What to do in the face of uncivilized behavior of parents?

In the face of the uncivilized behavior of our parents, we should point out and criticize them in time, we should criticize our parents like a mentor, and we should have the courage to do so, because if you don't do this, your parents often do some uncivilized behavior, since it will affect you, this is also a bad influence on yourself, so you should criticize and point out in time, and you have to change your parents' uncivilized behavior.

In the face of this situation, you should immediately stop him, and tell him that such behavior is uncivilized, and will have a great impact on some children around him, or in ordinary times, you instill some civilized behavior ideas in her, show him some civilized ** short films and criticism of uncivilized behavior, and want them to change their uncivilized behavior from ideology.

In the face of parents' uncivilized behavior, we should point it out in time, instead of choosing to cover it up, because we have family affection to do this kind of thing, but should report it in time, and point out in time, only when you report it in time and point out your parents in time, can you realize the mistake of your uncivilized behavior and be able to make changes, because they will want to show their best side in front of their children.

In the face of your parents' uncivilized behavior, you should communicate with your parents at this time, you should let them understand that such things are wrong, so that they can clearly realize their mistakes, and say that they are your role models, and let them pay attention to their own behavior.

In fact, sometimes some of the uncivilized behaviors of parents are not what they really show, but they may not care about this kind of detail if they are not careful, so sometimes if you see it, you can secretly tell your parents in private, you must not let your parents lose face in front of everyone, which is actually a very serious matter for them adults.

In the face of the uncivilized behavior of our parents, we have to persuade in time, for example, my father often spits phlegm out of the window when driving, which may fall on the glass of the rear car, which is really uncivilized, so every time I will prepare some paper in the car and try to communicate with my father.

I face the uncivilized phenomenon of my parents, as a child, I must point out in time that his uncivilized phenomenon is wrong, even if he is our parent, but he has a lot of shortcomings and wrong, so as a child for their good, we should work together to solve it, and change his phenomenon.

First of all, in the face of obvious uncivilized behavior, choosing to step forward to stop it will help to develop a good civilized habit. When faced with uncivilized behavior, if you don't stop it, then it will be easy to condone the development of these uncivilized behaviors. So the best thing to do is to step forward and stop these uncivilized behaviors.

Of course, when communicating with others, Oak should also pay attention to his speaking attitude and not be overly excited. Be kind enough to remind others instead of criticizing their behavior. Because everyone has a time when their memory is poor or when they are sloppy.

Use proper methods to stop it in time. When going out, it is inevitable to encounter uncivilized behaviors, such as littering, lying on park benches, spitting, open defecation and other uncivilized behaviors. However, when stopping this uncivilized behavior, you must first ensure your own safety before you can come forward to stop it, if the other party is a lot of people, and it seems unfriendly, then even if you want to stop the hail high, you must pay attention to ways and means, if you are really weak and powerless, it is best not to care, so as not to cause trouble for yourself, of course, if you resist the beating, you can still manage.

Also, when you stop it, don't insult or ridicule Liang Bi as soon as you go up, which will only intensify the contradictions between the two sides.

I think it's time to rise up.

However, the resistance here does not mean intensifying the contradictions, but using legitimate methods to stop them in time. When going out, it is inevitable to encounter uncivilized behaviors, such as littering, lying on park benches, spitting, open defecation and other uncivilized behaviors.

However, when stopping this uncivilized behavior, you must first ensure your own safety before you can come forward to stop it, if the other party is a lot of people, and it seems unfriendly, then even if you want to stop it, you have to pay attention to ways and means, if you are really weak and powerless, it is best not to worry about talking and laughing, so as not to cause trouble for yourself, of course, if you resist beating you can still manage. In addition, when stopping, don't just insult or ridicule the other party at once, which will only intensify the contradictions between the two sides and escalate the things that could have been handled happily into unsolvable matters.

Therefore, when we are faced with this kind of uncivilized and impolite person, we should step forward and tell the other party with kind words: "This is a public place, please don't let uncivilized behavior appear", if the other party is interested, they will immediately terminate their behavior. If the other party recognizes the garbage, you can give the other party a plastic bag or paper towel, and the other party puts the garbage in a plastic bag or wraps it in a paper towel, and then tells the other party where the trash can is.

If the other person is lying on a bench in public, you can go straight to him/her, ask him or her to get up, and tell him or her that you should sit here too, as long as he or she has no problem with his or her head or is not a scoundrel, he or she will get up and let you. Therefore, these ways of counterattack are also a way for us to stop uncivilized behaviors, when we face those uncivilized behaviors, we must stop what we should stop, and we cannot allow such people to destroy the harmony and civilization of our society, after all, it is the duty of every citizen to create civilized cities and civilized villages.

In public, if the child has uncivilized behavior, then as a parent, it is enough to directly stop the child's behavior and let him become a well-educated child, and get used to the early education of the parents.

A child is a civilized little angel.

The child has grown up with his parents since he was a child, and when he behaved uncivilly around the age of three, it was because he was too young, curious about everything, and didn't know what was right and what was wrong.

When I was six years old, I was still uneducated in the world of curiosity, that is, there was a real lack of discipline.

Yes, he was spoiled by his parents and like a little devil at home, but when he was away, Ziheng must make him like a princess and prince.

When a child is ten years old, he is still hated in the world of his peers, if it is not a character flaw, then there is a flaw in his behavior, so his bad behavior is because he has not been disciplined for a way of self-growth.

