What should I do if my mother is not doing the right thing?

It's not easy for a mother, not a mother will never understand, now your mother belongs to menopause, grumpy regardless of right or wrong, but you have to think about giving birth to you and raising you is not easy, even if you are not convinced, but to repay you with virtue is also the best child, you can be treated badly by others, but you can't be unkind to your family, thank you.

Was it like this before? Maybe it's menopause and there is pressure on the family, which requires mutual understanding and understanding, don't quarrel with her, be a little patient, if everything goes well, it may be better!

Menopausal women are like this, buy a wife to meditate on her, encourage her to maintain her health, Tai Chi

In fact, she needs to vent her emotions, and a woman's nagging can be more common, and you can go in and out of your left ear, and you can take it as a kind of love for her

Really, really sympathize with you and your sister.

Compassion is useless, the key is to solve the problem.

Judging from your account, your mother is wary of people, and it may be that she has been psychologically hurt before, so that she subconsciously thinks that people are bad, and once this concept is formed, it is difficult to change. In fact, she herself is also very uncomfortable, but she can't help it, you can try to untie her knot, when she realizes that the thing that hurt her is not her fault, she will change her opinion, and her mind will suddenly open up.

Try to find out what your mother's greatest wish is and satisfy her more.

1. Maybe my mother is in menopause, so she should let it go more. Between you and her, communicate more, be more considerate, be calm, and think about how great your mother is and what she has done for the family.

2. Sister, you have to enlighten her more, it is impossible for a family to become, educate your sister, don't encourage your mother.

3. Look at her more and care about her. On the dad side, it is husband and wife, so maybe it is better to communicate.

4. It's really not okay to see a psychiatrist.

5. Spend more time with your mother, go shopping or something.

Solve the troubles of children's growth, parents can't manage the "bear" children who can't be managed by the school.

Normal mothers will not have this idea, and single-parent families should also avoid it.

It is wrong for the mother to do this, first of all, it is wrong to argue that it is wrong for the two bastards to indulge, and it should be resolved through legal procedures; The second is to lie to his daughter, and it is not fair to his daughter, giving preference to men over good women.

It's definitely not right, this mother's approach is so infuriating.

It's definitely not right, what a lack of virtue,

Friend: There are a lot of things you say, and I don't know which one of them you is aimed at, but in general, it is a little thing in life.

Based on what you say, I assume that you are not very old and have not yet experienced many things.

None of us can choose who is our parent, because this is a gift from God, you can imagine what your life is like if your mother is not by your side, who makes breakfast every day, who is by your side and does not let you be lonely, who takes care of you when you are sick, who cares about you when you are out.

Everyone is not perfect, there will be one or another shortcoming, everyone has a lot of things that don't go well, and if there are many things that don't go well, you get used to it, you don't have to worry about everything, try to love your mother with your heart, tolerate her, and everything will be fine.

Take the initiative to care about your aunt and communicate with her more and better.

This is the generation gap, and my mother is also self-righteous and often says something that is not brainless to make people angry, and I will scold in my heart: "Stupid woman." There will also be a sense of disgust in my heart, what should I do, I don't like to get along with my family and don't even plan to go back for the New Year, but I will send money back, compared to the people who gave me life and raised me, the kindness is not to be forgotten.

My own mother, no matter how bad it is, I have to learn to tolerate. It's not easy for old people, they haven't enjoyed any blessings in their lives, in fact, all these stingy intolerances in your opinion, in other words, are the fault of poor days. It is estimated that there are many improvements under your efforts now, but the traces left by the old man over the years are not so easy to change, as children, be tolerant, if you can't be tolerant of your mother, then how can others be good to your mother?

Parents are old, give them more love and care! God will reward you!

Anyway, she's also your mother, and she's under a lot of pressure, so you have to understand her, accept her, and behave well in front of him. Of course, you also have to know what she said wrong, but it's best not to directly confront her.

Mother is always a mother, this cannot be changed, not the same as others, when you feel that you can't get along with others, you can stay away, don't contact, don't interact, your life will immediately return to what you want, and you can't face your mother.

This is how I handle my relationship with my mother, respect all her behaviors, always keep smiling, but don't communicate with her, don't disagree with her about anything, and when I really can't smile, I immediately let go of anything and leave the scene quickly, so as not to make a big fuss with her.

When faced with other relatives, I interact according to my own attitude, ignore her attitude, ignore all her advice and abuse, just smile, and then go my own way.

Actually, my mother can't do anything about me, and I can't do anything about my mother, and my mother's attitude is much more relaxed for the sake of my smile and respect for her, and we just maintain a balance.

I don't understand the things at home, so I turn a deaf ear, you do what you think is right, you should do it, the older generation of mothers, there is no way, you can't hear it if you hide away. After all, if you are not in good health, you may also harbor evil fire, and your words will hurt others, which we can understand but can't empathize. Don't think about what to do, and think about it to make yourself angry.

Forgive and forgive the mother, filial piety to the mother, we have to learn the advantages of the mother, do not learn the shortcomings, to be considerate and understand the parents, recommend the book "The Four Teachings of Fan", you can study it, and then recommend that you can read the Buddhist scriptures, and recommend the "Guanyin Bodhisattva Pumen Pin" can be recited often, Amitabha.

You can talk more with your brother and be patient, your mother should be a little more relaxed, it is useless to quarrel, communicate well and control your temper.

There is no way other than to try not to touch, try not to stay together.

Life is very realistic, you can only improve your psychological quality, see people talk about people, and talk nonsense when you see ghosts.

Next, I can only work hard ...... silentlyKeep the pressure on and push forward.

Otherwise, you will have to choose not to touch your mother.

As for your mother, it's not due to pressure

Relatives and friends should be more or less connected.