobs that are not approved of by the family are often those who work from home and do not go to work, or do things that do not seem to be a proper job, which will make the family feel disgusted.

For example, those freelancers, as well as the kind of work that they do at home, including online writers, etc., are not formal jobs in the eyes of their families.

In my opinion, if you want to stick to a job, you must first bring yourself enough salary, at least ensure that you can "survive", and then see if you really like the job and whether you are willing to continue to do it for 20 years or even a lifetime.

If your work meets these two conditions, you can stick to it.

Also, the changes are very rapid now, and the elderly are quickly abandoned by the times, and there will definitely be a gap between the cognition of parents and children. Therefore, parents' advice to children in terms of social experience does not necessarily have great reference value, society is changing, and people are also changing.

If parents are not people who keep up with the times, then their advice can not stop, for example, the gaming industry, which was called an unserious profession by parents twenty years ago, has today become a cool profession in the eyes of young people.

For parents, they think that only jobs within the system are good jobs. The idea of parents is that a stable job, a decent job, is a good job. But in terms of actual situation, they do not have a clear understanding of the industry and the situation.

For the selection and judgment of the industry, in fact, parents and us look at problems from different angles, so the direction of thinking is also different. We can listen to our parents, but it's definitely up to you to make your own decisions.

At this time, it is not appropriate for us to quarrel with our parents, but we should properly talk about the advantages of the industry, so that parents can dispel their resistance. Maintain a good parent-child relationship with your family, and don't let your parents chill.

Also, you should look at yourself objectively, analyze your strengths and weaknesses, and then decide what industry you are better at. Be good at digging into your own strengths, so as to find a path that suits you.

It's normal for parents to always understand from their own point of view. Everyone looks at things from their own point of view, and doesn't care too much about what others think.

As long as you do what you think is right, as long as you don't regret it, then you do it boldly.