If it is a mistake that others are not involved, then the child's behavior intention is really a wrong behavior, then it is enough to educate him directly.

In public places, he can't mess with others, can't make insulting remarks to others, and can't do anything excessive when others are not dealing with him, so that he understands how important it is to keep a civilized distance from others.

Tell the child what is the personal image that comes from nurturing behavior, give him a rose attraction in the world of praise, and let him understand that his personality should be a sharp edge.

Let the child know that he is popular, let him understand what kind of lifestyle the social image of the pampered orange finch is, he will always like sweet and sweet, because he also does not like to be emotional.

Let the child get along with a civilized society for a long time, and you will meet the child who is getting better and better, because he is completely nurtured and has a beautiful teenager.

Let the child become a civilized and famous little genius in a public place.

Because children can find out who is a loser in the public image.

He was willing to succeed.

It should be stopped immediately, and it should be restrained immediately, so that the child will understand that this behavior is not correct, if the first roll is not restrained at that time, the child will often do the same thing in the future, and it will be too late to regret it in the end.

I think that this time should stop the child's behavior, and at the same time, Fu Xun should teach the child that his behavior is not scum and right, and he must recognize the mistake in time.

Parents should stop their children in time, criticize them, and ask them to correct their behavior.

Hello, friend. When I try on clothes in the fitting room, I sometimes encounter children and parents who are not polite and affect me. At this time, you need to take appropriate measures to deal with it in order to protect your own interests.

Specifically, at this time, you can respond in three ways: facing rationally and calmly, persuading and educating people to convince others, and protecting your own rights and interests in accordance with laws and regulations.

1. When encountering children and parents who are not civilized and polite, they should be rational and envious and deal with it calmly.

When you encounter children and parents who are not civilized and polite, you must not make excessive words and deeds because of impulse, but should face it rationally and deal with it calmly. ......In this way, you can avoid unnecessary trouble for yourself because of impulsiveness, and you can solve the problems you are facing more properly. This is obviously the most beneficial way to deal with it.

2. You should persuade others to solve problems through persuasion and education.

For the uncivilized behavior of the other parent and child, you can't deal with it by replying, which can only make the problem more complicated.

The correct way is to criticize and educate the other party through persuasion and education, so that they can realize the mistakes they have made, correct their mistakes, and apologize to themselves. ......This approach can be done to convince people, so as to obtain the most ideal solution.

3. You can protect your own interests by protecting your rights in accordance with laws and regulations.

When I encounter unreasonable children and parents, and I can't solve the problem of slippery matches through persuasion and education, I should protect my interests by defending my rights in accordance with laws and regulations.

Specifically, you can solve the problem through the store, and you can also solve the problem by protecting your rights in accordance with laws and regulations, and these measures can effectively protect your own interests and make the problem most beneficial to you. When this is achieved, one's own interests can be best protected.

Uncivilized behavior in children is an inevitable phenomenon in the process of growth, because the environment in which we grow up is very complex, and children's ability to imitate is very strong, especially preschool children.

He has no concept of these incivilities.

In general, there may be several reasons for the uncivilized behavior of children:

First of all, it comes from the unconscious imitation of parents. When a child has uncivilized behavior, parents first check whether they have such uncivilized behavior in front of their children, the younger the child, the greater the impact of the family microenvironment on the child. Because imitation is the main learning method in infancy and toddlerhood.

For one, the unintentional uncivilized behavior of parents may become the object of imitation by children.

Secondly, children live in the social environment, and everyone has it, so the influence of the external environment is also a major **.

Again, some uncivilized behavior of children is self-protection. For example, aggressive behavior towards children with wisdom.

Since children will inevitably be exposed to uncivilized behaviors in the process of growing up, it has become the responsibility of parents how to deal with these uncivilized behaviors.

1. Guide children to understand the world and have clear boundaries of peace of mind.

When the child has these situations, parents should not rush to characterize the child in the first place. As parents, when we see our child's uncivilized behavior, we always think that something is wrong with the child? For example, when a child beats his or her own playmate, parents often teach their children a lesson, and often hear their parents say in a trembling way

Baby, that's a bad boy. "I saw a parent with their 3-year-old daughter playing with another 3-year-old girl, and when the two had a bit of a conflict, the girl pushed the other girl.

The mother was very angry and said, "A good boy can't do this." "It's like the child didn't listen to his mother at all.

The same pushed again, and at this time the mother became even more angry and said, "So-and-so, if you do this again, I will throw you in the trash." Bad boys are meant to be thrown in the trash.

This mother actually made a mistake, there are many reasons why the child pushes another child, it may be in the protection of self, maybe according to her pei nada, the other child wants to bully him; Or the child has seen others pushing people and thinks it's funny. At that time, after the child pushed for the first time, the mother could squat down and say to the baby very calmly, it is not good to push people like this, and the mother does not like you to do this. In this way, the child feels respected, which may not be the case, but the mother is very angry and says that it is not a good child, first, she puts a label on the child, and secondly, if the child throws the child into the trash can like this, it is a kind of conditional love.

In fact, there is no good or bad good or evil for 3-year-old children, at this time as parents must guide their children and make clear boundaries, but they must not blame the children, the children are in the process of understanding the world, you just need to squat down calmly and tell the children that they can't do this.