How to overcome the shortcomings of not wanting to be friends with people who are better than you?

There is no such thing as a perfect life, and neither is a perfect life! Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, look at your own strengths and discover the strengths and strengths of others! Of course, if we find that we really need to fix a problem, or if we can improve ourselves through learning, we can make a plan, supervise ourselves, or find someone to supervise!

The most important thing is to persevere! You can always achieve your ideal state! Believing in yourself can change you.

You must weaken your arrogant and strong psychology, indecisive habits, respect for others is equal to respect for yourself, and only when you are approachable can someone participate with you, in order to get a confidant and someone to fear you. An indecisive, who does not receive advice from others, and does not get the support of the people, is often taken out of context as the name suggests, which makes people disappear and do not work together, so it is necessary to find the problem from this adverse reaction.

To understand and appreciate other advantages, know what the advantages of colleagues around us are, we can only get along with the advantages of others, in order to have a good mood and a good start to work with the team to complete the work, do not underestimate the power of praise, let alone stingy praise words, appropriate praise of others (from the heart), will everyone cooperate with a good lubricant.

There are many ways to go from strange to familiar process, but don't do it deliberately, the company usually provides some team activities for everyone to get familiar with each other, but individuals can have some small tips to speed up the process, for example: I personally like to make some desserts (biscuits and the like), bring them to the company, in terms of communicating with people, inadvertently let everyone taste my craft, it is also an informal way of communication, but the effect is not bad. After breaking the ice, there will be opportunities for further and in-depth communication.

I have been working in Beijing for nearly 10 years, successively served as several corporate executives, and have come into contact with a lot of outstanding professional managers and corporate CEOs with an annual salary of tens of millions, and it is a kind of luck to work with excellent people. According to the law of attraction, if you make yourself excellent first, you will naturally attract excellent people to you.

It is important to ask others for advice in a targeted manner, so that the other party feels that their profession is valued and respected, and as a newcomer, you must know what you want, and then keep your true self, treat others sincerely, and believe that "sincerity" is the beacon on the way forward.

Very few good people I know struggle with how to get along with other good people, and the really good people seem to have one thing in common, which is to follow their inner voice, and they are more concerned with how to be themselves than anything else. Because in fact, many questions can be answered from ourselves, and there is no need to ask for external answers. Secondly, on the question of how newcomers who have just entered the workplace to get along with others, I am in charge of human resources in three steps, and I have more dealings with people, so I am more sensitive and concerned about interpersonal relationships.

Selfishness and multi-mindedness, everyone has it, but the degree is different. Instead of overcoming your own shortcomings. It's better to play to your strengths. Let's see what you're good at.

If you want to make friends with people who are better than you, then you have to learn first, go into their circle, and make yourself as good as them, or even better than them!

What kind of person you are, what kind of person you will meet, so try to make yourself stronger and better!

Learn from the best.

If you want to easily deal with people who are better than you, you should learn more from these excellent people in ordinary times. In the process of learning, we should not only learn from their thinking patterns, but also learn their ability to act, and learn from the experience of these people who are better than ourselves, so that you can slowly improve yourself. When you're about as good as someone like that, there's something to talk about.

Be able to recognize your own shortcomings.

If you want to deal with people who are better than you easily, you must be able to recognize your own shortcomings in ordinary times, and only when you fully realize your own shortcomings, when dealing with these people, you will continue to reflect and learn more from these excellent people.

Be humble and ask for advice. If you want to deal with people who are better than yourself easily, when doing things with these excellent people, if you encounter a problem that you don't understand, you must humbly ask these excellent people for advice, don't pretend to understand, if you are a really good person, you will be especially happy to share your experience.

I'm afraid this is a little difficult.

First of all, people who are generally very good will not want to make friends with people who are worse than themselves.

If you are really lucky enough to make good friends with them, learn from them and learn from their strengths and strengths.

It's very simple to make friends, but it mainly depends on the other party's mentality, if the other party is not willing to make friends, no matter what kind of method is not possible at this time, so at this time it is okay to take the initiative to approach.

To be friends with excellent people, it is okay to take the initiative to approach at this time, of course, everyone may be at a different level, the mentality is different, and sometimes it may be difficult to come together.

How do you make friends with people who are better than you? I think that to make friends with such people, first of all, you must respect talents and praise others, and they will be friends with you.

First of all, you have to be good yourself, if you are not good enough, it is difficult to have a common topic with people who are better than you.

Under normal circumstances, excellent people are honest and trustworthy, and only by treating people with sincerity can they make friends. The so-called black is black and red is the truth.

Excellent people are what we want to become, and there are ways to get along with excellent people.

First of all, we need to strive to enhance our own value. Because in the process of getting along with excellent people, we can't provide value to him, and over time, we are blindly asking for value from him. In this way, we are a burden on excellent people:

Not only did we not help, but we needed him to help constantly. Over time, this unhealthy relationship can lead to good people slowly alienating us. Because, we want to make ourselves as worthy of excellent people as possible, at least we want excellent people to see the great potential in themselves.

Secondly, we should keep a normal heart when we get along. "Neither humble nor arrogant" is a very healthy way to get along. But when we associate with excellent people, it is easy to lower our status to cater to the other party.

In fact, excellent people are not always excellent, and there will be a process of improvement. In fact, he also knows the state we are in now, and he has experienced it. If a person is too humble, or even flattering, excellent people will definitely look down on him.

Then, we can consciously ask good people to help. Psychological experiments have shown that a person will have a crush on the people he has helped. Because a person helps you in the end, the subtext is that he thinks you are a good person.

After that, he will still have the same opinion when he sees you. It's a great way to connect with great people. Of course, we don't completely ask for it, and we can symbolically send a WeChat red envelope to express our gratitude.

Finally, we need to provide value to good people. No matter how good a person is, it is impossible to be free of troubles. We can take a closer look to see what problems excellent people can help with, and in this way, let excellent people see their own value.

In the end, not only can you get along with excellent people happily, but you can also get a steady stream of value from the other party.

Excellent people refer to people who have a particularly high attainment in a certain aspect or a super strong person in a certain aspect of spiritual will, excellent people generally have a great personality charm, and the characteristics he has will make people unconsciously want to get closer, want to be friends with them, and feel very happy to know such a person. So, how do we get along with people who are better than ourselves?

Keep a normal mindset.

The excellent person is not a god man, the excellent person will also have his own weaknesses, to get along with them with a normal heart, when you see the excellent point of the excellent person, you must look at it with an appreciative attitude, not only to see their excellence, their excellence is also inseparable from their own diligence, so when getting along with them, you must keep a normal heart, do not be jealous, and do not feel inferior.

Keep up with the left and right. What I mean here is not to follow him to the left and right like a little servant, but to say that if you feel that you are not as good as him, you can study or work with him as a relative equal, and you will become quite good under the influence of your ears and eyes.

The influence is generally imperceptible, and the habits of these excellent and poor re-showers will gradually become your own habits in your study, an excellent habit, and slowly treat your own excellence and the excellence of others as a normal thing, then you have become an excellent person.

The above is my personal opinion, I hope it will help you with your doubts. As excellent people, they are also under pressure, and they can have their own shining points, because of his personal diligence, which is not obtained in a vacuum, so it is good to treat them normally when getting along with them.

Don't be inferior to people who are better than you, the wild liquid has its own benefits, and it doesn't need to be a long one, and he is better than you in this regard, and the aspect of not being cautious may not be as good as you. The line is the champion.